I dunno, can a leopard really change its spots? I found out something about my ex that really fucked with my head....now I go by, "don't ask, don't tell."
My feeling on it may not be correst, but it is pretty simple: I don't want to know about hers, because it will probably change the way I feel about her, and I don't want her to know mine, because it will probably change the way she feels about me.
My feeling on it may not be correst, but it is pretty simple: I don't want to know about hers, because it will probably change the way I feel about her, and I don't want her to know mine, because it will probably change the way she feels about me.
it depends. if the girl was trying to change, and she was std free and going to be moral about sex after that, then i wouldnt really have a problem. if she was a cheater and a slut and continued this behaviour, i would probably choose not to involve myself.
Me, I don't tell. That's up to the girl. Now the girls, I encourage them to tell me all (gf or not). I want to hear all about the experimenting, the wacky stuff, everything. I gets me going and, if I'm dating her, it will end up making her a very happy girl. I don't worry about the history being this or that (unless it involves cheating). I just enjoy.