girl w/ no sex drive... help please

[markshark]

Well the sex was good for me, it lasted a good while, and she seemed to really enjoy it at the time... she SUPPOSEDLY got off many times.... the only way i could ever really tell when a girl gets off is she got really sensitive and legs would tremble quite a bit.... when we had sex she did both... but i dunno she still could ahve been faking... what do you think??? oh yea she said she has "low sex drive.... she wants just not as much as me" i guess that should ahve been mentioned earlier.

man your story is a mirror of what just happened to me. i had sex with her for a good 2 hours, she was wet and i was thinking i made her come, but she barely ever wanted to hang out with me ever afterwards, even though we had text sex over the phone a few times afterwards. i really liked the girl too, it wasnt just a piece of ass to me, but im 22 she was only 19, and i know not to get involved because i know shell want to be with other dudes. that kills me, but its true and it sucks. once you hit 30 go for a serrious relationship, otherwise your gonna get hurt. young girls dont know what they want, they just live by the moment. one minute theyll be attracted to u, the next minute they wont because they are talkin to some other guy who is different in some way that entices her. i wish i was asexual to be honest, because i get fucked over again and again by females, now im just at the point where i hide away from all females, i dont even want any female friends or dont want to associate with any females...and i dont anymore, even though i think about them constantly.

 

[aandd]

yea she said she has "low sex drive.... she wants just not as much as me"

Trust me, this is only going to get worse as the r'ship progresses. Sexual compatibility is a key predictor in success or failure of a relationship. Find someone more compatible with you in ALL areas. Don't settle for a lackluster sex life.

 

[pintoca]

Trust me, this is only going to get worse as the r'ship progresses. Sexual compatibility is a key predictor in success or failure of a relationship. Find someone more compatible with you in ALL areas. Don't settle for a lackluster sex life.

you can only be my alter... no other explanation for the mental hacking that took place here...

 

[HiDnGoD]

Trust me, this is only going to get worse as the r'ship progresses. Sexual compatibility is a key predictor in success or failure of a relationship. Find someone more compatible with you in ALL areas. Don't settle for a lackluster sex life.

This is very true! While sex isn't necessarily a huge part of a relationship, if the compatibility isn't there, then the disparity becomes a huge issue as time goes by. If it can be resolved, or she's willing to work at it, that's great, but if she accepts it, then she's discounting your needs, which is not a good sign. In other words, she don' give a fuck what you need.

 

[Gymgurl]

I don't need anything else to increase my sex drive thank you Pintoca!!! lol

I can be nervous and unsure of myself in bed, but let me tell you..if the guy is hot I am 100% wet and my sex drive is out of this world.....so don't believe that

 

[pintoca]

I don't need anything else to increase my sex drive thank you Pintoca!!! lol

I can be nervous and unsure of myself in bed, but let me tell you..if the guy is hot I am 100% wet and my sex drive is out of this world.....so don't believe that

You are keeper

 

[foreigngirl]

Well the sex was good for me, it lasted a good while, and she seemed to really enjoy it at the time... she SUPPOSEDLY got off many times.... the only way i could ever really tell when a girl gets off is she got really sensitive and legs would tremble quite a bit.... when we had sex she did both... but i dunno she still could ahve been faking... what do you think??? oh yea she said she has "low sex drive.... she wants just not as much as me" i guess that should ahve been mentioned earlier.

oh, thats bad. I thought that maybe she felt uncomfy the first time with a new person, but if she sais that she has low sex drive even though she is right next to a hot guy....hmm...well that sucks...just try teasing her, like pinching her butt, or come from behind her and press yourself on her, if she dont answer in a sexual way (that always worked for me), forget it...you are young, you need to have a spark between the two of you. I've been married for 7 years and I hardly wait to jump on my husband when I see him

 

[Ozz2001]

Man your blind or something! Is this the only girl you can get or what? She doesnt want you,that is crystal clear.Maybe she had sex with you just because she felt like she owed you for the training.If you have sex with her smelling like booze and she doesnt drink well there is the first mistake! Women dont want to smell a drunk bounceing up and down on them all fucked up when there sober! She probably just got rid of a cocky drunk then here you come.It's like kissing a person that smokes and the other doesnt,its just nasty! Ill leave it at that because you wont understand anymore i have to say, if you could you wouldn't be wondering why she doesn't want you for real! Maybe your not the pimp pleaseing women you think you are,or maybe its the booze making you believe you are! If you got a anger problem you should stick to street hoes! Real women want men, not wantabe's.......

 

[karde]

You need to learn to see the warning signs of somebody who is going to make a relationship painful. You are at the very beginning and already she is saying that you two are NOT compatible. This is a very clear sign that this will not work out.

You want sex MORE than her.


THis is a problem that will get worse.

 

[PlayaPimp]

You guys are right, thanks for all the help... I'm through with her, as shitty as it may be, I guess it would be better to do this now then wait for it to be a bigger problem. thanks..... oh yea Ozz, no anger problem, just get aggravated every now and then but never even raise my voice to a female or talk down to them.... I'm a little better than that.... but thanks for the advice