Hi everyone, thought I would add on to the conversation. My numbers are not very impressive but then again I am prolly 20 years older than you guys!
I lift wo a spotter so have learned how to work around that by using excellent form and techniques like tempo,sets of 8x8,5x5,1 1/3 reps,etc,etc. Right now I 'm squatting 95 lbs but thats for like 9 sets,8 reps with 30 sec rest,various styles -pl,ol,ultra narrow stance. Deadlifting 105 9sets ,8 reps 30 sec rest. DB incline 35 lbs, BB curls 55lbs,chins x10,dips 5x5,bo rows 105x8 8sets.
really the wt is not that important,I've grown lots of muscle just working that wt lots of different ways. I'm not strong in lots of lifts but I'm injury free and making gains every week. Change is good -I cycle my wo depending on goals.
be glad your gf is wo and enjoying it -shes way ahead of the pack!