He's never had one outside my dad and two brothers. Lots of good men over the years through coaches but I've done this on my own from day one. The ex went from a high functioning, intelligent guy to a crack head. After the third stint in rehab and a bunch of other crappy stuff, I left. Last I heard, he hit the third strike and went back to jail (he's Merican). He doesn't even know if I had a boy or a girl...never been a part of it.