YASMINA said:I look at people because I am not blind but I don't think about them as a potential anything if I have an SO. I respect my SO and I expect the same from him.
jd_uk said:Well you're not really answering the question there. Do you look at them in a way that means you're attracted to them?...nothing in the question to do with seeing them as a potenital mate.
*MissFit* said:nope
jack_schitt said:What about guys at Tim Hortons who buy more than one apple fritter?
*MissFit* said:I guess when im with a guy outta respect i just dont.....Not even if i think he doesnt notice
Raina said:Nope. Guys aren't as fun to look at as girls. I always notice other girls. Their build, their makeup, their hair, their shoes, their outfits. They're much more interesting to look at.
Clearly, you haven't been to San Francisco...Raina said:Nope. Guys aren't as fun to look at as girls. I always notice other girls. Their build, their makeup, their hair, their shoes, their outfits. They're much more interesting to look at.
Raina said:Nope. Guys aren't as fun to look at as girls. I always notice other girls. Their build, their makeup, their hair, their shoes, their outfits. They're much more interesting to look at.
starlet said:Yeah...usually if a guy is "interesting," he's gay. LOL.
I'll look at guys, but not in a "wow I want him" kind of way...usually I'm checking out the goods for my single friends.
foreigngirl said:
Kenny chesney isnt even fine to me anymorenycgirl said:LOL. There are 2 questions. When you are with him and when you are not?
What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and requesting pics from men on EF/searching their gallery? What's the difference between looking at men on the street and hanging out in EF's POM forum? What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and sitting at home watching Troy and saying "DAMN, Brad Pitt is fine?"
bigmann245 said:bull..... you may not even realize you look but you do. not in a way of lets go home together but even an honest glance is normal.
foreigngirl said:yeah, thats what I ment, but didnt write. I look at girls and guys, but never in lusty way
bigmann245 said:now me, ill walk right up to a girl and "pop" her right on the ass. the look on their face after that is priceless....
SoKlueles said:
i look at them as i walk by so i dont run into them. Its not the guy im looking at, its the person. You have to look at people but you dont have to turn around and starejd_uk said:But SoKlu, sorry to pick you out, but didn't you more or less admit that you looked at other guys just didn't 'google/break your neck' at them?
SoKlueles said:i look at them as i walk by so i dont run into them. Its not the guy im looking at, its the person. You have to look at people but you dont have to turn around and stare
jack_schitt said:Thats cool.
SoKlueles said:i look at them as i walk by so i dont run into them. Its not the guy im looking at, its the person. You have to look at people but you dont have to turn around and stare
OH HOLY SHITTTTTTT I SAID NOOOOOOOOOjd_uk said:Ok...but you never catch a guy in your eye and think 'he's nice'?
jd_uk said:Ok...but you never catch a guy in your eye and think 'he's nice'?
quit changing ur answerforeigngirl said:I sure do. But I dont lust for him
foreigngirl said:I sure do. But I dont lust for him
SoKlueles said:OH HOLY SHITTTTTTT I SAID NOOOOOOOOO
ceasar989 said:If I see an attractive chick, I whip out the studio and start filming.
jd_uk said:lol....it's the same thing. Attraction is attraction.
If by lust you mean thinking 'ooh yeah i'd like to rip his clothes off' then of course not, most of the time then there won't be time.
jd_uk said:I'm amazed....so many women that say they don't check out guys when in the company with their SO AND without the company of their SO???
I've noticed women checking me out when they're with the bf and it shocks me...I've also noticed them checking me out when they're alone but most probably have a boyfriend. I feel sorry for the bf's of these girls.
awittyusername said:Bro, what women say and what the do is totally opposite.
I know what you mean. Girls are sly how they will check you out if they are with their bf. They even send them on little missions to get rid of them. Guys are just dumb and stare at the big ollll tittehssss![]()
nycgirl said:When I had one, yes (to both questions). I noticed men and women. I don't know how many times. It isn't something I tally.
courtneybcca said:exactly!! I enjoy beautiful people male or female I point them out to whomever I am with...
bigmann245 said:my wife is the same way..... we both point others out. if ya cant joke about it than it gets too serious and no fun...
courtneybcca said:I strongly believe the day you stop looking is the day you are dead... Just because your married or whatever doesn't mean you are not allowed to appreciated beauty. And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else as long as organs dont come together if you know what I mean. Harmless flirting I believe adds passion to long term relationship... flirt with someone then go home to your significant other and ravage them!! what is wrong with that?
bigmann245 said:holy crap, this is the exact way my wife and i live... we believe flirting is healthy as long as you know where to stop. we have always went by the saying "you can window shop just dont buy anything". and this has helped us have a great marriage thus far. 10 years next year and still going...
courtneybcca said:I strongly believe the day you stop looking is the day you are dead... Just because your married or whatever doesn't mean you are not allowed to appreciated beauty. And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else as long as organs dont come together if you know what I mean. Harmless flirting I believe adds passion to long term relationship... flirt with someone then go home to your significant other and ravage them!! what is wrong with that?
courtneybcca said:congrats on that!! most people this day and age couldn't even make it for half that time... I really believe that people today are too self centered and the only way a marriage works is if it is a partnership.. I bet your wife is also your best friend...

bigmann245 said:damn your good. yes she is... we compliment each other so well.. my weaknesses are her strengths and vice versa... we said the we were each others best friends since we met... it has kept us so close through these years... thanks for the congrats. im not saying it was easy but we had to work together at it... never went to bed mad.. sometimes we would stay up till 3 and 4 am talking in bed and work things out... then the makeup sex... oh thats the best... lol![]()
jd_uk said:Congrats on the marriage.
Would it ever piss you off though if you thought your woman was more turned on by another guy she's looking at than she is by you? ...or would you just be satisfied with the fact that she was 'coming home to you'?
Are you of the attitude 'i expect her to be more turned on by some other guys, they're better looking than me'?
jd_uk said:Congrats on the marriage.
Would it ever piss you off though if you thought your woman was more turned on by another guy she's looking at than she is by you? ...or would you just be satisfied with the fact that she was 'coming home to you'?
Are you of the attitude 'i expect her to be more turned on by some other guys, they're better looking than me'?
kills said:We are after all just another animal.We were never meant to be with only one person,but civilization has taught us that we should be.Our whole purpose as human's is to procreate as much as possible,so i do try to be as human as possible lol.
starlet said:I think penguins have the right idea...they find a mate, stick together for one year, and then move on to someone else. LOL.
I got a shinny little pebble for you lolstarlet said:I think penguins have the right idea...they find a mate, stick together for one year, and then move on to someone else. LOL.
nycgirl said:LOL. There are 2 questions. When you are with him and when you are not?
What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and requesting pics from men on EF/searching their galleries? What's the difference between looking at men on the street and hanging out in EF's POM forum? What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and sitting at home watching Troy and saying "DAMN, Brad Pitt is fine?"
jd_uk said:....when your with your SO??
without your SO?
how often?
Just another take on SoKlu's thread.
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