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I FINALLY convinced my girl to try anal again after it having been over a year since we last did it. She definately has some mental blocks there, but when we did it in the past she had the BIGGEST gasms from it...so I knew for a fact it felt good for her.
We hit it that way twice last weekend, and even though both times were quick, she admitted that it felt awsome. She came in under 2 mins...and was vocal to say the least. She also let me
for the first time ever, and kinda liked that too...but only in the shower. Again, mental issue.
Wavy - like it's been said, I think you definately have a mental block against enjoying it. Especially if you said your b/f went real slow, even with the finger. How do you expect to enjoy it if you're letting yourself have all these mental pictures of what it isn't? Relax totally and concentrate on GOOD feelings. I've never heard anyone say they hated the feeling unless it was hard and forced...or no lube.
Oh yes, and anal CAN lead to sphincter control probs, but like it was said, those are rare cases where it was done much too often (e.g. prisoner rapes, etc.). Doing it too much, like every day or multiple times every day, can cause the sphincter muscles to become distended and unable to perform their function...holding the brown stuff in.
Bottom line: do it right and not extremely frequent and IT'S ONE 'O THE BEST!!!
I FINALLY convinced my girl to try anal again after it having been over a year since we last did it. She definately has some mental blocks there, but when we did it in the past she had the BIGGEST gasms from it...so I knew for a fact it felt good for her.
We hit it that way twice last weekend, and even though both times were quick, she admitted that it felt awsome. She came in under 2 mins...and was vocal to say the least. She also let me
for the first time ever, and kinda liked that too...but only in the shower. Again, mental issue.Wavy - like it's been said, I think you definately have a mental block against enjoying it. Especially if you said your b/f went real slow, even with the finger. How do you expect to enjoy it if you're letting yourself have all these mental pictures of what it isn't? Relax totally and concentrate on GOOD feelings. I've never heard anyone say they hated the feeling unless it was hard and forced...or no lube.
Oh yes, and anal CAN lead to sphincter control probs, but like it was said, those are rare cases where it was done much too often (e.g. prisoner rapes, etc.). Doing it too much, like every day or multiple times every day, can cause the sphincter muscles to become distended and unable to perform their function...holding the brown stuff in.
Bottom line: do it right and not extremely frequent and IT'S ONE 'O THE BEST!!!
