Couples Counseling

[rainbococksleev]

Awkward silence or naa?

 

[Captain FT]

For sure its crickets in here now shit got real.

 

[miplank]

Nan I knew it would turn into this, it's C&C and expected. It does make me feel better about my choice to move forward. I'm not a bitter person.

Mitch at first you offer your sympathy, then it steers towards a mockery and entertainment. I've always heard in real life you're a nice guy and I've seen that side before, sometimes it is hard to get a read on you here though. You do provide good entertainment though and it allows me to laugh at this situation so thanks for that.

alright cocksucker, you want a real answer? Fine.


Nobody can tell you what the right thing to do is. Only you can decide what's best for you and your children at this point. Sounds like you've already figured it out though so best of luck.

It all just depends if she is WORTH another chance. I don't know her, and nobody else here does so only you can answer it. Has she cheated on you or anyone else in the past? If she has, she'll more than likely do it again.

If a few years down the road you end up in the same situation again relationship wise, will she go off and cheat to fulfill her needs again? How will she handle that?

Is cheating unforgivable? Im not saying it is, but 4 years bro? A one time incident is a lot easier to forgive than repeated affairs or ones that last years.

And, I know where you're coming from. To those in here that call me bitter, and say that i haven't forgiven or can't. Well, more than likely you were already aware you were being cheated on or suspicious of it already happening. It's a hell of a lot easier to forgive when you already knew or suspected a problem than when you think life is wonderful and nothing is wrong makes it very hard to trust that person again.


and I meant what I said when I wished you the best.

 

[rainbococksleev]

Also, that was really fude to act like planks not a good guy.. One time he even bought shirlz a bunch of steroids

 

[miplank]

$500 worth

 

[miplank]

But hey...she did leave EF.


So pry the best $500 i ever spent.

 

[rainbococksleev]

Lolololololololol she actually left when I called her javagurlru when she was roid ragin on her mom but hopefully the shame kept her away

 

[miplank]

lol@throwing your mom out of your house on xmas eve.


who the fuck does that?

 

[caligirl85]

^^ (Plank's longer post)this is exactly the reason I have stayed single and celibate for the last two years. For the first time in my life, someone hurt me so deeply, there was no going for strange or any of that nonsense. I also didn't want to spend the rest of my life with the absolute bitter rage that I have felt for a long time. Time does NOT heal all wounds. You have to do some work and eventually make a choice to let it go.

FT, I agree with plank. The answer lies with you and I think you know that. If you do all you can do to save the relationship and it doesn't work, at least you know you tried.

 

[miplank]

I'm smart as fuck i just have a hard time putting my thought into words.



takes me like 2 weeks to win any arguments with Cindy, because that's how long it takes me to make sense.