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vinylgroover
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the benefit of young chicks is that their mom's are still in their prime MILF years.......hit that shit in a mother/daughter threesome
Hey guys is a 4 yr age diff too much?
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cyrex
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Yarg! said:Hi guys, friendly neighborhood Asian dude here again:
well as everyone knows college is very impersonal. There is hardly a time to make friends since everyone comes froma ll walks of life, and every class is in a large auditorium. However for my History class I sit beside a very pretty blonde. Unfortunately shes 23, and Im 19. Well I like her alot since Ive gotten to know her this past mont, and we've alwasy hinted at dating. We are very touchy feely like she would laugh at my jokes, slap my knee. We both love doing the same shit and going to the movies and what not. My question is: should I take the chance and ask her? What if she says no? Since we sit beside each other for 2.5 hrs I dont wanna ruin what we have. Although you wouldnt guess it from my posts, I am very mature for my age and I feel that we can have an intellectually stimulating conversation like grown ups for hours on end. All my ex GFs would pepper their speech with "omg" every 2 seconds and the topic of conversation would always be aorund hair products. A part of me is saying go for it- because I like her alot and Im pretty sure she feels the same way. I hope shes not to turned off by the girl-older-than-guy stigma.
I don't think numbers have anything to do with it..
4 years difference isn't too bad the problem is.. timing and maturity
a 23 yr old woman on average is gonna be much more closer to wanting to settle down than the average 19 year old guy...
I'd say take her out and see what happens. See if there are any maturity issues. If you are looking for a serious relationship and are open to marriage in the next few years then by all means go for it. At a bare minimum go ahead and have a few days.. have some fun.. the more experience with people you get the better even if it's just 1 date.
good luck to ya!
Destroyer1986*
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Im 19 and shes much much older than me, but I couldnt care less about the age difference. So 4 years is fuck all mate.
Take your age difference and multiply it by 5 and you are in my league. I have discussed this before so I will not bore everyone with my wife again. But she smokes me and is more women than I have known or seen and man I have seen them all.
However, here is the trick, go slow, take what you got, this good conversation level and move it to a more social area like for coffee, lunch, keep the same realationship just a new environment. Then again take the next step, take the same relationship to a more challenging environment and see how it evolves. Nice and easy, be cautious and challenging, be cool and goofy, be tough and loving, but most important be yourself because that is what you are in class. Do not let the environment change you. Most important do ot be affraid to try what can you lose and if you don't you will be haunted by wondering.
Any more advice let me know, I have my degree in PLA. (Peace, love and affection.)
I could have just said be yourself and go for it.
God shut up!
However, here is the trick, go slow, take what you got, this good conversation level and move it to a more social area like for coffee, lunch, keep the same realationship just a new environment. Then again take the next step, take the same relationship to a more challenging environment and see how it evolves. Nice and easy, be cautious and challenging, be cool and goofy, be tough and loving, but most important be yourself because that is what you are in class. Do not let the environment change you. Most important do ot be affraid to try what can you lose and if you don't you will be haunted by wondering.
Any more advice let me know, I have my degree in PLA. (Peace, love and affection.)
I could have just said be yourself and go for it.
God shut up!
Go for it. Friends are hard to find, & even if it doesn't happen, at least the air will be cleared about it.Yarg! said:Hi guys, friendly neighborhood Asian dude here again:
well as everyone knows college is very impersonal. There is hardly a time to make friends since everyone comes froma ll walks of life, and every class is in a large auditorium. However for my History class I sit beside a very pretty blonde. Unfortunately shes 23, and Im 19. A part of me is saying go for it- because I like her alot and Im pretty sure she feels the same way. I hope shes not to turned off by the girl-older-than-guy stigma.
It shouldn't be too bad. He's only asking for a date, not a lifetime commitment. If he was totally twitterpainted, then he would have asked her already, so Ima thinkin this could be a casual relationship, not too much pressure, yet.awittyusername said:
Your other advice is a good idea.
