Does someone's sexual past matter to you?

[velvett]

Yes...to an extent....I don't want a manwhore

Amen!

 

[StillGreg]

What's too many?

Ok...how many does it take to be a manwhore or a shewhore? How many is enough, too many, too few? Opinions...Consider that you have been dating someone and you do the numbers comparison game (which I dread and don't do anymore), what number makes you go "eeeewwww?" I think I may be a manwhore.

 

[Raina]

I've read a few times in this tread that some people associate a person who's slept with multiple people to a person who's cheated. There is a BIG difference in my eyes if a guy has had multiple sexual partners vs a history of cheating.

I've never been bothered by the # of people someone's been with before me. I don't expect people to have just waited around me nor would I expect them to think that I saved myself for them either. That's just me though. I'd rather know up front rather than finding out a later.

 

[danielson]

I've read a few times in this tread that some people associate a person who's slept with multiple people to a person who's cheated. There is a BIG difference in my eyes if a guy has had multiple sexual partners vs a history of cheating.

I've never been bothered by the # of people someone's been with before me. I don't expect people to have just waited around me nor would I expect them to think that I saved myself for them either. That's just me though. I'd rather know up front rather than finding out a later.

same here. just as long as they practised safe sex. and then again i guess i still wouldnt mind too much as i'd be wearing 8-inch armour plated condoms

 

[Test boy]

Depends on what I am looking for with her. For a one night stand, you got to expect a girl with a history. For a real relationship, I would hope to be choosy about her past because it generally predicts the future.

I normally lower my opinion of someone if they have new partners several times a year every year. She has got to be horny yet have some self discipline. Tough combo.

 

[Grizzly]

I normally lower my opinion of someone if they have new partners several times a year every year. She has got to be horny yet have some self discipline. Tough combo.

Isn't that to be expected? I'd expect a good 3 new partners each year. Let's say that this here person only sleeps with people after dating for a while. Well, figure the average dating thing goes about 2-4 months. That's just enough room to fit in 3 new people a year, or more. Do you think the girl has just been waiting around for you to show up in her life?

 

[Test boy]

Several is a lot more than three in my book.

Anyways....I stated my preferences. Why does someone else care what those may be?

 

[Jimsbbc]

"Saving yourself" for someone is such a romantic notion, too bad it isn't applicable in the real world.


It was all those girls in HS who said they were saving themselves for marriage that turned into college horndogs and fucked everything in sight.

 

[woollis2]

"Saving yourself" for someone is such a romantic notion, too bad it isn't applicable in the real world.


It was all those girls in HS who said they were saving themselves for marriage that turned into college horndogs and fucked everything in sight.

That happened at your HS too? LOL.

 

[##spiderbaby##]

I dunno, can a leopard really change its spots? I found out something about my ex that really fucked with my head....now I go by, "don't ask, don't tell."

So she was double teamed? That would get me the same results as well.


##spiderbaby##