I did want to go slow at first, until she put her hand on my lower stomach.
Ok, if she told me 'no, stop' before when I tried doing those things, why should i take control and try to do them harder? I thought it meant that she didnt want that. I dont want to be accused of rape or anything like that. How aggressive should I be? There is such a thing as being too aggressive, and it can get you into trouble