none of this is serious, girlie. comments made on this and any other thread and opinions of people on this site shouldn't mean anything to you. I don't know how many times I've been called "manly" on this damn site because of my muscle. lol i don't get upset over it because the only opinions that really count to me are my own and those of the people that i love - my family.
you are very attractive and I know you've worked hard at it - I've read about your progress.