Girlfriend dosent want sex, any suggestions?

[omega529]

Ok, ive been going out with my girl for a while, she dosent like to have sex with me, i ask her why, and she says "i dont know"......it makes me feel like i have something wrong with me everytime she says that, and i dont.....i know that when we do have sex, we cant ever finish because it hurts her so much (shes really tight).......I like her, and she like me, and i dont want to break up with her because of sex, but i dont know what to do to get her in the "mood", and she says sometimes,m "just have sex with me then, and lays their, but i cant have sex with somone unless their into it as well and she knows that......she gets upset as well when i get upset about the sexual stuff....not upset at me, but because she "dosent know why she dosent get in the mood".......shes 18 and im 22.....What should i do? can somone give me some advice about this situation, is their a way i should touch her? talk to her?

 

[SpyWizard]

dude, you are not going to like this.. but you can't fix everyone... she has some real issues in her past, or a medical issue, has she seen her gyno???

if the answer to both questions is yes and no...

you need to start looking for someone who can and will satisfy your needs..

it's that simple.. there are men that would be very happy with her the way she is.. you obviously are not..

 

[needtogetaas]

do you lick the kitty bro??????????????????????????????????????????????

 

[SpyWizard]

oh that's right.. ya got to lick the kitty.. but then stop short.. ya have to own the kitty...

 

[omega529]

well, i like her, but it wouldnt kill me to brake up with her......As far as i know she dosent have a medical problem or a bad past, ive been knowing her for 5 years, and have dated her once before, shes always stuck behind me and has been really supportive of everything i do (unless its bad, like drugs) witch is why i want to try to make it work.....the only thing i can think of is that she never knew who her father was untill last year, also her last long relationship was supposably all about sex...... she has only been with one other guy besides me sexually......yes i do lick kat, never hers though............what do you mean has she seen her gyno?

 

[resqguy]

wow

 

[MichaelScott]

get used to beatin off once ur married u gotta be talented with your hands

 

[bluetwistedsteel67]

well, i like her, but it wouldnt kill me to brake up with her......As far as i know she dosent have a medical problem or a bad past, ive been knowing her for 5 years, and have dated her once before, shes always stuck behind me and has been really supportive of everything i do (unless its bad, like drugs) witch is why i want to try to make it work.....the only thing i can think of is that she never knew who her father was untill last year, also her last long relationship was supposably all about sex...... she has only been with one other guy besides me sexually......yes i do lick kat, never hers though............what do you mean has she seen her gyno?

where to start..... First off, and this is just my opinion. A 22year old guy has no business having an 18 year old GF. That's not to say that a 22 year old guy shouldn't FUCK an 18 year old it's just that 18 is too young for you to be in a realtionship with. #2 - You dated her in the past??? Were you 20 and she 16? Illegal bro! #3 You want to make it work???? She's 18! This is not going to lead to some fairy tale bro, some guy like me will meet her and fuck the shit out of her and she'll be done with you forever. #4 You don't lick her kitty? Refer back to #3 also, how do you expect her to get totally turned on if you're not willing to do what it takes to get her there. Woman like dick because it's attached to a man, most don't just like the dick all by itself. You need to explore her and find out what makes her tick. Try spending a few hours just having fun and teasing the hell out of her. Find out her more sensitive spots. Let her know that there is no pressure to get off and she'll lose herself in the experience and relax. It's not about getting her pussy wet and sticking your dick in her. It's about getting her to the point that she can't wait for that dick and then still not giving it to her. The best feeling for a woman is for a man to touch her everywhere but the place she wants it most and then when she can't stand it you give her just a little bit, then a little bit more and so on. You'd fucking better lick that kitty though bro and you'd better tease her little ass too while you at it.
You need to grow up bro and learn how to please a woman.

 

[omega529]

haha! im not marrayin no one (without a prenump).....chances are 1/100 that i would marry this chick. Just because i like her dosent mean im going to always be with her, but it also dosent mean that im not going to try to make it work either. What happens happens, i just want to be happy, 99% of the time im just happy being with this girl and talking to her, but im a man, and a man needs sex.

 

[omega529]

where to start..... First off, and this is just my opinion. A 22year old guy has no business having an 18 year old GF. That's not to say that a 22 year old guy shouldn't FUCK an 18 year old it's just that 18 is too young for you to be in a realtionship with. #2 - You dated her in the past??? Were you 20 and she 16? Illegal bro! #3 You want to make it work???? She's 18! This is not going to lead to some fairy tale bro, some guy like me will meet her and fuck the shit out of her and she'll be done with you forever. #4 You don't lick her kitty? Refer back to #3 also, how do you expect her to get totally turned on if you're not willing to do what it takes to get her there. Woman like dick because it's attached to a man, most don't just like the dick all by itself. You need to explore her and find out what makes her tick. Try spending a few hours just having fun and teasing the hell out of her. Find out her more sensitive spots. Let her know that there is no pressure to get off and she'll lose herself in the experience and relax. It's not about getting her pussy wet and sticking your dick in her. It's about getting her to the point that she can't wait for that dick and then still not giving it to her. The best feeling for a woman is for a man to touch her everywhere but the place she wants it most and then when she can't stand it you give her just a little bit, then a little bit more and so on. You'd fucking better lick that kitty though bro and you'd better tease her little ass too while you at it.
You need to grow up bro and learn how to please a woman.

nice!.....yes i was actually 19 and she was 15 last time we dated......i didnt like her at all then, she broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years for me, who is the same age as me.... we dated for 2 month then i broke up with her. I have treated her bad for a long time, i think it was because i was addicted to heavy drugs, and she didnt know the extent, but now ive been off drugs for 2 years and my head is straight..... I know what im supposed to do,, like teasing and all that, but it hard.....but your right, i need to tease her alot......actually come to think of it, last time we had sex was because i wrestled with her and play faught with her for like 3 hours.

Thanks