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needtogetaas
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6 years and no
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I dont date younger men...
The oldest bf I had was 28 years older. The only reason that didnt work was distance and complications caused by my ex.
The oldest bf I had was 28 years older. The only reason that didnt work was distance and complications caused by my ex.
needtogetaas
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you suckBIKINIMOM said:
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immortalis
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My parents are 10 years apart... father being older.
My wife and I are a month apart.
I've never had large gaps in age in terms of relationship partners. However Ive hooked up with much older women and some that were fairly younger than me. However at that time I was 20-22 years old, and obviously couldnt go much younger hehe.
At that point I pretty much comitted to my wife so I obviously no longer played the field, so my window of opportunity for "younger" women never really came around.
Im 28 now.
My wife and I are a month apart.
I've never had large gaps in age in terms of relationship partners. However Ive hooked up with much older women and some that were fairly younger than me. However at that time I was 20-22 years old, and obviously couldnt go much younger hehe.
At that point I pretty much comitted to my wife so I obviously no longer played the field, so my window of opportunity for "younger" women never really came around.
Im 28 now.
obiwan9962
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20 years younger
i had no probs with it
her parents did
we are still friends but she when back to japan
i had no probs with it
her parents did
we are still friends but she when back to japan
obiwan9962
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i was 41 she was 21Nobledude said:
i don't look my age i look 30ish being asian and all
and i speak a spattering of japanese
so i showed her the sites of my wonderful city and a relationship began
she was a wildcat lol contrary to her outwards appearances
ya know asians are like that
lol
Nobledude
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COol deal....I used to date a japanese girl too....one of my former gf was chinesse..I lthink asians ladies are smart, cute and cool.obiwan9962 said:i was 41 she was 21
i don't look my age i look 30ish being asian and all
and i speak a spattering of japanese
so i showed her the sites of my wonderful city and a relationship began
she was a wildcat lol contrary to her outwards appearances
ya know asians are like that
lol
I am pusing 40 myself and I am engaged as of now, thus my dating days are coming to an end..;(
PBR
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she was 18 years younger.....i kept trying to push her away, as IMO younger girls will eventually devour you, but it didnt work. her and i developed deep feelings....timming was the only factor- really.
there was a scene in a movie i saw recently: where a woman was at a wedding, she was watching her ex husband dance with his young girlfriend. she went over to him and told him how disgusting it looked and that he was trash for being with such a young women, she punched him to the ground...he got up all bloody- wiping his mouth and shaking- but in a very calm voice said, "what should i do?, give up on life with some old bitch who hates everything and is so bitter with everything in the world so it looks right?....this girl appreciates every little thing, she says 'thank you', she smiles- she's happy with the simplist things- she's fun, doesnt complain, she enjoys life-why would i ever go back to anyone like you?".....
have a friend right now, who is dating a girl 20 yrs younger- he told me yesterday, basically describing above paragraph in detail.
there is merit to this i believe, one because ive lived it, the other- because one has not been contaminated yet to a point of no return....but there is the primordial instinct to evolve- this makes the younger "set" dangerous when it comes to the heart....
there was a scene in a movie i saw recently: where a woman was at a wedding, she was watching her ex husband dance with his young girlfriend. she went over to him and told him how disgusting it looked and that he was trash for being with such a young women, she punched him to the ground...he got up all bloody- wiping his mouth and shaking- but in a very calm voice said, "what should i do?, give up on life with some old bitch who hates everything and is so bitter with everything in the world so it looks right?....this girl appreciates every little thing, she says 'thank you', she smiles- she's happy with the simplist things- she's fun, doesnt complain, she enjoys life-why would i ever go back to anyone like you?".....
have a friend right now, who is dating a girl 20 yrs younger- he told me yesterday, basically describing above paragraph in detail.
there is merit to this i believe, one because ive lived it, the other- because one has not been contaminated yet to a point of no return....but there is the primordial instinct to evolve- this makes the younger "set" dangerous when it comes to the heart....
obiwan9962
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i never appreciated asian women til as of lateNobledude said:
but i DOnow
man i missed out but back in the day i wasn't one of the kewl asians i was on of the FOB's
as for dating coming to an end?
you ain't dead yet
and forever is no longer forever
obiwan9962
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i love dating youngerPBR said:
they do for the most part appreciate what i do and bring to the table
dangerous? only if you worship them too much
but i will never turn down a lady if she is older than me just because she is
i just will ask her firmly to check the baggage at the door thank you
PBR
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obiwan9962 said:
i dont really have a firm stance on this, (younger vs. older)....i dont discriminate any more. funny how experience changes your ways of thinking. again this is how "wisdom" is attained. knowledge and information are gained from what you are told or have read/studied.
i have learned what works for me- is allowing myself to come to the table with an open and clear mind- and upon my "experience" with that woman, make a decision as to "how far" to go....
confid12000
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Last year...me 41 she 28. Worked wonderfully...except for my family which i nearly broke up. Now back home where my children want me...and with a wife who deserves the Best (not me necessarily). But i will never forget last year...
obiwan9962
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damn this is starting to sound like an AA meetingconfid12000 said:
Great post PBR!
Over-generalization is usually dangerous and there is no definite rule
This being said, dating a woman 10+ years younger than you is asking for trouble in the long run even though it is not the taboo it used to be, especially if the guy looks younger than he is
Over-generalization is usually dangerous and there is no definite rule
This being said, dating a woman 10+ years younger than you is asking for trouble in the long run even though it is not the taboo it used to be, especially if the guy looks younger than he is
PBR said:
obiwan9962
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hello friend anthraxanthrax said:
obiwan9962
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koreans noanthrax said:
i have always loved japanese girls but now i have a thing for thai and other southeast asians women
but i guess soon i will be hanging with jamaican women since canada in its infinite wisdom has decided after living here almost 7 years i need to be removed
(they say for a year and then i can apply for landed during that time)
it was going to be hong kong but they refused
jamaica said i could become a jamaican citizen since my mum was but there is sooooooo much paperwork involved
lol like i am likely to return from jamaica to this frigid place
peeps here are very nice and lovely but the gov sucks
obiwan9962
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the bitch at immigration took over my case from the old retired dude that was working on it and it is her first case so she is trying to look goodanthrax said:That sucks bro!
Can't you find a Canadian citizen to sponsor you?
or re-marry to a canadian woman for the same purpose
speaking of Jamaica I've known 2 chicks from there who where mega hot
anyway i won't marry a canadian just to stay here
as for sponsorship lol well i just bought into a restaurant so maybe my partners will
that really threw her for a loop
obiwan9962
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what happened perk? did she enter puberty?perkele said:
just bugging
anthrax said:
I was 43 and she was 21. 22 years age difference.
It was fantastic. ZERO regrets.
We parted because I was not interested in marriage.
Ran in to her some years later and all the passion was still there.
I could have fucked her standing up in a public place. LOL
confid12000
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obiwan9962 said:
Only...no regrets here, unlike AA meetings... She was the daughter of a Chinese and an Italian...but born and raised in Brazil. Incredible little beauty, and a wonderful woman too. You can imagine what a year i had... And then i was lucky enough to be admitted back home!! You know, Some Guys Have All The Luck... (who sang this song?)
obiwan9962
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rod stewartconfid12000 said:
Only...no regrets here, unlike AA meetings... She was the daughter of a Chinese and an Italian...but born and raised in Brazil. Incredible little beauty, and a wonderful woman too. You can imagine what a year i had... And then i was lucky enough to be admitted back home!! You know, Some Guys Have All The Luck... (who sang this song?)
chinese and italian?
hook me up!
megamania500
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I'm 38 and my last interest turned out to be 20. We noticed each other, and the body language flirting began soon after. Of course, that let to talking and getting to know each other. There were definitely some sparks there, damn. I loved the way she lit up whenever she saw me coming. She was a cross between Gina Gershon, that gypsy girl in the movie "Thinner", and that girl that played Will Smith's love interest in "Hitch". I was hoping desperately that she just looked like a young 30 or 27 at the very youngest. My heart sank when I found out she was just 20. I cut all ties, because of the potential complications. And it still sucks when I think about it, even after a couple months now.
Same thing happened early last year. She turned out to be 20, also. I tried to create distance before it went to the next level. But she didn't want to give up, and she tried to get me to spend her 21st birthday with her. Like one more year would make a difference.
When I was 32, I dated a 19 year old, because she pursued me and I didn't see any harm in it at the time. It didn't work out because her and I were just too far apart maturity-wise. Then when I was 34, I dated a 22 year old. She would ask her friends to guess my age, and they would answer 23-25. She seemed to like it when they would be surprised after she told them my real age. Although she was fun to be with, I knew she wasn't relationship material so I ended that one, too. I knew I didn't want to invest years into a relationship that would just end up not working out. That's a big fear for me, especially now since I'm almost forty.
It seemed OK for years to be taken for younger than I actually am. But now I want to be seen for my age. I was told just a few weeks ago by a co-worker that I look about 28. Sometimes I think a woman my age wouldn't be interested in me because she would assume I'm years younger than her.
I really would like to meet someone closer to my age, but I have yet to meet a woman who I feel sparks for, since they are already taken or they let themselves go by the time they reach that age. There have to be some great catches out there that I would be happy with, and I keep looking.
I wouldn't even consider dating someone younger than 28-30.
Same thing happened early last year. She turned out to be 20, also. I tried to create distance before it went to the next level. But she didn't want to give up, and she tried to get me to spend her 21st birthday with her. Like one more year would make a difference.
When I was 32, I dated a 19 year old, because she pursued me and I didn't see any harm in it at the time. It didn't work out because her and I were just too far apart maturity-wise. Then when I was 34, I dated a 22 year old. She would ask her friends to guess my age, and they would answer 23-25. She seemed to like it when they would be surprised after she told them my real age. Although she was fun to be with, I knew she wasn't relationship material so I ended that one, too. I knew I didn't want to invest years into a relationship that would just end up not working out. That's a big fear for me, especially now since I'm almost forty.
It seemed OK for years to be taken for younger than I actually am. But now I want to be seen for my age. I was told just a few weeks ago by a co-worker that I look about 28. Sometimes I think a woman my age wouldn't be interested in me because she would assume I'm years younger than her.
I really would like to meet someone closer to my age, but I have yet to meet a woman who I feel sparks for, since they are already taken or they let themselves go by the time they reach that age. There have to be some great catches out there that I would be happy with, and I keep looking.
I wouldn't even consider dating someone younger than 28-30.
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Wulfgar said:
still got their numbers?
drols of steel
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I'm 28 and alot of the women I hook up W/ anr 18-21. I don't find that we are at all compatable on a mental level, but I just want to hit all the sweet young poon while I can still get away with it and not look like a perverted old man. Now if I was to honestly pursue a relationship She would almost certainly have to be atleast 23 years old. The maturity level is just non-existand in a buck-wild 18 Y.O.
Sassy69
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Me - 32 / Him - 45 --- one of the best & longest relationships I've ever had, but we were both at different places in our lives - me corporate ladder climbing, him peaking in 2nd career and thinking more about retirement. - Lasted almost a year - fell apart, surprisingly, due to lack of communication. The relationship was actually so good, I think it scared both of us.
Me - 35 / Him -23 - The sex was great, but it was like babysitting & not getting paid. (Well, basically I had to pay for everything...) Again way different points in our lives. He moved in w/ me for about 2 weeks while waiting for an apartment to open up and had to move out of his place.. Longest 2 weeks of my life. The topper was the day we went into a grocery store, he jumped into the grocery cart & yelled "MOM! PUsh me!" I said, "When we get home, you go straight to my room!"
Me - 35 / Him -23 - The sex was great, but it was like babysitting & not getting paid. (Well, basically I had to pay for everything...) Again way different points in our lives. He moved in w/ me for about 2 weeks while waiting for an apartment to open up and had to move out of his place.. Longest 2 weeks of my life. The topper was the day we went into a grocery store, he jumped into the grocery cart & yelled "MOM! PUsh me!" I said, "When we get home, you go straight to my room!"
obiwan9962
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lolSassy69 said:
Youngest was 1 year younger than me
Oldest was 5 years older than me.
needto is 1 yr older.
I didn't notice much different between them. It is not like the 5 yr older was more mature or any thing.
Although I was not interested in boys younger than myself. It just did not feel right.
Oldest was 5 years older than me.
needto is 1 yr older.
I didn't notice much different between them. It is not like the 5 yr older was more mature or any thing.
Although I was not interested in boys younger than myself. It just did not feel right.
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Since I'm only 23, I haven't had too much experience with younger girls. I will come out and honestly say that a 15 year old girl (she told me she was 19, I later found out her age from her sister) gave me a BJ at one of our parties. That was literally the weekend after I broke up with my g/f of 3 1/2 years.
I had a 3 week relationship with a woman that was 31 when I was 19. She said I was more mature than any boyfriend she'd ever had. She was the most mature woman I had ever met. I learned more about myself with her in the short time we were together than I'll probably ever learn. We had incredible sex, worked out together, went out to eat and split every bill right down the middle, and could talk non-stop for days..
We would always have sex right after we worked out because we were both aroused at each other's intensity in the gym..
The only reason we broke up was because she had a long talk with her mother and her mother disproved of our relationship. She said that her relationship with her mother was more important than the 3 weeks we spent together..
We still hooked up about a half of a dozen times after that. We stopped having sex after she confessed that she had greater feelings for me and that the no-strings-attached sex was killing her emotionally.. She was one of the most awesome females I've ever met. If I could find her I'd probably ask her to marry me.....
T-Matt
I had a 3 week relationship with a woman that was 31 when I was 19. She said I was more mature than any boyfriend she'd ever had. She was the most mature woman I had ever met. I learned more about myself with her in the short time we were together than I'll probably ever learn. We had incredible sex, worked out together, went out to eat and split every bill right down the middle, and could talk non-stop for days..
We would always have sex right after we worked out because we were both aroused at each other's intensity in the gym..
The only reason we broke up was because she had a long talk with her mother and her mother disproved of our relationship. She said that her relationship with her mother was more important than the 3 weeks we spent together..
We still hooked up about a half of a dozen times after that. We stopped having sex after she confessed that she had greater feelings for me and that the no-strings-attached sex was killing her emotionally.. She was one of the most awesome females I've ever met. If I could find her I'd probably ask her to marry me.....
T-Matt
dutchman063
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im 43 she's 18
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