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[megamania500]

I'm 38 and my last interest turned out to be 20. We noticed each other, and the body language flirting began soon after. Of course, that let to talking and getting to know each other. There were definitely some sparks there, damn. I loved the way she lit up whenever she saw me coming. She was a cross between Gina Gershon, that gypsy girl in the movie "Thinner", and that girl that played Will Smith's love interest in "Hitch". I was hoping desperately that she just looked like a young 30 or 27 at the very youngest. My heart sank when I found out she was just 20. I cut all ties, because of the potential complications. And it still sucks when I think about it, even after a couple months now.
Same thing happened early last year. She turned out to be 20, also. I tried to create distance before it went to the next level. But she didn't want to give up, and she tried to get me to spend her 21st birthday with her. Like one more year would make a difference.
When I was 32, I dated a 19 year old, because she pursued me and I didn't see any harm in it at the time. It didn't work out because her and I were just too far apart maturity-wise. Then when I was 34, I dated a 22 year old. She would ask her friends to guess my age, and they would answer 23-25. She seemed to like it when they would be surprised after she told them my real age. Although she was fun to be with, I knew she wasn't relationship material so I ended that one, too. I knew I didn't want to invest years into a relationship that would just end up not working out. That's a big fear for me, especially now since I'm almost forty.
It seemed OK for years to be taken for younger than I actually am. But now I want to be seen for my age. I was told just a few weeks ago by a co-worker that I look about 28. Sometimes I think a woman my age wouldn't be interested in me because she would assume I'm years younger than her.
I really would like to meet someone closer to my age, but I have yet to meet a woman who I feel sparks for, since they are already taken or they let themselves go by the time they reach that age. There have to be some great catches out there that I would be happy with, and I keep looking.

I wouldn't even consider dating someone younger than 28-30.

 

[immortalis]

lmao @ all the Woody Allens on here
Me-18
her 46
and I fucked her daughter

still got their numbers?

 

[drols of steel]

I'm 28 and alot of the women I hook up W/ anr 18-21. I don't find that we are at all compatable on a mental level, but I just want to hit all the sweet young poon while I can still get away with it and not look like a perverted old man. Now if I was to honestly pursue a relationship She would almost certainly have to be atleast 23 years old. The maturity level is just non-existand in a buck-wild 18 Y.O.

 

[Sassy69]

Me - 32 / Him - 45 --- one of the best & longest relationships I've ever had, but we were both at different places in our lives - me corporate ladder climbing, him peaking in 2nd career and thinking more about retirement. - Lasted almost a year - fell apart, surprisingly, due to lack of communication. The relationship was actually so good, I think it scared both of us.

Me - 35 / Him -23 - The sex was great, but it was like babysitting & not getting paid. (Well, basically I had to pay for everything...) Again way different points in our lives. He moved in w/ me for about 2 weeks while waiting for an apartment to open up and had to move out of his place.. Longest 2 weeks of my life. The topper was the day we went into a grocery store, he jumped into the grocery cart & yelled "MOM! PUsh me!" I said, "When we get home, you go straight to my room!"

 

[obiwan9962]

Me - 32 / Him - 45 --- one of the best & longest relationships I've ever had, but we were both at different places in our lives - me corporate ladder climbing, him peaking in 2nd career and thinking more about retirement. - Lasted almost a year - fell apart, surprisingly, due to lack of communication. The relationship was actually so good, I think it scared both of us.

Me - 35 / Him -23 - The sex was great, but it was like babysitting & not getting paid. (Well, basically I had to pay for everything...) Again way different points in our lives. He moved in w/ me for about 2 weeks while waiting for an apartment to open up and had to move out of his place.. Longest 2 weeks of my life. The topper was the day we went into a grocery store, he jumped into the grocery cart & yelled "MOM! PUsh me!" I said, "When we get home, you go straight to my room!"

lol

 

[Cutiebaby]

Youngest was 1 year younger than me
Oldest was 5 years older than me.
needto is 1 yr older.
I didn't notice much different between them. It is not like the 5 yr older was more mature or any thing.
Although I was not interested in boys younger than myself. It just did not feel right.

 

[T-Matt]

Since I'm only 23, I haven't had too much experience with younger girls. I will come out and honestly say that a 15 year old girl (she told me she was 19, I later found out her age from her sister) gave me a BJ at one of our parties. That was literally the weekend after I broke up with my g/f of 3 1/2 years.

I had a 3 week relationship with a woman that was 31 when I was 19. She said I was more mature than any boyfriend she'd ever had. She was the most mature woman I had ever met. I learned more about myself with her in the short time we were together than I'll probably ever learn. We had incredible sex, worked out together, went out to eat and split every bill right down the middle, and could talk non-stop for days..

We would always have sex right after we worked out because we were both aroused at each other's intensity in the gym..

The only reason we broke up was because she had a long talk with her mother and her mother disproved of our relationship. She said that her relationship with her mother was more important than the 3 weeks we spent together..

We still hooked up about a half of a dozen times after that. We stopped having sex after she confessed that she had greater feelings for me and that the no-strings-attached sex was killing her emotionally.. She was one of the most awesome females I've ever met. If I could find her I'd probably ask her to marry me.....

T-Matt

 

[dutchman063]

im 43 she's 18