OK, I have strong feelings on this subject, unlike most of the stuff that's posted in ELITE BTW SHEETS. When I'm in the gym working out, i don't want guys to look at me, talk to me, saddle up next to me, i want them to stay the fuck away from me. i'm trying to workout, i'm sweating, i'm grunting, and i don't want to feel like i'm on display. i don't mind at all being on display at a party or at a club, but when i'm on a treadmill or doing lunges or preacher's curls i don't want any guy coming up to me (in fact, the better looking he is, the more pissed i get), so in my humble opinion, don't think of it as "bitch radar" or the term that was coined, realize that a woman in a gym in spandex is getting bothered and accosted by men every time out and it gets quite tiring. its also, as magdalena said, when men most feel their "oats" (term comes from feeding horses fermented oats), when men feel huge and verile and nothing can stop them, well its kind of a pain for me. if you want to talk to me, wait until i'm all done, catch me in the parking lot after (to talk, frackal, just to talk, i know what you'll say if you read this) or better yet if its late on the way out not out by my car b./c that can be scary too.... ok, enough of my $0.02, the point is, when i'm at the gym i'm there to sweat and tear up my muscles so they'll grow back tighter and bigger, i'm not there to be picked up by pumped up guys waving their dicks around -= wait until we're at the club or a party, wave it around then, and we'll see!!!!!