I have made some decisions

[canadianhitman]

1. Get back the letter, or any other letter, that in any way mentions your faults in the break-up.

2. Hire a P.I., get some pics/proof of her seeing this guy if she still is.

If it ends up in divorce court, you're gonna need all the ammo you can get to keep from getting massacred. You have to play to win, starting NOW. If things work out, then great...a few bucks wasted and a few games played unnecessarily. BUT, if it ends up going down the toilet, you've taken prudent steps for your financial well-being.

 

[hooch]

Damn...just fucking end it. The damage is done. I'm sure your kids heads are all messsed up. They'll be so much better off when you and wife stop fucking around and move on and put this shit behind you....

And of course that counseler is gonna paint a rosy picture with hope...its keeps you coming back so she can bill your insurance. Wake up bro...