that's only if she had sex with comparable sized men. It's more a matter of girth......if she steps up in girth dramatically, I see it more as a matter of physics than a myth. Look, women typically don't have sex for awhile after they have a kid...right? I've never had sex with a woman who's had a kid.....but I know friends who have.....and they all say that there is a measurable difference. So much so that alot of women who have had multiple children resort to anal.......