Have you ever?

[superqt4u2nv]

Thought about having sex with someone else well having sex with someone?

I did last night. First part of it I was thinking about him he was going down on so dam good, but when he bent me over to go at it doggy style. I forgot who I was with and was thinking about someone else. I was err more then a little drunk when we were doing it.

 

[plowboy]

i have, ive even messed up and called them by another persons name, boy thats when the shit hit the fan, end of fuck session imedeately. shit happens when ur plastered.

 

[Loner]

Same, several times even when making out.. but always when im pretty drunk it sucks they get mad

 

[Robert Jan]

We all have.
Other people have either never had sex, have simply forgot, or are FOS

there is however a difference between it crossing your mind, and you focusing on it to get off.

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

I almost called my boyfriend by my ex fiance's name the first time we ever had sex. I was VERY drunk! So drunk that I don't remember much of that night. I guess I fell asleep during sex. At the time I wasn't sure if that meant it sucked or just something that happened since I was so drunk.

 

[Dial_tone]

I've almost done it during phonesex but not during real sex....that would suck.

 

[biteme]

I've almost done it during phonesex but not during real sex....that would suck.

LMAO

 

[Werd]

Yes, there was a point in time when I wasn't quite over my last 2 bf's that I would pretend it was them just to get me through the experience of being with someone else.

Sound pathetic? IT WAS LOL...

Live and learn.

Will never EVER do that again. I'd rather just fuck a random stranger so they could service me and leave before the wetspot hit the sheets. (Did that more than a time or three over the past year.)

Now I am CRAZY IN LOVE with my man... like I have never loved another. I am sooooo in love and connected. I trust him like I have NEVER trusted another so I am very comfortable and totally let go when we are in bed. WE GET MAD FREAKY AND HOLY FLURGING SHNIT IS THE SEX EVER AWESOME!!!!




(I swear, one of these days the police will most certainly come knocking on the door downstairs!)

 

[sweetnes11]

I think everyonehas thought of some one other than the partner they are with at some time. But like someone else said, weather you use that person to get off of not, is the difference.
I think better sex comes with getting to know the person, and trust.
I don't think that there is anything I haven't tried, at least once. I am sure there are things I havent thought of trying and someday I will. Now that the kids are all moved out , Hubby and and I can do what we want, when we want, how we want,how long we want,and how loud we want. Sex just gets better all the time!!!!!
OH ya, sex is not enough for a long relationship. There has to be more,a lot more.

 

[Longhorn85]

but when he bent me over to go at it doggy style. I forgot who I was with

Sheesh, how many men have bent you over lately?

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Sheesh, how many men have bent you over lately?

He was the first guy in 3 months or so.
I will fully admit it was not my finest hour. It was the first time I had ever had sex that drunk and it not been someone that was my boyfriend. The person I was thinking of I have never even slept with just someone that has been on my mind a lot lately.
Anyways my biggest concern is that my friendship with the other dude is going to be kinda weird. We dated about a year ago, but agreed we were not made for on another but still remained very good friends. This is the first time anything has happened between us since we stopped dating. The next morning was kinda weird didn't say too much to each other.

 

[coverguy]

I've been there, not very often though.

One of the hottest experiences i've ever had actually occurred the first time i was with this one girl. She had a bf, but told me that she'd been thinking of me the last few times she was with him. I absolutely went to town on her. I had her telling me all the things she had thought about ... she absolutely loved it.

 

[Longhorn85]

He was the first guy in 3 months or so.
I will fully admit it was not my finest hour. It was the first time I had ever had sex that drunk and it not been someone that was my boyfriend. The person I was thinking of I have never even slept with just someone that has been on my mind a lot lately.
Anyways my biggest concern is that my friendship with the other dude is going to be kinda weird. We dated about a year ago, but agreed we were not made for on another but still remained very good friends. This is the first time anything has happened between us since we stopped dating. The next morning was kinda weird didn't say too much to each other.

I hope you find someone who really cares for you soon, if that's what you're looking for.

 

[Werd]

Darlin' I did this kind of thing a few times. Not gobs of times, but enough to where I kind of "needed it" but new that it was not something that was good for me. Not that I had moral qualms but felt like "I got undressed because......?" just wasn't worth the effort, not the sex, not the date, none of it.

I HATED THE MORNINGS WHEN I COULDNT LEAVE WHEN I WAS "DONE".

Dont feel badly. Just look at it as a learning experience. No biggie.

Focus on you and what makes you happy. When you get your head together it will be amazing what will "suddenly" appear before your eyes. I promise you.

 

[d3track]

I think everyonehas thought of some one other than the partner they are with at some time.

 

[Gymgurl]

I think D3track is right...once in awhile that tends to happen

 

[Austin316]

oye this again

 

[Longhorn85]

Dont feel badly. Just look at it as a learning experience. No biggie.

Doesn't it bother you that some loser is running around bragging that he tagged you after just one date or whatever? How does that affect your self-respect and reputation?

 

[mrbigstuff]

All the fucking time...

Throughout my sex life...I've made love to Adriana Lima, Angelina Jolie, Cindy Crawford, Jessica Rabbit, Betty Boop....shit the list goes on and on.

 

[Werd]

Doesn't it bother you that some loser is running around bragging that he tagged you after just one date or whatever? How does that affect your self-respect and reputation?

Ummmmmmmmmmm how do you know that I am not the one running around bragging about how I tagged him and left him before the wetspot even hit the sheets?

Sex is to be shared between two consenting adults. I dont now nor did I ever NEED to be "talked into" sleeping with someone. If I wanted a fuck, I took one and left after I got off without so much as a "boo" to the guy. How would this behavior affect my self-esteem or reputation?

I am closer to 40 than I am 30, was no virgin on my wedding nite, but relatively inexperienced nonetheless. I was faithfull to my exhusband for 13 years. I kicked his ass out and never looked back. Since that time I go where I want, do what I want, with WHOM I want and make no excuses.

My self-respect and reputation are just fine, darlin'.

 

[Longhorn85]

Ummmmmmmmmmm how do you know that I am not the one running around bragging about how I tagged him and left him before the wetspot even hit the sheets?

WARNING - SEXISM ALERT - WARNING - SEXISM ALERT - WARNING

Because, let's face it. It is the man who fucks, the woman who gets fucked. Also women tend to bear more emotional scars from casual sex, unless they are hos.

 

[Werd]

WARNING - SEXISM ALERT - WARNING - SEXISM ALERT - WARNING

Because, let's face it. It is the man who fucks, the woman who gets fucked. Also women tend to bear more emotional scars from casual sex, unless they are hos.

LOL... and you actually believe that nonsense?

Darlin' THAT is on you.

 

[coverguy]

It's not fair to have the double standard for men and women about sex. We're either all hos, or not, when we engage in sex on a more casual basis. If this stigma was changed more women might be open about their sexuality, and consequently we as men would get laid more. I think Werd makes a great point with her examples.

 

[Robert Jan]

If I tagged a girl on the first date i wouldn't think less of her.

In fact I'd prolly be calling her again pretty damn soon

 

[Werd]

It's not fair to have the double standard for men and women about sex. We're either all hos, or not, when we engage in sex on a more casual basis. If this stigma was changed more women might be open about their sexuality, and consequently we as men would get laid more. I think Werd makes a great point with her examples.

DING! DING! DING!