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friskygrl2004 said:
Sex plays a major role. If your friend has never been pleased sexually with her boyfriend and subsequent husband, why the fuck did she marry him in the first place?!?!?! Of course there is more to a relationship than sex, but it's a pretty dynamic aspect. This isn't a revelation, she hasn't been having orgasms since the time she's known him, so why NOW is she wanting out?
What's poppin'???
DIV
Would you be able to hold off on sex with your partner forever? That's what I thought. It plays a vital part. Especially today. Pretty much all relationships start after sex.
DIVISION said:Sex plays a major role. If your friend has never been pleased sexually with her boyfriend and subsequent husband, why the fuck did she marry him in the first place?!?!?! Of course there is more to a relationship than sex, but it's a pretty dynamic aspect. This isn't a revelation, she hasn't been having orgasms since the time she's known him, so why NOW is she wanting out?
What's poppin'???
DIV
Emotionally, at the beginning he was there for her. The relationship deteriorated shortly after the first year. Her first of three children were born in that first year and shes tried to hold on and "make" it work.
Her reason for wanting "out" Isn't just because of the sex, there are alot of deeper issues. But she has said that despite how hard she tries and how much she wants to make things work, SEX plays a big role in wanting to move on.
So if sex so incredibly important to everyone, what would happen if your soulmate fell ill and could not have sex? Or suffered with a complete irreversivble loss of desire? What would happen to your soulmate then? Would he/she still be your soulmate? From the respnses here i guess eveyrone would move on in short order, and that would unmask the shallowness of the relationship in the first place, shallowness that was masked and dressed up with fake love and promises.
Gregory
Good luck there bor. I agree with you 100%, although as you've seen on this thread, the real world is a lot more shallow. I hope you find/found someone who shares your outlook.
Sex is a wonderful, incredibly enjoyable, enhancing part of a relationship. But as with most things in a relationship, most people only consider the union through the prism of "how it makes them feel."
For them, love = "I enjoy how this other person makes me feel" and the realtionship is largely built on that foundation, coupled with some shared history.
Sad truth is that most people are too inherently selfish to actually love anyone but themselves. They confuse the good feeling and void they sense depending on the presence or lack thereof of their significant other with genuine love
Good luck there bor. I agree with you 100%, although as you've seen on this thread, the real world is a lot more shallow. I hope you find/found someone who shares your outlook.
Sex is a wonderful, incredibly enjoyable, enhancing part of a relationship. But as with most things in a relationship, most people only consider the union through the prism of "how it makes them feel."
For them, love = "I enjoy how this other person makes me feel" and the realtionship is largely built on that foundation, coupled with some shared history.
Sad truth is that most people are too inherently selfish to actually love anyone but themselves. They confuse the good feeling and void they sense depending on the presence or lack thereof of their significant other with genuine love
friskygrl2004 said:
She made her bed, now she's gotta sleep in it. When it's just two adults that's one thing, but soon as you start having kids, you're pretty much committing yourself for the long haul. Sex or not, orgarms or not it sounds to me like she's just sour grapes because she let everything snowball when she should have probably ended it sometime in the first year.
DIV
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