danileson, i could have had an orgy with 17 midgets and a dog and think my shit still didnt stink, but if an ant crawled on her thigh once i'd have problems... double standards??? hmmmm
danileson, i could have had an orgy with 17 midgets and a dog and think my shit still didnt stink, but if an ant crawled on her thigh once i'd have problems... double standards??? hmmmm
"What they don't know, won't hurt them" ....... what's the opposite? It works both ways. Keep the slate clean and don't worry about the past, you aren't gonna change it are ya?
the reason they have something to answer for is this;
in the case of the guy and guy 3some, it was kinda planned, they bought and gave her drinks to try and lower inhibitions. She was consenting i admit, but she would certainly not have been if sober. So although they did not break the law what they did was ethically wrong. I dont know if i spelled ethically right.
the reason they have something to answer for is this;
in the case of the guy and guy 3some, it was kinda planned, they bought and gave her drinks to try and lower inhibitions. She was consenting i admit, but she would certainly not have been if sober. So although they did not break the law what they did was ethically wrong. I dont know if i spelled ethically right.
fair enough....thats a pretty shitty thing to do to a girl
but come on.....given that she had supposedly been taken advantage of before (i consider no.1 to be that sort of guy), she didnt have a klaxon going off in her head when 2 guys started buying her drinks like crazy? and they chose her for what reason?
still like you said some people would say that goes against peoples ethics (id never do it....good booze costs money damnit )
I get your point dson, (I really do) although I have no idea what a klaxon is. But everyone is different and reacts in different ways. After being used before you would think a klaxon would go off in her head but conversley I am sure she would be desperate for attention given past experiences. Phychologically (My spelling is quite bad it seems) some people are 'happier' being miserable, if you know what I mean. It is said the only thing better than a perfect meal is an almost perect meal with one minor flaw you can pick at all night. I cant explain why she did it but I think a lack of affection (real affection, not lust) played a major role in the picture.
All I can say is that while I didn't invent the double standard, I get down on my knees and thank God for them every day.
I don't really think sexual past matters. However, Friday I was out with a buddy at the local bar and the bartender was this real HOT chica. Well I'm all over her like a whole heard of jackyls until my buddy says "Yeah, so-and-so says she's real good in bed." Shit...so-and-so is a total loser. Not that I am one to point fingers, but by all reasonable measures he is a disgusting loser. In fact, I think more people think he is a loser than think I am a loser...and that is saying something. Dang...I can't shake the imagery of so-and-so bouncing up and down on poor innocent Molly. I really was hoping she saved herself for me. Good thing the waitress was hot too. And I'm pretty sure she saved herself...right?
I get your point dson, (I really do) although I have no idea what a klaxon is. But everyone is different and reacts in different ways. After being used before you would think a klaxon would go off in her head but conversley I am sure she would be desperate for attention given past experiences. Phychologically (My spelling is quite bad it seems) some people are 'happier' being miserable, if you know what I mean. It is said the only thing better than a perfect meal is an almost perect meal with one minor flaw you can pick at all night. I cant explain why she did it but I think a lack of affection (real affection, not lust) played a major role in the picture.