Damn does everyone cheat these days??

[PBR]

VERY difficult topic if taken seriously....My wife left me for a 23 yr old kid she was having an affair with..She was everything to me, and my love for her was un-measurable...Anyway, I have been looking into this, there is more to it than whats on the surface, we could dedicate an entire board to this topic...Primordial Instincts say no to monogamy....Some say marraige is out-dated. The more I see, the more this is making sense to me...Sad, however....but it seems we are so overly stimulated all the time, with so many choices, trying to constantly" up -the- anti", and keep up with the "JONES' "...We spend so much time in the fast lane, looking at all the things we could have, instead of being here now....The Grass may be Greener on the other side....But it is Still Grass, and it will turn brown too, if you let it....

 

[Burning Desire]

The grass might not be greener on the other side ... but it is fun to water it once in a while!

bd

 

[PBR]

AAAHHHH, the cost of watering more than one lawn....Is it worth it in the long run????

 

[ZKaudio]

I tell them right from the outset, I will NEVER cheat on you. I'd sooner come to you and tell you lets break this off before I'd cheat.

I follow your same creedo, unfortunately, most girls ( even the best ones ) cannot be told this, it's a guaranteed way for a girl to get bored with you. Mind you this is on a very instinctive level, but girls need a subconscious incentive to please you and keep you happy. If they know you will never hurt them, they can unintentionally become selfish.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

No, about half of people do.

 

[babyblue]

TripleV is that you??? Waht are you up to these days?

hiya hottie

 

[PBR]

My ex is 37....very beautiful, BB...not pro, but could be....I was with her for 5.5 yrs total..married for 1 yr before the affair....Tried to save it for about 3 months to no avail...suspected an affair, because this was not provoked in any way... Came home one day, and she said, "I want a seperation." When I woke up on the floor, she was out looking for another house..Anyway she bought me out, stayed there with her two daughters..and my son and I moved on...tragic loss...yes she is still with him, she met him at the gym where she works out...He is african-american and very good-looking, thats beside the point tho, however, a shock to entire family and friends....she will be 38 soon, few weeks away..we are not on speaking terms, but Iam thru with the anger part....now its just the loss....

 

[PBR]

response to the 5'-6" thread: my ex's new lover is 5-'6"....Iam 5'-11" at 230lbs @ 10% He is in good shape tho...She is 5'-1" @ 116lbs very muscular...must be something else eh????

 

[guyver]

You're wrong, everyone does not cheat. I treat people the way I want to be treated myself. I never have, nor will I ever cheat on someone.

I tell them right from the outset, I will NEVER cheat on you. I'd sooner come to you and tell you lets break this off before I'd cheat.

Yeah but the problem is you probably will never know they have cheated, then they come home to you like nothing has ever happened, if people would just ta about what they needed then it would solve alot of problems, some are hard to talk about, believe me, i still have problems talking about stuff.

 

[triplesixmaf]

if you cheat there is no relationship. a women who cheats is a peice of shit, a guy who cheats is too but its just doesnt seem as bad, is it just me?