girl w/ no sex drive... help please

[PolfaJelfa]

Geez...dont bring back memories..... Stupid young bitch that doesent know what she wants. ( no offense)

I dont touch any woman under 30 now.
If some women told me shes confused now..lmfao....i would laugh in her face.
Confused bitch? Realy ...well here is the door! Get the hell out..
When i used to be younger i used to get all raveled up in this....let a bitch bring my life to a crash. I asked questions like you.....thought about every single thing that happened...how it could be tied into another. Drove myself crazy..with anger, questions, jelousy. Its amazing how diferent things are when women can sense you dont put up with any crap/games etc, when you are steadfast.

Bro, Sounds like she doesent want you period. If she wanted you she would not be confused. I suggest you do it like in Seinfeld....go to a fancy restaurant......make it classy.....real classy..have her having a good time.

Then tell her out of the blue "its over "
Smile and leave without paying the check!


I find women 27+ are ussualy past the games etc. know what they want...how they want it...and are straitforward and DEFINATELY HAVE A SEX DRIVE!


Confused....believe me bro...no sane girl in the world who cares abvout you/loves you/remotely likes you will say she is confused......if a girl realy likes you she will do everything and anything to win you over.

So many women out there....find a new one.

"She also is not sure if she wants to be with me, She says she has way too many feelings too fast and doesn't wanna be hurt"

Ya...ok...right..

Tell her if she doesent want to be hurt and is afraid of feelings....she should stay at home and not walk out of the house.

Nothing i despise more than bitches who play games and drama queens.
At least in my case...i recieved justice...bitch got pregnant with the guy she was cheating with.....is not able to go to college like she had planned....lost all her freinds...boyfreind smacks her...doesent allow contact with freinds..is 20 with a minnimum wage job...living with parents....guy about to dump her.

Now that is karma....although i personally dont wish the bitch bad. Hope everything goes well and she has a good life.

Sory for the rant...man i needed to get that off my chest.

 

[PlayaPimp]

great polfa, thanks for the input, I think your right, I really don't need this shit in my life now I'm young, but I know I will feel bad the moment I tell her this and she starts to cry again. But I guess I gotta get it over with now. Thanks for the help, I will keep you guys posted, and more advice is always welcome... oh yeah one minor point I forgot to mention, when we started hanging out she had a Boyfriend 1 1/2 yrs... we never kissed or anything I will not mess w/ a girl knowing she has a boyfriend, thats just not me.... but maybe jumping from him straight to me may ahve somehting to do with this huge pile of shit... only problem is I really like this girl

 

[HiDnGoD]

great polfa, thanks for the input, I think your right, I really don't need this shit in my life now I'm young, but I know I will feel bad the moment I tell her this and she starts to cry again. But I guess I gotta get it over with now. Thanks for the help, I will keep you guys posted, and more advice is always welcome... oh yeah one minor point I forgot to mention, when we started hanging out she had a Boyfriend 1 1/2 yrs... we never kissed or anything I will not mess w/ a girl knowing she has a boyfriend, thats just not me.... but maybe jumping from him straight to me may ahve somehting to do with this huge pile of shit... only problem is I really like this girl

I'd say give her a chance if you have feelings. If you don't know details of her intimate history you could be giving up the love of a lifetime just for a chance at a quick piece of ass. Explain to her how you feel & give her a chance to be open. Be non-confrontational & non-judgemental. Then if she doesn't offer any hope, let her go. You don't have to be a dick & ruin her for someone else.

 

[DieselGunz]

Polfa you are right on the money

Bor drop her, get a girl who cares

 

[karde]

Man, you slept with her once, and you are already stressing over her 'issues' drop the baggage quick.

 

[foreigngirl]

I read somewhere that when girls are with guys they perceive to be hotter than them, a problem may arise... seems like girls feel insecure or not appropiate when with a guy who is in better shape...

then again, that would not be the case if your girl has high self esteem, but how to know in only 6 weeks...

she might be thinking "imagine the other girls this guy has been with, I might be the ugliest/fattest whatever"

This is true, she can be ashamed of her body compared to her lovers (that sounds funny). I know when my husband got all shredded and I just came out of having a baby I was not that much comfy to let him see me naked or feel me...its weird being shy...

 

[PlayaPimp]

Man, you slept with her once, and you are already stressing over her 'issues' drop the baggage quick.

I wish it was that easy but I really like the girl, it's not just sex to me, she is only the 3rd girl ive ever slept with.... and I only slept with her b/c I felt this way about the girl. The sex drive really only bothers me b/c I feel that is one of the best ways if not the best way to make a girl feel good... You think I should give her some time to warm up??

 

[foreigngirl]

I wish it was that easy but I really like the girl, it's not just sex to me, she is only the 3rd girl ive ever slept with.... and I only slept with her b/c I felt this way about the girl. The sex drive really only bothers me b/c I feel that is one of the best ways if not the best way to make a girl feel good... You think I should give her some time to warm up??

I think u should. The first time u having sex cant mean that it HAS to be the best, you know

 

[velvett]

I think you should find someone else to date.

 

[PlayaPimp]

I think u should. The first time u having sex cant mean that it HAS to be the best, you know

Well the sex was good for me, it lasted a good while, and she seemed to really enjoy it at the time... she SUPPOSEDLY got off many times.... the only way i could ever really tell when a girl gets off is she got really sensitive and legs would tremble quite a bit.... when we had sex she did both... but i dunno she still could ahve been faking... what do you think??? oh yea she said she has "low sex drive.... she wants just not as much as me" i guess that should ahve been mentioned earlier.