Have you ever had a same-sex experience?

[jubei]

Alot of gay guys assume they are attractive because they look feminine but that actually looks like shit. A man should ideally look hansome and strong, not like a little girl. Also most gay men are sissy and lack substance and grit.

I'm not gay bashing and I know there are probably alot of cool gay guys out there. I just dislike when homosexuals assume they are somehow enlightened and that every man really wants to be gay but is just scared of what society will think. If that were the case nobody would use AAS either. The way I look at it a couple of gay guys is great because that means the ratio of women to men is now 3 to 1 in my favor, and I like those odds.

 

[***]

i voted already, but i'll come out and say that i have never dabbled. it only happened once in my dreams, but that's it.

dear god hansnz, what's that in your new avatar?

 

[Spotter]

As if I needed to be enouraged to flirt more - those are good odds. I'd be curious when those who dabbled did so...high school, college, etc... Gay, bi, or straight, people like to be looked at, regardless of whose doing the looking. Where it goes from there is another story. In the meantime, I'll keep spotting. Hope all you guys appreciate the compliment.

 

[jubei]

So squatter spotter but I would rather gay guys not look this way, and if they did I would hope it would be discreet and I wouldn't notice.

 

[Spotter]

That's fine and I support that feeling. I'd certainly agree that any unwelcome overt attention could make the purpose of the gym frustrating. However, with the sexual poll at nearly 50-50 for men who have dabbled (at a minimum), I think your previous comment that gay men or too feminine and that its unattractive are: 1) true (now that's just my opinion that we happen to share) but 2) makes my point that there a lot of men out there who do pass as masculine and straight regardless of how you'd like to divide them out in your minds. Guys like me who work in construction, summit mountains regularly as a summer hobby, have replaced their own posi-trac in their jeep, .... may actually unnerve you even more. Its my unscientific opinion that for every overtly feminine gay you spot (and why are they at the gym anyway?) represent only a minority fraction, say 15% (a total SWAG). But, as with any stereotype, its typically the minority that defines the majority and that my friend is what really makes life so interesting. Still keeping my eyes overted, but it doesn't mean I didn't see you. You were too busy watching the fem=boy to notice, though.

 

[jubei]

Well the fact that you drive a jeep kind of gives it away. I do get the point however, there are alot of guys you would never suspect (Rock Hudson for example) I was speaking more the the lipsy voiced fruit cake silver shirt wearing queers who just have to be gay. What is it that makes them (flaming fags) act so femme anyways?

Just for the record, I have nothing against gay men at all. As I said earlier its actually benificial to me to have less men around, although competition doesn't bother me.

 

[triplesixmaf]

i think it may make you gay even to be looking at this post. oh shit wait

 

[Puddles]

I think its more natural for woman then it is males

I think women are naturally more nurturing and touchy/feely and that spills over to sexual issues. Look at the way parents deal with their children...a little kid gets a scrape on their knee and the dad is more likely to tell the kid it's no big deal and to put a band-aid on it, but the mom is more likely to give a hug and kiss the booboo.

 

[flexygrl]

I hope to one day.

 

[SanFrancisconewb]

There is very little homophobia on this board which i am somewhat surprised by but then i thought about the fact that the men are here and they worship other men's or their own bodies .