Have you ever had a same-sex experience?

[THeMaCHinE]

Nope, never have been with someone from the same sex.

Women are beautiful. Never found an interest (sexually) with any woman though! I have some friends who are drop dead beautiful too.

I read about all the women on here who are into other women. (Not judging anyone- I just wonder why I do not get turned on by women)I must be strange cuz they do not do anything for me!

Women rock...But....MEN RULE IN MY BOOK! Actually... Two men would be even better!

I think that's a pretty common frame with a lot of females -- however, if you're with your male partner and you're both with another (beautiful) woman, you might find it much more interesting. As for the two guy thing, what's holding you up?

 

[vixenbabe]

I think that's a pretty common frame with a lot of females -- however, if you're with your male partner and you're both with another (beautiful) woman, you might find it much more interesting. As for the two guy thing, what's holding you up?

What's holding me up from the two males in the sack?Easy answer: My hubby..He's not the type who likes to share his wife in that aspect! He'd not EVEN like sharing me with another woman. But... I can still have some great "alone" time thoughts about it, right?

Would I find it more interesting with another man, or for him to find it more interesting with another woman? I really do not think that another person could provide something "different" than what he already does for me, or I do for him. He'll admit that I'm enough work..He'd drop dead if he had to service two women - lol

I guess we both, me more than him, had several sexual partner's in our single days. I do not think the "acts" of sex have changed in those year's..Sooo..What really would be different? Keepin your sex life spicey and fun is VERY key, and it does not have to involve anyone else either. We may be wrong..but it works for us.

Besides, it would take toooo much work to get to know/trust another person for them to enter our life in such an important role. It would take MORE than a few months of trust BEFORE it would happen. Damn, how does one even find that type of person? I'd be clueless to that type of recruit! Ads? Poster's? lol

Face it...YOU can't just hop in the sack with anyone now a days. If I'm THAT bored with him..I may as well as just tell him to get lost and I'll be single again and not have to worry about how many people enter my bed.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Lol -- I forgot you are married -- my bad! Yes, I agree, a spouse would be a very big reason not to

An excellent and respectful answer. I applaud you. I think you hit it on the head for most relationships.

I don't think you're wrong at all -- it sounds like you value your relationship quite a bit and have a level head on your shoulders; I agree that you need to keep your sex life spiced up in marriage, and that there are many, many ways to do that without including others in your relationship. I think including other partners is the exception, not the norm for most marriages.

Good stuff!

 

[HansNZ]

Women rock...But....MEN RULE IN MY BOOK! Actually... Two men would be even better!

Does your two man fantasy involve them giving all the attention to you, or do you find the idea of them enjoying eachother as well as you appealing?

Just curious.

 

[vixenbabe]

Does your two man fantasy involve them giving all the attention to you, or do you find the idea of them enjoying eachother as well as you appealing?

Just curious.

Hanz...It's allll 'bout MEEE! I'd want all the attention from them!

Damn, what a selfish thing to admit huh? I can assure you I'm NOT selfish in real life, but after all, this is ONLY a fantasy so I'll do it MY way in said fantasy!


Machine... I have to say once again, I'm not judging anyone else in regards to above matter. It just blows my mind when I think about the finding the right person/s. Too big a risk -EVEN FOR THIS RISK TAKER!!! You know what I mean- I'm sure!

Someone, at some point in time during the "fun", has to feel like the fat, ugly kid sittin on the sidelines during a threesome. How do ya stop and make sure everyone is staying "happy"? lol

 

[THeMaCHinE]

It just blows my mind when I think about the finding the right person/s. Too big a risk -EVEN FOR THIS RISK TAKER!!! You know what I mean- I'm sure!

Someone, at some point in time during the "fun", has to feel like the fat, ugly kid sittin on the sidelines during a threesome. How do ya stop and make sure everyone is staying "happy"? lol

Yeah, I tend to believe that there are certainly risks, emotional and physical. I completely empathize with what you are saying. It is very valid and thoughtful.

I would think that clear communication between all parties and especially between you and your SO about what is acceptable, what is not, how to call it off if not going well, what conditions it takes to proceed, if doing that sort of thing is good for your relationship, if both people in the relationship are really OK with it, if the risks are worth it, etc... would help ward off the "fat kid on the sideline" syndrome.

I would imagine that this isn't an area that you would "take one for the team" -- in other words, do something at the expense of your feelings and morals for the sake of what you perceive to be your partner's happiness/indulgence.

I also believe that the bonds of marriage are a very sacred and special thing, and that the marriage itself should be protected above the interest of any individual in the marriage. If there is even an inkling that this type of activity would be damaging to the marriage, then it should not be considered.

Human emotions and relationships can be very fragile things. Sometimes, it's best not pushing the envelope.

 

[jwill3:16]

I think more women are willing to admit to these kinds of feelings because it's more socially acceptable right now. Give it another 50 yrs and things may change. Our grandchildren will certainly grow up with different social norms.

I think its more natural for woman then it is males

 

[justyxxxx]

Well, I'm gay and at one time me and a girlfriend of mine would hang out together and occasionally we'd pick up a guy (yes - together). They were supposedly straight, but guys will do quite a bit for, well, you know, the puddy cat. And yes, these guys would do things to me, too. I can honestly say that I've had JUST AS MANY supposedly straight guys as gay guys. And you'd never know that they'd even think about doing anything with a guy. I'm not saying that every guy would be like this (I certainly hope not because there's definitely some ugly ones that can stay on the "other side"), but there's plenty of "straights" that'll play . . .
TRUST ME. And that's no lie. A quick story - a couple of straight guys have said to me "I just don't see why a guy would do anything with another guy . . . that's just gross". They found out later. HA!

 

[HansNZ]

This is interesting so far. For every 29 guys who have never dabbled, there are 20 that have.

 

[Robert Jan]

When I found out how to masterbate at a real young age i thought i invented the shit and i told this dude my age how to and he tried it. I touched his wang, not even jerk just touch more like a slap. I`m not sure how old we were. too young to understand anything about sex anyway. i dont even think we knew what copulation was. For a long time it drove me mad I remembered i did this and i wished i had just dreamt it or some shit.

I can see how it doesn`t matter now tho.