Our gym caters quiet a lot (too much imho, but there is no better gym around until after summer) to socializing stuff , they have a large bar area where they even serve beer.....
Yeh , the bar with the overpriced drinks is the place to "cooldown" after your workout and it happens quiet a lot
In the iron pit you better concentrate on your curls than on the girls.
Sometimes girls throw out a bait to me in the gym asking "can you help me with this? or How do I?..." If it looks like a serious question I will give a friendly answer, otherwise i will tell them to ask the managment or the personal trainer (meanwhile watching that no dude is stealing MY dumbells while distracted), but that's it I will not allow to get further involved with chitchatting cause for me intens disciplined training is very personal like jerking off, it's ego-tripping on adrenaline with little room for others (god i love it when u have a trainingday when you set new PR's or break through some lactic acid painbarrier)
However we have a seperate floor with stationary bikes, as biking stationary gets rather dull after 15 minutes, it's a good place to have a friendly conversation with guys/girls, with or without intentions....
In this aerobic environment i am much more openminded and I have learned not to waste time : Like I sais I train at my gym and do not scout for girls, but If something really hot approaches the bikes, I don't wait for her to find a bike on the other side of the room, butI look her in the face and say just "hi" with a cinsere smile, like i am really glad to see her (which I really am). A cinsere Smile is ALLWAYS good, it makes other people more relaxt.
This is all the information they need ! This shows your interest while at the same time not intimidating and free of obligations.
Females read facial expressions better than anything and if she don't like you, she will choose the bike on the other side anyway, or if she likes you or is curious about you, she will settle for a much closer spot, so that an environment is created where "something might happen"
Try to avoid making comments about what hot body she got (save that for later, when you get actually to inspect it, she gets to hear that from most of the guys) instead ask for personal things, like:
- her work
- her sisters
Females are curious creatures and Usually I start a conversation with something unusual, like "can i ask something? , ..........How do you drink your coffee??"
It's personal, it's unusual that tickles her curious mind about "WHY is he asking this question ? " Good, now that I made her wonder what makes this guy thick, the conversation will take a natural course....
Like bigsatan says: the beast inside the man needs to be exercised not exorcised...