I cant take it anymore!!!

[TheOak84]

Well I wish I can have a swinger wifey like GG

<3

 

[TC2]

We did talk about it before, she said the fact that I dont trust her, the little bickering and me puting her down about certain things makes her not want to. I can understand that. I used put her down about not goin to the gym or not having any hobbies other then shopping etc. that was years ago, she might be dwelling on the past. Ive changed 100% since then. I dont argue about petty shit, I stand by her throughout and im more envolved in the relationship, she said this is the best the relationship has been and she is happy. Maybe it was me and i took her feelings for granted?

fuck her...she's lying to you.

 

[deco]

We did talk about it before, she said the fact that I dont trust her, the little bickering and me puting her down about certain things makes her not want to. I can understand that. I used put her down about not goin to the gym or not having any hobbies other then shopping etc. that was years ago, she might be dwelling on the past. Ive changed 100% since then. I dont argue about petty shit, I stand by her throughout and im more envolved in the relationship, she said this is the best the relationship has been and she is happy. Maybe it was me and i took her feelings for granted?

nagging and fighting and all that other bullshit really kills my desire to have sex with my girlfriend. Shit I'd rather have her talk to dudes and make me jelous as opposed to having her talk about how I'm talking to too many girls and the risk of cheating etc etc. That shit always kills any sort of joy to do anything, be a man about it and make it exciting instead of depressing. If you want to take her to the gym, grab her hand and drag her out. Be exciting and spontenous so you can provide some fresh energy to the relationship. I also think you guys spend too much time together, which was the problem with my current girlfriend but not anymore. I was turning into a couch potatoe, would spend my nights and weekends with her or getting shitfaced with some friends. Life was getting boring and creating this negative energy around me. That's why I had to stop and start living again.
I mean think about it, why did your girl first like you? or better yet, what type of guys do girls generally like? is it the boring fat asses sitting at home with no life or any sort of prosperity. It almost seems like these girls want to bring you there, seperate you from your stupid friiends that they hate, get all the attention from you and so on. But when that happens, I think the fact that your life have become absolutely fucking boring might actually hurt a few things, inculding you and her.
So this is why I think you need to cut that string that's atached to your balls right now, stop bitching and get after it. Put some energy back into your life, fuck that only will take your mind off the bullshit thats going through your head right now. I don't think she fell in love with a pussy, and don't get me wrong I'm not trying to hurt your feelings here or anything, as a matter of fact I've come to realize this myself here a few months ago when I made thread saying how I don't wanna fuck or kiss my girlfriend. The problem was, I slowed down in life, we became like and old fucking couple nagging and bitching. Fuck sex, I didn't even wanna masturtbate. You need to fire those engines up and stop letting bullshit get to your head.

 

[TheOak84]

Ya, thats what im trying, I also have a shitty home situation, my gf knows this. I try to make the best of us. It has been getting better.

but today, just now we were flirting and shit on my bed, about to get touchy feely and shes like, i wana nap. I took that as a sign of no sex, so i came here. she was like wtf, why did u leave ect. so, am i over analyzing shit?

 

[deco]

well that just created a conflict so it probobly put both of you out of the mood. You shoulda started playing with her pussy, don't rape her but do initialize sex and be in control since she doesn't sound like she's a wild one. If she rejects again, try not to make a huge deal about it cause then she will feel guilty and do it, neither of you might enjoy it too much and it will blow up in your face at the end anyway.
Try talkin about sex to her, be open and see what happens. Make her feel comfortable without any tension. Find a way to get her horny. If not it's probobly better to not stress it as much cause I think it will only make it worse.

 

[rnch]

usually this doesn't happen until AFTER you get married.

if she still wants to be "just friends", fine....nothing wrong with that.

but YOU need a new GIRLFRIEND.

 

[medical]

We did talk about it before, she said the fact that I dont trust her, the little bickering and me puting her down about certain things makes her not want to. I can understand that. I used put her down about not goin to the gym or not having any hobbies other then shopping etc. that was years ago, she might be dwelling on the past. Ive changed 100% since then. I dont argue about petty shit, I stand by her throughout and im more envolved in the relationship, she said this is the best the relationship has been and she is happy. Maybe it was me and i took her feelings for granted?

Then change back to Mr. Asshole....I bet you were hitting it hard then. Some girls just can't get horny with a nice guy....she feels she has "changed" you all she can so the thrill is gone for her. Either way it is over....and you already know that. Dump her, get some strange, and you'll probably have her showing up at your door at 2am for some wild sex.....for a short time. Then just move on....please.

 

[deco]

Then change back to Mr. Asshole....I bet you were hitting it hard then. Some girls just can't get horny with a nice guy....she feels she has "changed" you all she can so the thrill is gone for her. Either way it is over....and you already know that. Dump her, get some strange, and you'll probably have her showing up at your door at 2am for some wild sex.....for a short time. Then just move on....please.

that will probobly work too

 

[solidspine]

Sounds like a tough situation.

 

[Cutiebaby]

I am sorry to hear about this. I am going to try not to be too harsh here...

However, She is not worth it.Let her go. What good can possibly come out of a sexless relationship, especially one where the fem has more fun and interests with her friends than her "lover".
You wanna know my opinion? Here it is....She is either a lebian or cheating on you.At first I thought that maybe she had issues but dude..Really how many couples do you know that have this problem? She has made it clear that she is not attracted to you. She does not want to have sex and she does not enjoy spending time with you. If you ask me, she is not worth it. The aggravation of it all... And at this point there is no need for an ultimatum. Just leave her. I am sure there is far better out there for you!