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Do men like to be hit on?
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I don't believe the ego is bad. But perhaps some do become a bit sociopathic. But then again I have a very rare view (after Ayne Rande) of life where selfishness, and what some people call "greed" are NOT bad words. Self preservation, gain, and success over anyone else is most important. To me that means stroking my ego regularly and LOVING it when chicks doJMHO
Lol. Oh Good God. That idea is flawed, how did her ideas convince you to abandon your ethics? She didn't need to argue that greed was good, just that it EXISTS. How the hell was that such an easy sell for you?
redsamurai
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i've never read the book myself but i heard it espouses greed and self indulgence, pretty much Nietchian in origin no? is it true that the book portrays greed as something desireable or is that just a way people smear her captialist ideals? I've heard both arguments so i really don't no...i'm not in the mood to sit down and read a 1000 page book about a guy who runs trains. lols
sizing up the prey. Watching from a distance. Knowing their patterns. Very sly!
Lol, I'd love to see that list
List of things I want in a man:
1. An excellent liar
2. Questionable values
3. Emotionally unavailable
4. Someone else doing his laundry
indeed!
Ive been the other women and this is all spot on...and a position I would never put myself in again
Im also ashamed of it.
hate to bring this up again, but there is a HUGE age difference between myself and you ladies. Dating at my age, is nothing like dating in your 20's.
I never pursued a man, they always pursed me.
Now at close to 46, I want to take matters into my own hands. Not to sound like I'm on an ego trip, but I get hit on all the time, and frankly, few men have a chance anymore because I'm immune to being hit on. I'm actually turned off when I am hit on.
As for the theory that it's in the male DNA to pursue, yes true, but we also have evolution and women in this day and age do not NEED men to take care of them. Women are powerful, make their own decisions, are independent and really have their pick. Back over 50 yrs ago, women didn't work, were brainwashed into thinking they had to be stay at home moms, so they married the first joe who asked them.
I never chase, no will I, but at my age, I will not play games. If I like someone, I will tell them. If the guy feels I am too easy (which I am so not), his loss. If he feels a connection and is not into games or just having sex, then he will be flattered I believe.
As for wanting men just for sex......been there, done it, miss it, but I had enough "friends with benefits" that I am good
I can have 10 sex friends if I want, Not my thing anymore.
Im not in my twenties...not for some time now....otherwise...carry on
