Does SEX play a big role .............................

[milo hobgoblin]

I wouldnt even consider being with a woman who wasnt very sexually attracted to me and WANTED to have sex often.

Sex is the glue that binds a relationship together... keeps you happy when thing are rough. When sex goes.. everything else for a man starts to fall apart.. he will become resentful and selfish about everything else in his life.

 

[Lestat]

sex is not the most important issue in a relationship, but it is certainly important. You have to have sexual chemistry, its gotta be fun.

 

[gotmilk]

Cause in the going on 12 years they've been together the Sex was horrible.

12 years is a long time. What exactly was it that attracted her to the guy in the first place? His wallet? His sexy lazy eye?

I mean..if it sucked so bad...what led to their getting married in the first place?

 

[Testosterone boy]

How big of a role does Sex play in a relationship?

If your not pleased EVER do you think it could be enough to break that last straw and ruin a marriage? Some one very close to me is having some serious marital issues, taking some time apart and her husband is REALLY trying but she says she just doesn't think it will work...

Why?

Cause in the going on 12 years they've been together the Sex was horrible. IMO its kinda shallow to divorce because of Sex but what do I know, I never had complaints about sex with my X-husband.

I guess it also sucks in her situation because HE DOESN'T CARE if she gets the BIG O or not.

Many women are incapable of orgasm with a male. Perhaps she ought to look at herself some but that might not be her nature.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

12 years is a long time. What exactly was it that attracted her to the guy in the first place? His wallet? His sexy lazy eye?

I mean..if it sucked so bad...what led to their getting married in the first place?

Same thing I asked her. Did the sex just go down hill, and if so why cant something be done to get the spark back? She said the sex was NEVER good..

He's not rich, and for most of their marriage didn't keep a job, (had an ok one now). To be perfectly honest, I don't know why the hell she married him much less wasted 12 years.

I honestly think it was a "married early to get away from home" convience thing. Also a rebound relationship.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Many women are incapable of orgasm with a male. Perhaps she ought to look at herself some but that might not be her nature.

well... that is true. I don't think thats her problem, though. Just from what shes told me anyway

 

[jerseyart]

If I recall correectly there was more to their history though.

Sometimes when that bond is broken, can't get it back.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

If I recall correectly there was more to their history though.

Sometimes when that bond is broken, can't get it back.

Yes, an on-going thing with them, for years. And that was her words exactly, she can't get the sexual attraction back.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

I don't see where leaving a "monogomous" relationship for lack of sex is shallow. In a monogomous relationship the parties agree to only have sex with one another and not anyone else. Or at least that seems to be how it breaks down overall.

What's really screwed is that if at some point one or the other begins withholding sex in that monogomous relationship. Bad move. Whatever is causing the lack of intimacy needs to be worked on by both parties. But, just stopping having sex with your mate in a monogomous relationship is HUGELY bad. It's as bad as stopping communication with your mate. At that point you really have to take a hard look at what your relationship really is.

 

[cutitup]

K, i have always been a woman pleaser- a true Virgo- i look after ALL of her needs and then some every nite all the time- i enjoy it and so does she and in the end i get whatever i want back because she is crazy horny after that- it works its fun and well kitty does deserve some lookin after or someone else will!!!!!! i have never had women problems because of the way i am and unless u really enjoy seeing her get off then it is useless because u have to put yer heart in to it!!!!

cheers all the kitty's out there- keep em shaved and smooth for guys like me--oops i am married but there are others like me!