Confession. This has been haunting me for a while.

[gonelifting]

When I was doing it at the time, it seemed like a good idea but now I see that I may have been wrong.


A friend of mine used to work in an upscale jewelry store. He was just one of the salesmen there, no big deal. He couldn't afford anything in the place, none of us could. We weren't even allowed in there when the boss was there. lol We were young AND STUPID. It was the good old days of getting laid with as many chicks as you can. (Now I'm married/jailed)


Anyway, we devised a scheme to "Fuck over" the gold diggers we met by bringing them to this jewelry store during a date and pretend to want to buy some expensive jewelry. The gold digger bitches would of course be salivating at this and it did work out great.

We would browse through some jewelry with the guy behind the counter (we were all friends there) and he'd talk to us like he didn't know us. I'd pick out a $20,000 necklace or something. (Meanwhile you could hear dripping on the carpet under us from the chick's excitement) and of course they would have to alter it because everything is custom made over there, that takes "two weeks". No problem, I'll come back and pick it up. "Yes, sir". I'd give him a Gold credit card (Yes, gold. It was a long time ago I said!) and he'd come back with the "receipt", I'd put it in my pocket and the girl would be so excited AND I WOULD HAVE TWO WEEKS OF WHATEVER I WANTED WITH HER!

Of course it easily went over the couple of weeks if there was a delay or me and the girl (whore gold digger!) got into a fight for whatever reason. It was such a game. We all took turns with our friends behind the counter.


Didn't they deserve it though? THAT is my dilemna. Now thinking back, I was so young. How the hell did I know who the gold digger was? I didn't! I may have abused women who really didn't deserve it. It really does get to me sometimes because we did A LOT with these women and they all took it. I may talk to my wife about it because i've never mentioned it before to her. It's been so long, she may help me with it. Just to clear my conscience. I seriously don't know. I do tell my other buddies about it but they think otherwise. They say "Fuck them, they deserved it." but we don't know that.



Anyway, chicks are blind when it comes to money, or at least, expensive jewelry.

 

[Arabian]

Thats funny as hell..

 

[gonelifting]

Thats funny as hell..

wtf? How is that funny?

 

[HumorMe]

I think it is hilarious.

God has a special place for you but I think it is in Hell....lol.

They probably sensed it but were too caught up in the what ifs.

 

[gonelifting]

This isn't helping me. Fuck you people!

 

[GoldenDelicious]

what a bastard

this falls under the "bait n switch" category of pickeruppery (which in the pickup world is like paedophilia) and so, i must bomb you or something

oh and dont tell your wife. i have a cousin criminal lawyer who was telling me some stories about rapists etc that wanted to apologize to their victims (who didnt know who they were, they were never actually caught) and lets just say that the moral of the story is that some things just need to stay in the past and never be mentioned again. ever.

 

[OMEGA]

its actually a sad story
at the core

both of you were wrong

all parties involved were so very wrong

however you feel guilt
for some of the innocent that you put through that trap
then your not as bad as you think you are/ were.

 

[gonelifting]

. i have a cousin criminal lawyer .

Aren't they all?






Also, I'm not telling the girls, I'm telling my wife about it. Who the hell knows where the girls are now? Hmmm, maybe i should try and find them, that may give me closure. It's not like i raped them, they willingly did it (for greed!)

 

[OMEGA]

ps dont tell your wife

 

[SwolK]

wrong on both sides, so dont feel to bad about it

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Aren't they all?






Also, I'm not telling the girls, I'm telling my wife about it. Who the hell knows where the girls are now? Hmmm, maybe i should try and find them, that may give me closure. It's not like i raped them, they willingly did it (for greed!)

the moral of the story, O training partner of the inch high dude, is that some things shouldnt be mentioned because the little tiny bit of closure you get is absolutely dwarfed by the present day repercussions of bringing it up

anyway this isnt very nice, lets tell a joke

one day gonelifting had a shower, and noticed that no matter how much he washed himself, there was a really funny smell. so he went up to his mate Joe, and said "yo jo, do i smell funny to you?" joe takes a sniff and says "yep". gonelifting frowns, and has another shower. he goes up to his mate mike and says "hey mike, do i smell funny to you?" mike takes a sniff, and says "yep". gonelifting is like "wtf?" so has ANOTHER shower. he goes up to his buddy golden and says "yo golden, ive had 5 showers today and think i smell funny, wtf is going on?" golden looks at him knowingly and says "gonelifting, that smell is totally normal bro, dont worry about it" and gonelifting says "wtf do you mean? how can this smell be normal? its weird!" and golden says "well bro, its because...youre a cunt"

hope you feel better bor

 

[OMEGA]

he was wrong for playing the game, not for the OUTCOME(s) of the game

ThankGoodness he sees it
so many others dont

 

[mwm5]

i'd def give u a high five on that one if u told me in person.....................


damnit i don't have any friends that work at jewelry stores.

 

[jerkbox]

this is one case where 2 wrongs do make a right bro

 

[gonelifting]

I hope my wife doesn't treat me like you guys are. Shit!

 

[RottenWillow]

I hope my wife doesn't treat me like you guys are. Shit!

I absolve you, mi hijo.


I can also spank you with a table tennis paddle if you feel you deserve it.

 

[rykertest]

I would just let it lie as a lesson learned and a foolish choice of youth. I would NOT tell your wife, it's just needless stress and a wedge in the trust you two have. Just let sleeping dogs lie.

 

[OMEGA]

I would NOT tell your wife, it's just needless stress and a wedge in the trust you two have. Just let sleeping dogs lie.

\

heed this advice Gonelifing

normally you should be upfront but that plan of yours
was just a bit too sinister.

It may seem funny to guys
but to a GOOD woman your the worse of the worst

 

[bran987]

this is one case where 2 wrongs do make a right bro

lmao shit I miss having boxbox around

 

[jeepboi]

I see nothing wrong with that.

 

[Mr. dB]

ps dont tell your wife

Of course not. He may need to use it on her someday.

 

[Spanky11]

I have no problem with that..

I have done similiar things myself - borrowing my friends dad's car and blinged out apartment saying it was mine (I was 20 then, lol).

 

[GoldenDelicious]

I have no problem with that..

I have done similiar things myself - borrowing my friends dad's car and blinged out apartment saying it was mine (I was 20 then, lol).

you have no problem with outright lying and deceiving your way into a girls pants?

ech. may as well jsut tell them that you love them, want to marry them, and want to have kids with them...then fuckem and dumpem

 

[Spartacus]

gem of a thread

 

[Spanky11]

you have no problem with outright lying and deceiving your way into a girls pants?

ech. may as well jsut tell them that you love them, want to marry them, and want to have kids with them...then fuckem and dumpem

woah, slow down, con the fruitier...

I was living in Surfers Paradise at the time (where the quality of women are "somewhat" higher than the feral bush pigs that frequent Darwin), and these gold diggers knew what they were in for. Night club pick-ups...

I would never do it now, but when I was 19 and stupid it was fun then.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

woah, slow down, con the fruitier...

I was living in Surfers Paradise at the time (where the quality of women are "somewhat" higher than the feral bush pigs that frequent Darwin), and these gold diggers knew what they were in for. Night club pick-ups...

I would never do it now, but when I was 19 and stupid it was fun then.

ill forgive you so long as youve actually been to darwin and will back me up on how horrible the chicks ehre are, no one fucking believes me

nightclub pickups in darwin = japanese tentacle porn

...and i aint got a tentacle

and its fruiterer

and post pictures of the surfers skanks

 

[pintoca]

lol

this thread has great potential, wait till our resident gold-diggers catch a whiff of this!

 

[Spanky11]

and its fruiterer

you and I are probably the only peeps here that know the genius of con...

be careful or else I'll put the brownstreet boys onto you.

them some baaad muthers.

 

[mrplunkey]

Seems like a fair move to me.

Gold diggers are fair game for anything IMO

 

[HiDnGoD]

I would just chalk it up to a life lesson. It helped define who you are now. As we grow up, we test our parents constabtly, pushing the boundaries & they correct us. (SMACK). But some other lessons we are left to learn ourselves, & be our own moral yardstick. You found the extent of yours, and feel guilty for it. Don't. Nobody was hurt, the girls didn't do anything other than probe the extent of their morals also.

 

[JayC9]

A perfectly viable method of sorting the wheat from the chaff. Full marks for initiative, as you were.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Seems like a fair move to me.

Gold diggers are fair game for anything IMO

i really dont agree with everyone in the thread using this as justification.

i mean, sure, if you *knew* that the girl was a golddigger (by rubbing your magic crystal ball) then okay, fine, the punishment suits the crime and everybody has equal amounts of shit on their faces (because imo, its still a cruddy angle to be using to get laid.) but the ability to purchase large gifts taps into womens preprogrammed desire for a man who can provide for a family unit. its legitimate justification for attraction, and doesnt neccessarily mean that shes a "golddigger".

 

[mrplunkey]

i really dont agree with everyone in the thread using this as justification.

i mean, sure, if you *knew* that the girl was a golddigger (by rubbing your magic crystal ball) then okay, fine, the punishment suits the crime and everybody has equal amounts of shit on their faces (because imo, its still a cruddy angle to be using to get laid.) but the ability to purchase large gifts taps into womens preprogrammed desire for a man who can provide for a family unit. its legitimate justification for attraction, and doesnt neccessarily mean that shes a "golddigger".

Ahh... yes and no though.

In this case he's not talking about providing day-to-day needs. For example, it's logical for a woman to be drawn to a nice house or to being fed well (either by going out to dinner or the guy cooking at his home). That's provider stuff. Even a nice, well-maintained car is a sign of "I can provide."

Discretionary items, like $20,000 pieces of jewelry aren't day-to-day needs (except for a few women I know). I'd argue that if you took a "keeper" to a jewelry store and started browsing 20k items, she's say something like "couldn't that 20k be used better somewhere else?". And don't get me wrong, if the guy is hell-bent on her having something that is nice, he'll buy it anyway. But it would be a tell-tale sign if she walks through the door thinking "MEMEMEMEMEME".

 

[heatherrae]

Well, I think that you are mature to now realize that it was wrong.

Here is the thing about getting jewelry: Women (almost 100% of us) are going to be excited if our man buys us jewelry. It is a very romantic gift that says..ahem...LOVE. Now, what some people may think is gold digging is actually us being excited because we feel that the grand gesture is a show of your affection, and we LOVE YOU FOR IT!

Let's say my fella said, "Heather, I'm going to put $20,000 in your account for you to spend on yourself." I would be very happy. Who wouldn't?

Now, let's say my fell took me to a jewelry store and picked out some beautiful $20,000 piece and had it customized. Well, that would make me feel very loved and I would be exhilerated and think "Wow, he really loves me!" Yeah, I would probably be a little kitten to him for a great while after that.

That doesn't make them gold diggers, necessarily. It makes them vulnerable human beings with very real emotions that you took advantage of for sex.


That being said, it was a long time ago. Say a prayer for God's forgiveness and move on. I wouldn't tell the wife, necessarily. There are some things we as wives don't want to hear. If my guy did something like that in the past, I really don't want to hear about him and other chicks.

Just my opinion.

 

[pintoca]

Well, I think that you are mature to now realize that it was wrong.

Here is the thing about getting jewelry: Women (almost 100% of us) are going to be excited if our man buys us jewelry. It is a very romantic gift that says..ahem...LOVE. Now, what some people may think is gold digging is actually us being excited because we feel that the grand gesture is a show of your affection, and we LOVE YOU FOR IT!

Let's say my fella said, "Heather, I'm going to put $20,000 in your account for you to spend on yourself." I would be very happy. Who wouldn't?

Now, let's say my fell took me to a jewelry store and picked out some beautiful $20,000 piece and had it customized. Well, that would make me feel very loved and I would be exhilerated and think "Wow, he really loves me!" Yeah, I would probably be a little kitten to him for a great while after that.

That doesn't make them gold diggers, necessarily. It makes them vulnerable human beings with very real emotions that you took advantage of for sex.


That being said, it was a long time ago. Say a prayer for God's forgiveness and move on. I wouldn't tell the wife, necessarily. There are some things we as wives don't want to hear. If my guy did something like that in the past, I really don't want to hear about him and other chicks.

Just my opinion.

I just LOVE how you rationalize this. You choose your career wisely, I have no doubt you are a good lawyer

 

[mrplunkey]

Now, let's say my fell took me to a jewelry store and picked out some beautiful $20,000 piece and had it customized. Well, that would make me feel very loved and I would be exhilerated and think "Wow, he really loves me!" Yeah, I would probably be a little kitten to him for a great while after that.

And that is the irony of it all. To a very wealthy person, 20k can be as little as a few days' worth of passive income yet it says "Wow, he really loves me!" to some women.

To a person who can randomly drop 20k on a discretionary item, their only valuable expendable asset is their time. But I doubt the same "wealth conscious" chick would think "Wow, he really loves me! He set aside two whole days just to be with me!"

HTH

 

[stilleto]

i just want to know one thing, gonelifting.

When is my necklace going to be ready???????????????

 

[mrplunkey]

i just want to know one thing, gonelifting.

When is my necklace going to be ready???????????????

Hah!

He may be working your necklace up while watching your avitar even as we speak. Are pearls ok?

 

[pintoca]

And that is the irony of it all. To a very wealthy person, 20k can be as little as a few days' worth of passive income yet it says "Wow, he really loves me!" to some women.

To a person who can randomly drop 20k on a discretionary item, their only valuable expendable asset is their time. But I doubt the same "wealth conscious" chick would think "Wow, he really loves me! He set aside two whole days just to be with me!"

HTH

This is, by far, one of the best C&C post I have ever read.

Just to add a bit to it, imagine this guy in that position:

"Forbes estimates Adelson earned about $1 million an hour over the past two years."

1 MIllion an hour, it would take a lot for that guy to show love to somebody...

 

[heatherrae]

And that is the irony of it all. To a very wealthy person, 20k can be as little as a few days' worth of passive income yet it says "Wow, he really loves me!" to some women.

To a person who can randomly drop 20k on a discretionary item, their only valuable expendable asset is their time. But I doubt the same "wealth conscious" chick would think "Wow, he really loves me! He set aside two whole days just to be with me!"

HTH

Yeah, I think the same way about him taking time off of work to be with just me, because that takes some manuevering on his part and also lets me know that he still really desires to be romantic with me.

Look, you and I are in similar places in life, and I can still tell you that no matter how much money comes in, jewelry says "I love you." My guy could get me a $100 dollar necklace, but my eyes would still sparkle more from that than if he handed me a $1000 gift certificate. It isn't the cost of the item so much and the symbolism.

I'm not saying that jewelry is the only thing that is a gesture of love. I also get smitten over poems, love letters, picnics, etc. I'm a WOMAN. We are just hard wired that way.

 

[stilleto]

Hah!

He may be working your necklace up while watching your avitar even as we speak. Are pearls ok?

OHH, a pearl necklace!! nothing says "i love you" more than THAT.

 

[mrplunkey]

OHH, a pearl necklace!! nothing says "i love you" more than THAT.

Now *that* is a quality response!

 

[gonelifting]

My wife is a very understanding woman, so i think we will be discussing it. I see all the "Goldiggers deserve it" replies but THAT is my problem. I characterized Goldiggers just by what they wore and how they talked to me. MAYBE, POSSIBLY, LIKELY I was wrong, and THAT is what I can't stop thinking about.

Come to think of it, that's how I got my wife to go out with me. Maybe she will be mad at that part. I know she'll ask about it when I tell her. It started out the same way but then I sort of fell for her and "kept" that one. lol Maybe she won't be mad because I DID end up with her even though I tricked her into it.

I know one girl I did this with and may also contact her about it, just to say I'm sorry. I think sdhe'd like that. She actually still contacts me and tries to hook up once in a while, even though I'm married. I'll tell my wife about her too because I want to come clean.

 

[mrplunkey]

My wife is a very understanding woman, so i think we will be discussing it. I see all the "Goldiggers deserve it" replies but THAT is my problem. I characterized Goldiggers just by what they wore and how they talked to me. MAYBE, POSSIBLY, LIKELY I was wrong, and THAT is what I can't stop thinking about.

Come to think of it, that's how I got my wife to go out with me. Maybe she will be mad at that part. I know she'll ask about it when I tell her. It started out the same way but then I sort of fell for her and "kept" that one. lol Maybe she won't be mad because I DID end up with her even though I tricked her into it.

I know one girl I did this with and may also contact her about it, just to say I'm sorry. I think sdhe'd like that. She actually still contacts me and tries to hook up once in a while, even though I'm married. I'll tell my wife about her too because I want to come clean.

Bad idea IMO. But that's just my 2 cents -- you got what you paid for!

 

[heatherrae]

All these confessions to your wife are a little unnecessary. We want to think we are really special. Don't burst her bubble by telling her that you picked her up with a trick you played on lots of women. She probably will understand and forgive it, but it just sort of steals some of the magic. You know what I mean?

 

[Cutiebaby]

LMAO, that is a terrible thing to do to a woman..
No, really. I am not that into jewlery, so I would never act in such a manner. I have very little and hardly ever wear it.
Yes some woman can be a little odd like that.The thought of a man with money not only gives them the greed to want any and every thing but it also gives them a false sense of control.
Did they deserve it? NO
But damn that is funny!

 

[mrplunkey]

LMAO, that is a terrible thing to do to a woman..
No, really. I am not that into jewlery, so I would never act in such a manner. I have very little and hardly ever wear it.
Yes some woman can be a little odd like that.The thought of a man with money not only gives them the greed to want any and every thing but it also gives them a false sense of control.
Did they deserve it? NO
But damn that is funny!

And that is what makes you a real find -- Needto is a lucky man.

If I marched a woman into a jewelry store to buy a $20k item and she said "I am not that into it. Let me use it to put my kids through college someday", I'd probably write her a check for it and *then* buy jewelry anyway since she could be a "keeper".

Of course, the gold diggers out there are probably thinking: "hmm... This gives me an idea! It might be worth a shot trying that. I could double my payout!". See how twisted you guys are? No need to respond, but I'm sure the idea crossed your mind as you were reading the post

 

[stilleto]

i'm sure gonelifting is really tormented by all of this.

he's that kind of guy.

tormented.

 

[OMEGA]

My wife is a very understanding woman, so i think we will be discussing it.

YOUR about to make the biggest mistake ever.........

you WERE warned.............

 

[needtogetaas]

LMAO, that is a terrible thing to do to a woman..
No, really. I am not that into jewlery, so I would never act in such a manner. I have very little and hardly ever wear it.
Yes some woman can be a little odd like that.The thought of a man with money not only gives them the greed to want any and every thing but it also gives them a false sense of control.
Did they deserve it? NO
But damn that is funny!

you ant got that much jewlery my ass.you have fucken 3 sets of wedding rings.not 1 not 2 but three.the first one I got was 1 carret dimond set in gold prinsess cut that came with the plane gold wedding band and my band.then cuz that was youre first ring and it was to small I got you another 1 1/2 carrit damond ring heart shaped stone in a 24 carrit gold setting.then after that I had to get you a wite gold set cuz you just loved wite gold.so I went out and got a hole knew set of rings al wite gold fore you and fore me.that was onther 1 carrit ring to.

then I got you like 20 other rings neclassis and earing to.now I know you would still love me evin if I had not gotten them but dont ever say you ant got much jewlery.thanks.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

gonelifting, all bullshit aside...this is a "no good deed goes unpunished" scenario if ever there was one

 

[heatherrae]

you ant got that much jewlery my ass.you have fucken 3 sets of wedding rings.not 1 not 2 but three.the first one I got was 1 carret dimond set in gold prinsess cut that came with the plane gold wedding band and my band.then cuz that was youre first ring and it was to small I got you another 1 1/2 carrit damond ring heart shaped stone in a 24 carrit gold setting.then after that I had to get you a wite gold set cuz you just loved wite gold.so I went out and got a hole knew set of rings al wite gold fore you and fore me.that was onther 1 carrit ring to.

then I got you like 20 other rings neclassis and earing to.now I know you would still love me evin if I had not gotten them but dont ever say you ant got much jewlery.thanks.

and did she tell you, "please return those to the store and put the money in an account for the kids' school?" No. Pwnd by hubby.

No biggie, though. ALL women love jewelry.

 

[Sub-Zero]

your not feeling guilty. your bragging. and props.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Well, I think that you are mature to now realize that it was wrong.

Here is the thing about getting jewelry: Women (almost 100% of us) are going to be excited if our man buys us jewelry. It is a very romantic gift that says..ahem...LOVE. Now, what some people may think is gold digging is actually us being excited because we feel that the grand gesture is a show of your affection, and we LOVE YOU FOR IT!

Let's say my fella said, "Heather, I'm going to put $20,000 in your account for you to spend on yourself." I would be very happy. Who wouldn't?

Now, let's say my fell took me to a jewelry store and picked out some beautiful $20,000 piece and had it customized. Well, that would make me feel very loved and I would be exhilerated and think "Wow, he really loves me!" Yeah, I would probably be a little kitten to him for a great while after that.

That doesn't make them gold diggers, necessarily. It makes them vulnerable human beings with very real emotions that you took advantage of for sex.


That being said, it was a long time ago. Say a prayer for God's forgiveness and move on. I wouldn't tell the wife, necessarily. There are some things we as wives don't want to hear. If my guy did something like that in the past, I really don't want to hear about him and other chicks.

Just my opinion.

or you could just take the jewelry and then if the guy feels a strong bond that causes his ejaculatory system to overact u could break his heart and never call him again cuz he was inexperienced.

or you could just make him jerkoff

 

[swolenole]

I think you were a very industreous and inovative as a young man.

 

[gjohnson5]

LOL , you can't buy no $20,000 piece of jewelry with no gold card...

 

[ZKaudio]

the women were just as wrong for treating you differently after you "spent" 20k on them...

 

[heatherrae]

or you could just take the jewelry and then if the guy feels a strong bond that causes his ejaculatory system to overact u could break his heart and never call him again cuz he was inexperienced.

or you could just make him jerkoff

Yep.

 

[Sub-Zero]

the women were just as wrong for treating you differently after you "spent" 20k on them...

and stupi

 

[Freddie de Lux]

I don't think you were a bastard, just insecure. And as long the sex was mutual consent, you really did not do anything wrong. It's past and you've recognized you've you should not have done that, so get over it. They went to bed with you because they wanted to. Aren't you discrediting yourself too much and thinking that they went to bed with you because they thought you rich? They may have really liked you, which made their options very legitimate. You tried to put on a show to impress some girls. So what? Everybody has done that when young, out of insecurity. It was a stupid idea, but to me that's all that was.

Now, when you say you did a lot to those girls, for our delectation, can you please be more specific?

 

[TC2]

I hope my wife doesn't treat me like you guys are. Shit!

fuck that.....if women want to be fuckin whores for money(or the prospect of) them fuck em, they deserve to be treated as such.

 

[gonelifting]

fuck that.....if women want to be fuckin whores for money(or the prospect of) them fuck em, they deserve to be treated as such.

I won't tell my wife this, but how can I call her a whore but in a nicer way? This may open up a big can of worms for me. I'm not scared to get what I deserve, I just want to do it tactfully and hopefully get laid more because of my honesty.


I did get in touch with another guy from the "G diggers smackdown team". He said he knows of 3 or 4 of the women from the past. I know one of them is married and I think we're going to write the husband a letter describing what had happened and an apology. NO we won't call his wife names and shit! We will do it with much respect. I think this one buddy is on board of this conscience train and wants to do the right thing like me.

I'm feeling like a new man already.

 

[HiDnGoD]

I won't tell my wife this, but how can I call her a whore but in a nicer way? This may open up a big can of worms for me. I'm not scared to get what I deserve, I just want to do it tactfully and hopefully get laid more because of my honesty.


I did get in touch with another guy from the "G diggers smackdown team". He said he knows of 3 or 4 of the women from the past. I know one of them is married and I think we're going to write the husband a letter describing what had happened and an apology. NO we won't call his wife names and shit! We will do it with much respect. I think this one buddy is on board of this conscience train and wants to do the right thing like me.

I'm feeling like a new man already.

Bro, you are gonna open a biiig can of worms for this lady & her husband. Trust me, he don't wanna know how easy it was to lay his princess.

 

[step@half]

I would not tell it would only make her wonder about your relationship and do believe you are truely remorseful so why torture her with wonder

Human beings are bound to make mistakes
Human beings are supposed to make mistakes
Nathaniel Branden

 

[step@half]

sounds like you have been bothered by this for a while now and I believe you have learned from it, that's why you have the solid relationship you have now, why destroy it with what if or wonder

why trow a wrentch in it don't punish her or yourself any further

 

[bilter]

all I can say is THANK YOU FOR SHARING!! that is an ingenious plan that I hope to try out this weekend

















Ok, before you all flame me I am a happily married father of 1 and 1 on the way and I have no intentions of trying this. It was a good plan though.

 

[markshark]

When I was doing it at the time, it seemed like a good idea but now I see that I may have been wrong.


A friend of mine used to work in an upscale jewelry store. He was just one of the salesmen there, no big deal. He couldn't afford anything in the place, none of us could. We weren't even allowed in there when the boss was there. lol We were young AND STUPID. It was the good old days of getting laid with as many chicks as you can. (Now I'm married/jailed)


Anyway, we devised a scheme to "Fuck over" the gold diggers we met by bringing them to this jewelry store during a date and pretend to want to buy some expensive jewelry. The gold digger bitches would of course be salivating at this and it did work out great.


We would browse through some jewelry with the guy behind the counter (we were all friends there) and he'd talk to us like he didn't know us. I'd pick out a $20,000 necklace or something. (Meanwhile you could hear dripping on the carpet under us from the chick's excitement) and of course they would have to alter it because everything is custom made over there, that takes "two weeks". No problem, I'll come back and pick it up. "Yes, sir". I'd give him a Gold credit card (Yes, gold. It was a long time ago I said!) and he'd come back with the "receipt", I'd put it in my pocket and the girl would be so excited AND I WOULD HAVE TWO WEEKS OF WHATEVER I WANTED WITH HER!

Of course it easily went over the couple of weeks if there was a delay or me and the girl (whore gold digger!) got into a fight for whatever reason. It was such a game. We all took turns with our friends behind the counter.


Didn't they deserve it though? THAT is my dilemna. Now thinking back, I was so young. How the hell did I know who the gold digger was? I didn't! I may have abused women who really didn't deserve it. It really does get to me sometimes because we did A LOT with these women and they all took it. I may talk to my wife about it because i've never mentioned it before to her. It's been so long, she may help me with it. Just to clear my conscience. I seriously don't know. I do tell my other buddies about it but they think otherwise. They say "Fuck them, they deserved it." but we don't know that.



Anyway, chicks are blind when it comes to money, or at least, expensive jewelry.

the ones that deserved it are the ones that no question were going to let u buy the shit for them. the ones who said "no please u dont have to do that" maybe didnt, but who gives a shit. they are all shallow in some way so u should be happy u got over on them. fuck them.

 

[Selene]

oh my my! gonelifting mon cheri, you must stop living in the past, you cannot invade this woman's life and send apology letter to her husband this in itself is a worse transgression then using jewlery store friend to get laid when you were young.

Everyone does silly things when they are young, however the difference is that you learn a lesson from these things and know that they are silly this is good.

To bring this up after years to your wife, this woman and her husband is more damaging.

go to church, light a candle of white color and pray for peace for your soul

any reasonable woman on first date with a man would not accept a 20,000 piece of jewlery I am sorry. No matter how much women like jewlery if a Man were to spend that kind of money on me that I did not know very well I would run very fast in other direction or scream for my bodyguard!

I hope you find peace for your past actions but not at someone else's expense which is worse now then what you did when you were young

 

[heatherrae]

I won't tell my wife this, but how can I call her a whore but in a nicer way? This may open up a big can of worms for me. I'm not scared to get what I deserve, I just want to do it tactfully and hopefully get laid more because of my honesty.


I did get in touch with another guy from the "G diggers smackdown team". He said he knows of 3 or 4 of the women from the past. I know one of them is married and I think we're going to write the husband a letter describing what had happened and an apology. NO we won't call his wife names and shit! We will do it with much respect. I think this one buddy is on board of this conscience train and wants to do the right thing like me.

I'm feeling like a new man already.

I really hope you are joking!!! You are going to write a woman's husband a letter and say, "sorry for banging your wife under false pretenses in the past"

Good God, come to your senses!

She has forgotten your past issues, most likely, but her husband is going to be PISSED about the letter.

 

[heatherrae]

I don't think you were a bastard, just insecure. And as long the sex was mutual consent, you really did not do anything wrong. It's past and you've recognized you've you should not have done that, so get over it. They went to bed with you because they wanted to. Aren't you discrediting yourself too much and thinking that they went to bed with you because they thought you rich? They may have really liked you, which made their options very legitimate. You tried to put on a show to impress some girls. So what? Everybody has done that when young, out of insecurity. It was a stupid idea, but to me that's all that was.

Now, when you say you did a lot to those girls, for our delectation, can you please be more specific?

Yep, legitimate point here!

 

[gonelifting]

I really hope you are joking!!! You are going to write a woman's husband a letter and say, "sorry for banging your wife under false pretenses in the past"

Good God, come to your senses!

She has forgotten your past issues, most likely, but her husband is going to be PISSED about the letter.

If you understood my post, I will CAREFULLY word the letter as to not make it sound as bad as you just did.

I am not an animal!

 

[markshark]

If you understood my post, I will CAREFULLY word the letter as to not make it sound as bad as you just did.

I am not an animal!

why would u ever send a letter. she wanted to fuck, u wanted to fuck, and u guys fucked. its a thing of the past.

 

[Selene]

If you understood my post, I will CAREFULLY word the letter as to not make it sound as bad as you just did.

I am not an animal!

You ask for advise and yet you do not take advise , many here have warned you of sending off such letter. I feel very badly for this poor woman when her husband gets letter. No matter what no one wants to remind of their past love life good or bad. Perhaps you are that ONE that she is thinking "WTF was I thinking" we all have at least one of those!

do not make situation worse, if you are remosefull then forget it
say a prayer for peacefulness in yourself, bring your wife home flowers and tell her how much you appreciate and lover her

 

[pitbullrocco]

jesus h christ.

i will pray for you gone. please everyone just tell him they will pray for him.

and maybe an appointment with a psychologist tomorrow?

selene, wtf does "mon cheri" mean?

 

[Selene]

jesus h christ.

i will pray for you gone. please everyone just tell him they will pray for him.

and maybe an appointment with a psychologist tomorrow?

selene, wtf does "mon cheri" mean?

mon cheri
my sweet

 

[markmark]

fuck that.....if women want to be fuckin whores for money(or the prospect of) them fuck em, they deserve to be treated as such.

you said it right!

 

[markmark]

back in the mid80's I used my brothers new carrera or older z-28 to pick up young chics .. these girls will do just about anything to be seen riding in these cars.. I have to say I had alot of girls and to this day the carrera is still looking good....

 

[muscleboundman]

If you understood my post, I will CAREFULLY word the letter as to not make it sound as bad as you just did.

I am not an animal!

Bro - u r either pulllin our dicks, or you've learned nothin bout women since u was young....

 

[HiDnGoD]

Sooooo, you wrote the letter? Well, she prolly already told her husband about it, & they got their kicks, or had their laugh. Then you sent the letter & they're going, "WTF is this guy doing? He must be nuts."
Did you tell the Mrs.?

 

[jh1]

Harmless.

Said girls were giving it up, now way to know why.

If they were giving it up simply because they 'THOUGHT' gonelifing was loaded, well that's their problem... fuck'em... and HE DID.

 

[anabolicboy]

dude its fine. thats awesome. dont feel bad. you didnt rape anybody for christs sake.

 

[BNG]

RELAX about it already!

You feel bad now because you now are mature enough to realize you were hurting feelings. Welcome to the club.
I went through a...phase I guess... where I looked for gold diggers on purpose just so I could twist them up, fool their greedy side, and play them. It was a challenge, and a good time. I didn't feel bad about it at all. They were going through a "greedy goldigger slut" phase. We just mutually accomidated each others immature needs. I didn't realize how damaging it could be for them until later.

I wound up doing two friends. One was pretty cool and I wish I'd have spared her. I had chatted her up a few times at the club and one night we wound up out in the parking lot in her car. She rode me and we enjoyed it. No big deal yet. It was fun, no commitments. Her friend was a target! Later that night she wanted to prove she was hot enough to lure me away from her "best" friend, and given her attitude, I was happy to screw her up. I went back to the parking lot, same car, banged her, and had her finish it up in her mouth! It almost gave me a high. When we went back inside her friend saw us and asked where we were. I just told her to ask her friend how her pussy tasted. Major cat fight, I felt bad, and it ended my phase. I appologised to the nicer one of the two and told her I had her friend suck my dick afterwards just because she was such a bitch. It didn't help. I quite going there too. Didn't want to see either of them again and they lived close by.

Shit happens, leave the past in the past. And don't tell your wife anything specific about previous conquests. You could just sum it up by saying you were a bit of a asshole on occasion. Leave it alone.

 

[gonelifting]

Thanks.

I'm thinking of having an intervention type thing with all of them. Two couples that are married now.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Thanks.

I'm thinking of having an intervention type thing with all of them. Two couples that are married now.

Who needs the intervention, bro. You, or them? They have dealt with it in their own way & moved on. It's not up to you to force them to open that can of worms again.

 

[jeepboi]

Do you plan on bringing the 20k necklace if not I would forget it. As of right now they only remember I coulda had a 20k necklace from that guy "whats his name"

 

[Longhorn85]

I'd put it in my pocket and the girl would be so excited AND I WOULD HAVE TWO WEEKS OF WHATEVER I WANTED WITH HER!

Of course it easily went over the couple of weeks if there was a delay or me and the girl (whore gold digger!) got into a fight for whatever reason. It was such a game. We all took turns with our friends behind the counter.

Great ruse for starving young guys. Not the kind of thing I would tell my wife about, but I sure would share it with my sons.

What was one of the best endings that you can remember? After she realized there would be no necklace I mean? Come on, share.

 

[Brian123]

You might feel better if you tell your wife, but even if she forgives you, she'd feel a lot better not knowing about it.

A girl would be a gold digger if that was the only reason she hooked up with you in the first place.

Otherwise the whole jewlery thing would just help you get laid tonight instead of next week. No biggie.

Just think about how the gold digger ones would be if it werent for the jewlery and you'll say phuk it, they deserve it. Even if you think they didnt deserve it despite the fact that they might have been bitches, you wouldnt feel too guilty, although you may have done wrong.

Besides, dont they enjoy sex too? Its like you buy them something to do something they enjoy?

Reminds me of Tupacs "Fair exchange" in which he said "your attitude aint realistic, yeah its true i'm getting pussy, but baby, you're getting dick!" LOL

Seriously though, and far from that way of thinking, I think you're feeling waaaay to guilty and overreacting.

Think of it this way, if it were only the jewlery that got you between your legs, shes not worth thinking about too much. She just got paid for something she enjoyed, but got ripped off. Bad? Yes. Horrible? No.

If it werent the jewlery, then well, jewlery had nothing to do with it, although you might be guilty, somehow, when you look at other angles of it that you never mentioned.

Not that I ever did it, playing with her emotions, making her expect a long term relationship, or marriage etc just to get between her legs is what I would feel guilty about and would never do anyway.

If you really bought her jewlery and thats what got you between her legs, then you just got yourself one expensive prostitute.

If you USED jewlery ( paid for or not ) to play her emotions, that are NOT related to material ( girly romance etc) , then yeah you should feel guilty. But now that its over, get over it and be good to your wife, women, and everyone else and live a happy life.

 

[step@half]

I would just chalk it up to a life lesson. It helped define who you are now. As we grow up, we test our parents constabtly, pushing the boundaries & they correct us. (SMACK). But some other lessons we are left to learn ourselves, & be our own moral yardstick. You found the extent of yours, and feel guilty for it. Don't. Nobody was hurt, the girls didn't do anything other than probe the extent of their morals also.

good answer

 

[IronMind24]

Yea i agree with the previous post too.. If they were Gold Diggers, why is it even wrong? They were using you for money, you were using them for sex... isnt that how it works lol