These are all very good replies.
Some answers to some of the questions. And other info.
He doesn't juice. He is not a body fanatic like most of us are. I think he really did like her, because it was HIS friends telling her that he was really into her a lot.
I don't think his being impotent was affecting her that much. But maybe it had a psychological effect on him.
In the time (Jan until now) he has dated nobody else. That much is verifiable.
I think he was really attracted to her. I mean, you don;t just continue to tell 4 people on a regular basis (over three months) that you want to introduce this person. Before they met, he would sit and stare and her in resturants and art galleries.
She left the effort of contact up to him when they were in other cities because he said "I would call you later" other than one phone call on her part each time. (Except that time she was in ft. lauderdale visiting me, which she was really mystified and fed up by that time. I told her to wait and see what would happen, as ft. lauderdale is a small city and I knew their paths would cross eventually.)
Also, she told me today that he called her (as he promised - he is really good about calling her when they are in their home city) and asked her out Wednesday. She doesn't know if she is going yet.
(she is)