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Gilrs do you look at guys?

jd_uk

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Girls do you look at guys?

....when your with your SO??

without your SO?

how often?

Just another take on SoKlu's thread.
 
When I had one, yes (to both questions). I noticed men and women. I don't know how many times. It isn't something I tally.
 
I look at people because I am not blind but I don't think about them as a potential anything if I have an SO. I respect my SO and I expect the same from him.
 
YASMINA said:
I look at people because I am not blind but I don't think about them as a potential anything if I have an SO. I respect my SO and I expect the same from him.


Well you're not really answering the question there. Do you look at them in a way that means you're attracted to them?...nothing in the question to do with seeing them as a potenital mate.
 
jd_uk said:
Well you're not really answering the question there. Do you look at them in a way that means you're attracted to them?...nothing in the question to do with seeing them as a potenital mate.

No I don't.
 
I guess when im with a guy outta respect i just dont.....Not even if i think he doesnt notice
jack_schitt said:
What about guys at Tim Hortons who buy more than one apple fritter?
 
I actually notice more women than men.. i can appreciate a woman that works hard.. meaning with muscle..i love a fit body.. not in a sexual way...
 
Nope. Guys aren't as fun to look at as girls. I always notice other girls. Their build, their makeup, their hair, their shoes, their outfits. They're much more interesting to look at.
 
Exactly..
Raina said:
Nope. Guys aren't as fun to look at as girls. I always notice other girls. Their build, their makeup, their hair, their shoes, their outfits. They're much more interesting to look at.
 
Raina said:
Nope. Guys aren't as fun to look at as girls. I always notice other girls. Their build, their makeup, their hair, their shoes, their outfits. They're much more interesting to look at.
Clearly, you haven't been to San Francisco...
 
Raina said:
Nope. Guys aren't as fun to look at as girls. I always notice other girls. Their build, their makeup, their hair, their shoes, their outfits. They're much more interesting to look at.

Yeah...usually if a guy is "interesting," he's gay. LOL.

I'll look at guys, but not in a "wow I want him" kind of way...usually I'm checking out the goods for my single friends.
 
LOL. There are 2 questions. When you are with him and when you are not?

What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and requesting pics from men on EF/searching their galleries? What's the difference between looking at men on the street and hanging out in EF's POM forum? What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and sitting at home watching Troy and saying "DAMN, Brad Pitt is fine?"
 
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nycgirl said:
LOL. There are 2 questions. When you are with him and when you are not?

What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and requesting pics from men on EF/searching their gallery? What's the difference between looking at men on the street and hanging out in EF's POM forum? What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and sitting at home watching Troy and saying "DAMN, Brad Pitt is fine?"
Kenny chesney isnt even fine to me anymore:(
 
bigmann245 said:
bull..... you may not even realize you look but you do. not in a way of lets go home together but even an honest glance is normal.


yeah, thats what I ment, but didnt write. I look at girls and guys, but never in lusty way
 
foreigngirl said:
yeah, thats what I ment, but didnt write. I look at girls and guys, but never in lusty way



now me, ill walk right up to a girl and "pop" her right on the ass. the look on their face after that is priceless....
 
I'm amazed....so many women that say they don't check out guys when in the company with their SO AND without the company of their SO???

I've noticed women checking me out when they're with the bf and it shocks me...I've also noticed them checking me out when they're alone but most probably have a boyfriend. I feel sorry for the bf's of these girls.
 
jd_uk said:
But SoKlu, sorry to pick you out, but didn't you more or less admit that you looked at other guys just didn't 'google/break your neck' at them?
i look at them as i walk by so i dont run into them. Its not the guy im looking at, its the person. You have to look at people but you dont have to turn around and stare
 
SoKlueles said:
i look at them as i walk by so i dont run into them. Its not the guy im looking at, its the person. You have to look at people but you dont have to turn around and stare


right on spot there
 
SoKlueles said:
i look at them as i walk by so i dont run into them. Its not the guy im looking at, its the person. You have to look at people but you dont have to turn around and stare

Ok...but you never catch a guy in your eye and think 'he's nice'?
 
foreigngirl said:
I sure do. But I dont lust for him

lol....it's the same thing. Attraction is attraction.

If by lust you mean thinking 'ooh yeah i'd like to rip his clothes off' then of course not, most of the time then there won't be time.
 
SoKlueles said:
OH HOLY SHITTTTTTT I SAID NOOOOOOOOO

Im sorry, just making sure we're on the same level here...seems some people aren't understanding the context of the question. Thanks for the honest replies.
 
jd_uk said:
lol....it's the same thing. Attraction is attraction.

If by lust you mean thinking 'ooh yeah i'd like to rip his clothes off' then of course not, most of the time then there won't be time.


I will take a look, but not stare and I will think: he looks good. But I'm not gonna picture myself and that person in bed together. If you see how my husband looks like, you'll probably understand
 
jd_uk said:
I'm amazed....so many women that say they don't check out guys when in the company with their SO AND without the company of their SO???

I've noticed women checking me out when they're with the bf and it shocks me...I've also noticed them checking me out when they're alone but most probably have a boyfriend. I feel sorry for the bf's of these girls.

Bro, what women say and what the do is totally opposite.

I know what you mean. Girls are sly how they will check you out if they are with their bf. They even send them on little missions to get rid of them. Guys are just dumb and stare at the big ollll tittehssss :p
 
awittyusername said:
Bro, what women say and what the do is totally opposite.

I know what you mean. Girls are sly how they will check you out if they are with their bf. They even send them on little missions to get rid of them. Guys are just dumb and stare at the big ollll tittehssss :p

I remember a while back i was at a bowling alley and there was a couple in the lane next to me. When the guy was bowling his gf would be looking me dead in the eye trying to get my attention and watched me constantly while i bowled, but when her bf came back she was literally all over him...was shocking but funny in a way.

Obviously most girls aren't that bad and most will just give you the odd stare and when you look their way they'll turn around visibly guilty about what they've just done in the presence of their SO.
 
nycgirl said:
When I had one, yes (to both questions). I noticed men and women. I don't know how many times. It isn't something I tally.


exactly!! I enjoy beautiful people male or female I point them out to whomever I am with...
 
courtneybcca said:
exactly!! I enjoy beautiful people male or female I point them out to whomever I am with...


my wife is the same way..... we both point others out. if ya cant joke about it than it gets too serious and no fun...
 
bigmann245 said:
my wife is the same way..... we both point others out. if ya cant joke about it than it gets too serious and no fun...


I strongly believe the day you stop looking is the day you are dead... Just because your married or whatever doesn't mean you are not allowed to appreciated beauty. And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else as long as organs dont come together if you know what I mean. Harmless flirting I believe adds passion to long term relationship... flirt with someone then go home to your significant other and ravage them!! what is wrong with that?
 
courtneybcca said:
I strongly believe the day you stop looking is the day you are dead... Just because your married or whatever doesn't mean you are not allowed to appreciated beauty. And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else as long as organs dont come together if you know what I mean. Harmless flirting I believe adds passion to long term relationship... flirt with someone then go home to your significant other and ravage them!! what is wrong with that?


holy crap, this is the exact way my wife and i live... we believe flirting is healthy as long as you know where to stop. we have always went by the saying "you can window shop just dont buy anything". and this has helped us have a great marriage thus far. 10 years next year and still going...
 
bigmann245 said:
holy crap, this is the exact way my wife and i live... we believe flirting is healthy as long as you know where to stop. we have always went by the saying "you can window shop just dont buy anything". and this has helped us have a great marriage thus far. 10 years next year and still going...

congrats on that!! most people this day and age couldn't even make it for half that time... I really believe that people today are too self centered and the only way a marriage works is if it is a partnership.. I bet your wife is also your best friend...
 
Come on now,it dont matter were you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home is motto.It is healthy and normal to look at other's.We are after all just another animal.We were never meant to be with only one person,but civilization has taught us that we should be.Our whole purpose as human's is to procreate as much as possible,so i do try to be as human as possible lol.Sorry i know this doesnt answer the question put forth but i wanted to add my 2 bit's anyways,just how i feel :p
 
courtneybcca said:
I strongly believe the day you stop looking is the day you are dead... Just because your married or whatever doesn't mean you are not allowed to appreciated beauty. And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else as long as organs dont come together if you know what I mean. Harmless flirting I believe adds passion to long term relationship... flirt with someone then go home to your significant other and ravage them!! what is wrong with that?

I agree. I still don't see the difference between checking out someone on the street and the scenarios I posted in another post (checking male galleries, reviewing cawk pics in the POM forum, commenting on someone in a movie, magazine, etc.). Oh, and what's the difference between checking someone out and looking at porn?

I don't get it. Admit that you find attraction in other people. If your SO is going to give you shit, then something is wrong with him/her and they need do deal with their issues.
 
courtneybcca said:
congrats on that!! most people this day and age couldn't even make it for half that time... I really believe that people today are too self centered and the only way a marriage works is if it is a partnership.. I bet your wife is also your best friend...


damn your good. yes she is... we compliment each other so well.. my weaknesses are her strengths and vice versa... we said the we were each others best friends since we met... it has kept us so close through these years... thanks for the congrats. im not saying it was easy but we had to work together at it... never went to bed mad.. sometimes we would stay up till 3 and 4 am talking in bed and work things out... then the makeup sex... oh thats the best... lol :qt:
 
bigmann245 said:
damn your good. yes she is... we compliment each other so well.. my weaknesses are her strengths and vice versa... we said the we were each others best friends since we met... it has kept us so close through these years... thanks for the congrats. im not saying it was easy but we had to work together at it... never went to bed mad.. sometimes we would stay up till 3 and 4 am talking in bed and work things out... then the makeup sex... oh thats the best... lol :qt:

Congrats on the marriage.

Would it ever piss you off though if you thought your woman was more turned on by another guy she's looking at than she is by you? ...or would you just be satisfied with the fact that she was 'coming home to you'?

Are you of the attitude 'i expect her to be more turned on by some other guys, they're better looking than me'?
 
jd_uk said:
Congrats on the marriage.

Would it ever piss you off though if you thought your woman was more turned on by another guy she's looking at than she is by you? ...or would you just be satisfied with the fact that she was 'coming home to you'?

Are you of the attitude 'i expect her to be more turned on by some other guys, they're better looking than me'?


that is a great question!!! I know that by appearance I could never compare with a pam anderson, or the like.. but if I was ever to get married I would have to know that with a certain smile, or look that my man would be ready to rip all my clothes off.. the passion that two people that decide to get married have between them should be unable to be match by another human being
 
jd_uk said:
Congrats on the marriage.

Would it ever piss you off though if you thought your woman was more turned on by another guy she's looking at than she is by you? ...or would you just be satisfied with the fact that she was 'coming home to you'?

Are you of the attitude 'i expect her to be more turned on by some other guys, they're better looking than me'?



i am happy that she comes hom with me. whether she is turned on by another guy, a movie star, or the plumber i dont care. as long as she stays faithful to me and i am the one that makes love to her.. its ok to be turned on by another person but the same note she is also turned on by me as well. i am very secure in my relationship that i dont have to worry about her running off with someone else. like i said, it will be 10 years next april so we must be doing something right.
 
kills said:
We are after all just another animal.We were never meant to be with only one person,but civilization has taught us that we should be.Our whole purpose as human's is to procreate as much as possible,so i do try to be as human as possible lol.

I think penguins have the right idea...they find a mate, stick together for one year, and then move on to someone else. LOL.
 
starlet said:
I think penguins have the right idea...they find a mate, stick together for one year, and then move on to someone else. LOL.
I got a shinny little pebble for you lol
 
nycgirl said:
LOL. There are 2 questions. When you are with him and when you are not?

What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and requesting pics from men on EF/searching their galleries? What's the difference between looking at men on the street and hanging out in EF's POM forum? What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and sitting at home watching Troy and saying "DAMN, Brad Pitt is fine?"



I was going to post the answer to this on the ?Mens" thread, but since you bought it up...

I don't stare at women when I'm with my SO. If I happen to glance at someone, then it's fine, but I still give the respect that I would want. Now to answer... Having said that, I watch porn with my wife, I view pics of Women on here... That is NOT the same becauise there is no mental connection you're making with that person. The people you're looking at can't look back at you and look into each other's eyes, even for a split second. That makes a big difference to me. A lot of women take cheating "mentally" just the same as physically. I think looking at porn with my wife is harmless, but staring at a fully clothed woman and have her glance back at me and smile , maybe wink, or whatever flirty thing she may do, IS disrespecting my SO. The chick getting 2 dicks in her ass in the porn is not gonna flirt with me on a mental level.

It has a lot to do with the mind.

and I only read the first page, so this may have been adressed already.
 
Re: Girls do you look at guys?

jd_uk said:
....when your with your SO??

without your SO?

how often?

Just another take on SoKlu's thread.

Yes, they do.
 
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