Cialis and non AS women

[Ceebs]

Maybe I should clarify - when I say sex drive, I'm talking about the mental aspect - the feeling of "absolutely positively MUST GET IT ON RIGHT THIS MOMENT". Cialis by itself - without stimulation and subsequent increase in arousal level - won't increase sex drive.

There are many physiological and psychological reasons why someone's libido could be on the downswing (hormonal imbalance, illness, dissatisfaction with the relationship, etc), and although it's an amazing little pill, I don't like seeing Cialis touted as a cure-all for what might be a deeper problem.

 

[spatts]

Gotcha. Agreed.

 

[Puddles]

But...cialis run once in the morning and once at night for like 2 days in a row will certainly not let you forget about your clit. It's like it's WANTING attention. It's like cialis gives your clit a little woodie and reminds you that it's there and that it needs a release. And even after a few orgasms...it's still wanting more. At least thats what it does to me. I normally have a good interest in sex, but being on cialis it's more of a need to get relief kind of thing...therefore it increases sex drive...to get physical satisfaction.

 

[MS]

You've received a great deal of info here. I think the bottom line is that drugs like cialis will help her only if her problem is (as they say) organic in nature (in other words lack of blood flow). This problem is a lot more common in men than women. If her problem is more in her head (as they say) then cialis will not help (this problem is much more common in women than men).

Take home note: The brain is the biggest sex organ, bar none.

 

[xsnrg]

Thanks for all the great info.I think most of her problem with sex drive is her work,its very labor intensive.She doesnt have any steam left at the end of the day.She always was the type of girl that had to be touched inorder for he to get turn on,so we were hoping that maybe the cialis would make it a little more sensitive.Its just getting her started that can be the problem sometime.But once she is going its like heaven........multi orgasms,and soaked......When she cums there is no dought.Just a note on the brain being the biggest sex organ,i agree and i try my very best to give her that as i know women need stuff like that.I have no problem giving 110%But sex ,the physical part is important also,just ask anyone that aint getting any if its important.

 

[Spoyledbrat]

Nothing related---but what a sexy avatar Spatts!

 

[Ceebs]

She always was the type of girl that had to be touched inorder for he to get turn on,so we were hoping that maybe the cialis would make it a little more sensitive.Its just getting her started that can be the problem sometime.But once she is going its like heaven........multi orgasms,and soaked......When she cums there is no dought.

In that case, I think you two just found a new best friend. Good luck to you.

 

[lil k]

Maybe I should clarify - when I say sex drive, I'm talking about the mental aspect - the feeling of "absolutely positively MUST GET IT ON RIGHT THIS MOMENT". Cialis by itself - without stimulation and subsequent increase in arousal level - won't increase sex drive.

very well said...

 

[fawnmarie]

I think most of her problem with sex drive is her work,its very labor intensive.She doesnt have any steam left at the end of the day.

Yep - it's important - but is sounds like she needs something to relax more than something to get her "hard". A light meal (provided by you), a back rub, a tub soak, and a short nap might be more work, but more effective.

Since me and the SO are pretty tired and worn out from lots of work, kids, etc., we try to go to bed a little early and then one of us usually wakes the other up about two hours later.

BTW - Viagra doesn't work on men or women if they're worn out and tired or nervous and stressed out, either.

Fawn

 

[xsnrg]

Yep - it's important - but is sounds like she needs something to relax more than something to get her "hard". A light meal (provided by you), a back rub, a tub soak, and a short nap might be more work, but more effective.

Since me and the SO are pretty tired and worn out from lots of work, kids, etc., we try to go to bed a little early and then one of us usually wakes the other up about two hours later.

BTW - Viagra doesn't work on men or women if they're worn out and tired or nervous and stressed out, either.

Fawn

Thanks for the advice.But i do all the finner things for her as she is worth it.Its just someting new that we thought we might try.