I train at one of those Gold's Gyms too that is family oriented. I wont hesitate to drop dumbbells. I dont do it to draw attention to myself. When Im unracking a 150lb dumbbell for dumbbell rows I dont want to put all that extra strain on my lower back, especially after the back injuries Ive had, so I just drop it off the rack and roll it to the bench. It was also fun to shake things up when I was dropping 730lbs on the power rack. That definately shook the building. The dumbbells can take the dropping. Theyve lasted years with that abuse. Its only the cheap ones that bend. Its not really about the equipment abuse for most people that have a problem with dropping dumbbells. Cuz they sure as hell dont use the 150's, havent even seen anyone use them, they just want something to bitch about. Im more annoyed by weak motherfuckers screaming like theyre lifting something heavy. Or the skinny dudes with thier cell phones flexing thier abs. In a place like that I could give a fuck about disturbing the peace. I dont directly disrespect anyone unless they interrupt my training in some way, or show me some type of disrespect. Once the line has been crossed, its dinner time!! KILL THAT SHIT!!