i need advice on this one guys

[mrbigg]

heres the story, im a straight male and i had sex with i girl i knew a little bit, i heard she may have been around. i wore a condom. i was a little buzzed and the condom slipped off when i was thrusting. i came inside her. she didnt get preganat or anything. i had absolutely no sores ,scrapes or cuts on my penish. i told her i was worried about contracting anything like hiv. she said definitely that she is clean. was this a high risk. its been 9 months, i never got any kind of symptoms of any std, i seem perfectly healthy, no drip or anything remotely like that. what kind of risk did i really expose myself to???

 

[Conceptions]

damn, same thing happend to me but i didnt even use a condom and i was only inserting my penis for a little while. i didnt cum in her though.. but its been like 8 months since that happend. no cuts or anythign either. i'm not sure if i got this before or after but i have like a little thing on the "head" of the dick. its probably the size of this period ' . ' and it hasnt grown or anything... also now i see that when i get a hard enough erection like i see lots of little tiny spots... i cant say spots because they arent actually spots. its hard to say... i feel like if its happening maybe because puberty hit a stage where this had to happen? im guna be 17 in a month and a half. and im wondering the same thing as you. if anyone recommends ANYTHING, like a website with online doctors, or forums, anything. i told my parents about this but they havent taken me to the doctor yet, they said its been so long that i probably have nothing.

 

[DoseOfTruth]

The misinformation on this board is scary.

If you are a circumcised male with no open sore / STD on your penis - having vaginal sex with an HIV + girl is of very little/no risk.

Your chances are roughly 1/10,000 acts - if that.

There have been documented studies where circumcised men have had hundreds of vaginal sexual encounters with HIV + females without a single seroconversion (transmission of the HIV virus).

Think about it - you need an exhange of your blood and her blood or infected vaginal fluids. When during regular sex does this occur??

Answer - it doesn't.

 

[Seth28]

bro you are high! you can and will get HIV even if you are circumsized and the seroconversion is a hell of alot higher than 1 in 10,000. HIV is in Vaginal fluid and the mucosa in the urethra isnt a good barrier so speaking of misinformation......

 

[DoseOfTruth]

here you go:

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Abstracts - September 2, 1997
AMERICN JOURNAL OF EPIDEMIOLOGY

Heterosexual Transmission of Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) in Northern California
Results from a Ten-year Study
To examine rates of and risk factors for heterosexual transmission of human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), the authors conducted a prospective study of infected individuals and their heterosexual partners who have been recruited since 1985. Participants were recruited from health care providers, research studies, and health departments throughout Northern California, and they were interviewed and examined at various study clinic sites. A total of 82 infected women and their male partners and 360 infected men and their female partners were enrolled. Over 90% of the couples were monogamous for the year prior to entry into the study; <3% had a current sexually transmitted disease (STD). The median age of participants was 34 years, and the majority were white. Over 3,000 couple-months of data were available for the follow-up study. Overall, 68 (19%) of the 360 female partners of HIV-infected men (95% confidence interval (CI) 15.0-23.3%) and two (2.4%) of the 82 male partners of HIV-infected women (95% CI 0.3-8.5%) were infected. History of sexually transmitted diseases was most strongly associated with transmission. Male-to-female transmission was approximately eight times more efficient than female-to-male transmission and male-to-female per contact infectivity was estimated to be 0.0009 (95% CI 0.0005-0.001). Over time, the authors observed increased condom use (p<0.001) and no new infections. Infectivity for HIV through heterosexual transmission is low, and STDs may be the most important cofactor for transmission. Significant behavior change over time in serodiscordant couples was observed.

 

[enlightened]

When it comes to a topic like HIV, its not really fair to quote something from 5 years ago unless you can verify the points still valid today. "The facts" about HIV are constantly changing. 5 years ago we thought it was very little risk to contract HIV from oral sex - now "studies" are finding that in half of new positive cases where HIV was contracted through sex, only oral sex was performed.