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2 ton hoss
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FUCK ME IF I AM WRONG, BUT ISN'T YOUR NAME CONSUELA?
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wiseguy7
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Why don't you just walk up to her and say hi or something how hard can it be. I always hear guys saying the gym is for pumping iron not ass if a hot chick came up to you would you blow her off I wouldn't.
Sure the gym is for training but I have a life unlike some of the people on this board. I love working out but half the reason I do work out is for the women. I find nothing strange or wrong with socializing while at the gym. Its my hobby to work out and I don't get paid for it so I do everything I can to have fun and enjoy it.
Some of you people act like your on some kind of psychotic life or death mission when your at the gym and act like Nazi's. I feel sorry for you people. There is so much more to life than the gym.
That's not to say that I would interrupt someone while they were in the middle of a set or go squat on a machine to chat with someone while a guy is waiting to use it. Thanks for replying to the post though.
Some of you people act like your on some kind of psychotic life or death mission when your at the gym and act like Nazi's. I feel sorry for you people. There is so much more to life than the gym.
That's not to say that I would interrupt someone while they were in the middle of a set or go squat on a machine to chat with someone while a guy is waiting to use it. Thanks for replying to the post though.
cure
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Gord said:
Every woman that i know that works out including my ex girlfriend and girlfriend do not like to be bothered at all while in the gym. You might want to socialize yet others might not want to talk at all. If you choose not to go balls to the wall other might so it's just out of plain consideration for other people.
fistfullofsteel
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chicks in the gym have their bitch shields up at a maximum.
Norman Bates
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Gord said:
We are not??
Norman Bates
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Some gyms have a kind of bar where they serve over priced drinks.
I think approaching them there is better than while they are doing some exercises.
I introduced a chick to my Gym and she explicitely asked me if one gets to know a lot of people there.
I think approaching them there is better than while they are doing some exercises.
I introduced a chick to my Gym and she explicitely asked me if one gets to know a lot of people there.
sermon_of_mockery
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you just have to talk to them like they know something you dont about fitness.Make them think you need their help,works for me.
If a guys approaches me at the gym and just says hi and is friendly i have a good idea of him. Just dont keep talking and bother my workout. This is the same thing i do when meeting women at the gym. I am friendly, smile, make eye contact. Do this and you will know if you should keep trying to talk to her by her manner. Like someone says talk to her on her way out of the gym too, maybe leaving when she is. Be careful to not have the obvious "god i want to fuck you" manner when you are chapping her up.
Fist mentions "bitch shields". This is because we are almost constantly having guys try to chap us up while we are lifting. It almost never stops. guys feel this is their area and there cocks are waving.
Gord just be sweet, friendly and you will know if she is interested at all.
Fist mentions "bitch shields". This is because we are almost constantly having guys try to chap us up while we are lifting. It almost never stops. guys feel this is their area and there cocks are waving.
Gord just be sweet, friendly and you will know if she is interested at all.
fistfullofsteel
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magdelana said:
exactly, that's why you should send me artistic nudes of you to make up for the bitchiness.
Trying to get some action isnt the point. I enjoying fucking more than most anything i can think of, but when i am in the gym i am working. I am not trying to "hook up".
JC think of a time when you are really involved in something else, something that is very important to you. Maybe you are watching a game on television and your woman is trying to talk seks to you RIGHT AT THAT MOMENT. Sure you are interested, just not right then. Wait till i am done with this.
Lumberg
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magdelana said:
Relax. I was just ragging on you for your misuse of the word "chap." When you talk to someone you are "Chatting them up" not "chapping them up." You know, like chat groups. "Chaps" are the leggings that cowboys wear, with the crotch cut out.
I know English isn't your first language, I was just trying not to be obvious.
Also it's "sex" not "seks"
BTW I totally agree, sometimes you want to chat, sometimes you want to get your next set in.
JC
Gord said:
You mean that there are chicks in the gym? In my gym I only have training partners...no chicks allowed.
B True
I am serious...very serious. No chicks allowed in my gym...period. ONLY training partners. You don't have to be a male to be my training partner...you just have to be serious when you are in my gym. No chicks...only training partners...male or female.
My gym is for growth purposes only...anyone who steps in it better have the same desire.
B True
My gym is for growth purposes only...anyone who steps in it better have the same desire.
B True
So you do not mean that a woman cannot be there, but that she must be someone training partner. Are you saying a difference between a woman and a "chick"? No chicks, but serious female lifters are oke? English is not my mother language so i may not understand the difference you make with those words. Sorry if i am having a misunderstanding with this.
BTW, Female lifters do not get more hardcore then me, 202lbs @ 16% bf...and i dont use training partners ever.
Yes, when I train I don't care if you are male, female, old or young...if you train...you are ok with me. No "chicks" allowed in my gym. You don't have to be female to be a "chick" either.
B True
B True
Bigsatan13
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Night Fly said:
Hmm...am I a chick?
Yeah Baby!
Night Fly said:
Hmm...am I a chick?
Nope...not a "Chick"...not at all. All woman.
B True
Bigsatan13
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You know I use the term "chick" as a complementary term for a woman. I don't know why you feel it's derogatory. For example my wife is a biker chick or in complemantary terms in my world my Property Chick. Now some people may consider that a derogatory remark for a woman, but a real property chick is proud to be just that.
I understand...totally. My mother used to be a biker chick...and that is not what I mean. No one comes to my gym to pick up anyone...period. It's not that kind of gym.
I hear ya though
B True
I hear ya though
B True
You picked up a lot of things...none of them were chick-esque
B True
B True
Bigsatan13
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Now that's a power lifting chick!
FISHTALES
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i think that if a "chick" wants to be talked to, she will give certain "windows of opportunity" in which to do so. i do agree the gym is for training but you just may see someone there and they may just be one in a million, someone that you dont see in a bar or nightclub. if they want you to talk to them they will let you know, or give you that "window", they may ask for help with a machine or something trivial, you will know, but the gym is not a pick up joint...just my opinion
OK, I have strong feelings on this subject, unlike most of the stuff that's posted in ELITE BTW SHEETS. When I'm in the gym working out, i don't want guys to look at me, talk to me, saddle up next to me, i want them to stay the fuck away from me. i'm trying to workout, i'm sweating, i'm grunting, and i don't want to feel like i'm on display. i don't mind at all being on display at a party or at a club, but when i'm on a treadmill or doing lunges or preacher's curls i don't want any guy coming up to me (in fact, the better looking he is, the more pissed i get), so in my humble opinion, don't think of it as "bitch radar" or the term that was coined, realize that a woman in a gym in spandex is getting bothered and accosted by men every time out and it gets quite tiring. its also, as magdalena said, when men most feel their "oats" (term comes from feeding horses fermented oats), when men feel huge and verile and nothing can stop them, well its kind of a pain for me. if you want to talk to me, wait until i'm all done, catch me in the parking lot after (to talk, frackal, just to talk, i know what you'll say if you read this) or better yet if its late on the way out not out by my car b./c that can be scary too.... ok, enough of my $0.02, the point is, when i'm at the gym i'm there to sweat and tear up my muscles so they'll grow back tighter and bigger, i'm not there to be picked up by pumped up guys waving their dicks around -= wait until we're at the club or a party, wave it around then, and we'll see!!!!!
benchmonster
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No chicks allowed in my gym either. That being said, I have a wife who box squats, and reverse hypers, and knows a bit about bands and chains, and has spotted me on 400 plus benches.
And Nightfly and Spatterson would be welcome anytime. We train for results. Nothing wrong with eye candy, except when it interferes with training time.
Here is hoping I never have to go back to a commercial gym.
B.
And Nightfly and Spatterson would be welcome anytime. We train for results. Nothing wrong with eye candy, except when it interferes with training time.
Here is hoping I never have to go back to a commercial gym.
B.
benchmonster
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Nightfly,
You look great in that pic. It would surprise you how much you and my wife look alike, especially in that pic. Keep up the good work.
B.
You look great in that pic. It would surprise you how much you and my wife look alike, especially in that pic. Keep up the good work.
B.
benchmonster said:
There are very few pics that do her justice man...honestly. She is a force. You should have seen her take that yoke for 150 ft on Sunday...never sitting it down, no belt or gear of any sort...like cake. It weighs 345lbs too!!!!
A few weeks ago, some of the pledges from my fraternity came out to train with me during their "Hell Week"...hehe. Most of them couldn't take more than 1 step with it before falling over. NONE of them could go more than 50ft...and they lifted weights.
I am also convinced that it is impossible to look good when training...haha.
That is my baby though...
B True
Night Fly
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benchmonster said:
Thank you very much! I would love to come workout with you and your wife sometime. That's awesome that she works out like that, too!
I wish I had a home gym to work out in because I don't like the commercial gym that I go to. But...the other gym is 30 minutes away...and with my schedule...I don't have time to drive out there every time I want to train.
Thanks again!
Cindy99 said:OK, I have strong feelings on this subject, unlike most of the stuff that's posted in ELITE BTW SHEETS. When I'm in the gym working out, i don't want guys to look at me, talk to me, saddle up next to me, i want them to stay the fuck away from me. i'm trying to workout, i'm sweating, i'm grunting, and i don't want to feel like i'm on display. i don't mind at all being on display at a party or at a club, but when i'm on a treadmill or doing lunges or preacher's curls i don't want any guy coming up to me (in fact, the better looking he is, the more pissed i get), so in my humble opinion, don't think of it as "bitch radar" or the term that was coined, realize that a woman in a gym in spandex is getting bothered and accosted by men every time out and it gets quite tiring. its also, as magdalena said, when men most feel their "oats" (term comes from feeding horses fermented oats), when men feel huge and verile and nothing can stop them, well its kind of a pain for me. if you want to talk to me, wait until i'm all done, catch me in the parking lot after (to talk, frackal, just to talk, i know what you'll say if you read this) or better yet if its late on the way out not out by my car b./c that can be scary too.... ok, enough of my $0.02, the point is, when i'm at the gym i'm there to sweat and tear up my muscles so they'll grow back tighter and bigger, i'm not there to be picked up by pumped up guys waving their dicks around -= wait until we're at the club or a party, wave it around then, and we'll see!!!!!
Cindy,
I agree with pretty much everything that you stated in that post. It's an unfortunate situation that a lot of the women that go to gyms are oogled and accosted. In fact in my area to address this issues the gym that I go to has created "For women only" gyms. There are 5 locations total in the area and 3 of the are "for women only". Though from what some friends have said the oogling and accosting is not much better at the "for women only" gyms.
Now the one question that I have regarding your post. You state that you don't want to be bothered when working out, I totally respect that. Yet you also state that you are (or women in general) are in the gym in spandex. I find this kind of contradictory. I mean if you didn't want people to look at you why are you wearing spandex? Why not sweats and a t-shirt?
I guess bottom line people should be able to wear what they want without being bothered as you stated above, I just see spandex as sort of an attention getter. Please don't tell me it's for comfort because I'm not falling for that. It's sort of like the 19 year old knuckleheads in my gym wearing wife beaters and khaki pants. Simply there to show off.
Just curious.
Pecak
benchmonster
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Nightfly and B-fold, you guys are welcome in the dungeon anytime you are in the midwest.
B-fold, you are a lucky fella, having a woman who is into training at all is rare, having one interested in truly getting stronger is almost unheard of.
That is funny that Nightfly can do things some guys cannot. I met my wife in college in a rusty little gym. She could outsquat a lot of the guys there, and it was not unusual to see her get on the lat pull machine after some nancy-boy and have to move the pin down to put some more weight on there.
Between you and me, I think she really got a kick out of being able to do more on some exercises than some of the skinny guys. I know I sure got a kick out of it.
B.
B-fold, you are a lucky fella, having a woman who is into training at all is rare, having one interested in truly getting stronger is almost unheard of.
That is funny that Nightfly can do things some guys cannot. I met my wife in college in a rusty little gym. She could outsquat a lot of the guys there, and it was not unusual to see her get on the lat pull machine after some nancy-boy and have to move the pin down to put some more weight on there.
Between you and me, I think she really got a kick out of being able to do more on some exercises than some of the skinny guys. I know I sure got a kick out of it.
B.
Cindy99 said:
Cindy,
No probem, I had a feeling that is what you meant. No disrespect meant either, because I know that I've been guilty of oogling women at my gym as well, even though I know how rude it is. Trying to avoid being a hypocrite.
By the way, yes, oogling is a word.
Pebcak
John Holmes
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Here is my rule of thumb...
If the girl is wearing makeup, she isn't only there to work out.
If the girl is wearing makeup, she isn't only there to work out.
Burning_Inside
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I've had 2 pretty decent looking girls stike up a conversation with me in my times at the gym that I could think of. I know there were more girls I've talked to out of nowhere, but there are 2 that stand out. Both conversations started on those stair machines, with the actual steps you climb.
"OMG this machine is so killer isn't it?"
"Hell yeah, wanna fuck?"
Well ok I didn't say that. I actually sort of ended the conversations like an idiot. I dunno, mind was in the "gutter" at the time, my bad, haha.
"OMG this machine is so killer isn't it?"
"Hell yeah, wanna fuck?"
Well ok I didn't say that. I actually sort of ended the conversations like an idiot. I dunno, mind was in the "gutter" at the time, my bad, haha.
Gord said:
Sociallizing is one thing, but trying to pick up chicks is another. I don't know about other women, but personally I go to the gym to work out. I may check out some of the men, but I am not there trolling for guys. If you really find someone attractive why don't you just be friendly at first. Say hello and leave it at that, slowly build something.
Greek God_damn Greek
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In my opinion,
There are two types of females in the gym.
1. Ones that just want to do their workout and get the fuck out.
2. Ones that are there to workout AND meet bodybuilders.
It's easy enough to identify which is which.
If you see a #1 type that you like, offer a smile at an opportune time (water fountain, passing by between sets), if she reciprocates you can elevate your strategy from there.
#2 types are always socializing in the gym, chatting them up is what they expect and hope for, so CHAT THEM UP!
There are two types of females in the gym.
1. Ones that just want to do their workout and get the fuck out.
2. Ones that are there to workout AND meet bodybuilders.
It's easy enough to identify which is which.
If you see a #1 type that you like, offer a smile at an opportune time (water fountain, passing by between sets), if she reciprocates you can elevate your strategy from there.
#2 types are always socializing in the gym, chatting them up is what they expect and hope for, so CHAT THEM UP!
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brian747478`
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hey b true,
wasn't my "chick",( I don't call her that) in your gym?
I don't think she would even so much as look at either of us while we trained for fear of
distracting us. but if she is ever there again, i would think she will be training.
wasn't my "chick",( I don't call her that) in your gym?
I don't think she would even so much as look at either of us while we trained for fear of
distracting us. but if she is ever there again, i would think she will be training.
brian747478` said:
Your girl, like mine, is not a "chick"!!!!! She is a training partner...any woman who loves squats, deadlifts, and close grip bench press...isn't a "chick"...
B True
Our gym caters quiet a lot (too much imho, but there is no better gym around until after summer) to socializing stuff , they have a large bar area where they even serve beer.....
Yeh , the bar with the overpriced drinks is the place to "cooldown" after your workout and it happens quiet a lot
In the iron pit you better concentrate on your curls than on the girls.
Sometimes girls throw out a bait to me in the gym asking "can you help me with this? or How do I?..." If it looks like a serious question I will give a friendly answer, otherwise i will tell them to ask the managment or the personal trainer (meanwhile watching that no dude is stealing MY dumbells while distracted), but that's it I will not allow to get further involved with chitchatting cause for me intens disciplined training is very personal like jerking off, it's ego-tripping on adrenaline with little room for others (god i love it when u have a trainingday when you set new PR's or break through some lactic acid painbarrier)
However we have a seperate floor with stationary bikes, as biking stationary gets rather dull after 15 minutes, it's a good place to have a friendly conversation with guys/girls, with or without intentions....
In this aerobic environment i am much more openminded and I have learned not to waste time : Like I sais I train at my gym and do not scout for girls, but If something really hot approaches the bikes, I don't wait for her to find a bike on the other side of the room, butI look her in the face and say just "hi" with a cinsere smile, like i am really glad to see her (which I really am). A cinsere Smile is ALLWAYS good, it makes other people more relaxt.
This is all the information they need ! This shows your interest while at the same time not intimidating and free of obligations.
Females read facial expressions better than anything and if she don't like you, she will choose the bike on the other side anyway, or if she likes you or is curious about you, she will settle for a much closer spot, so that an environment is created where "something might happen"
Try to avoid making comments about what hot body she got (save that for later, when you get actually to inspect it, she gets to hear that from most of the guys) instead ask for personal things, like:
- her work
- her sisters
Females are curious creatures and Usually I start a conversation with something unusual, like "can i ask something? , ..........How do you drink your coffee??"
It's personal, it's unusual that tickles her curious mind about "WHY is he asking this question ? " Good, now that I made her wonder what makes this guy thick, the conversation will take a natural course....
Like bigsatan says: the beast inside the man needs to be exercised not exorcised...
Yeh , the bar with the overpriced drinks is the place to "cooldown" after your workout and it happens quiet a lot
In the iron pit you better concentrate on your curls than on the girls.
Sometimes girls throw out a bait to me in the gym asking "can you help me with this? or How do I?..." If it looks like a serious question I will give a friendly answer, otherwise i will tell them to ask the managment or the personal trainer (meanwhile watching that no dude is stealing MY dumbells while distracted), but that's it I will not allow to get further involved with chitchatting cause for me intens disciplined training is very personal like jerking off, it's ego-tripping on adrenaline with little room for others (god i love it when u have a trainingday when you set new PR's or break through some lactic acid painbarrier)
However we have a seperate floor with stationary bikes, as biking stationary gets rather dull after 15 minutes, it's a good place to have a friendly conversation with guys/girls, with or without intentions....
In this aerobic environment i am much more openminded and I have learned not to waste time : Like I sais I train at my gym and do not scout for girls, but If something really hot approaches the bikes, I don't wait for her to find a bike on the other side of the room, butI look her in the face and say just "hi" with a cinsere smile, like i am really glad to see her (which I really am). A cinsere Smile is ALLWAYS good, it makes other people more relaxt.
This is all the information they need ! This shows your interest while at the same time not intimidating and free of obligations.
Females read facial expressions better than anything and if she don't like you, she will choose the bike on the other side anyway, or if she likes you or is curious about you, she will settle for a much closer spot, so that an environment is created where "something might happen"
Try to avoid making comments about what hot body she got (save that for later, when you get actually to inspect it, she gets to hear that from most of the guys) instead ask for personal things, like:
- her work
- her sisters
Females are curious creatures and Usually I start a conversation with something unusual, like "can i ask something? , ..........How do you drink your coffee??"
It's personal, it's unusual that tickles her curious mind about "WHY is he asking this question ? " Good, now that I made her wonder what makes this guy thick, the conversation will take a natural course....
Like bigsatan says: the beast inside the man needs to be exercised not exorcised...
VooDoo Lady
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"bitch shield"
OMG - I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!
Finally I have something to call it! It's definitely my angle in the gym!!!!!!!!!!! No eye contact....no smiles....."don't even THINK about talking to me" body language...YEP! Bithc shield!
OMG - I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!
Finally I have something to call it! It's definitely my angle in the gym!!!!!!!!!!! No eye contact....no smiles....."don't even THINK about talking to me" body language...YEP! Bithc shield!
What are these things called curls again?
B True
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VooDoo Lady said:
Yep, that's it. BITCH SHEILD!!! Wear it, beware of it!
The only guy I ask to help me with equipment works for the gym.
I would rather be left alone since I have no makeup on and I look sweaty and yucky.
I will admit there are some FINE men in the gym I go to, but most of them are married.
badgermilk
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To much complaining
Maybe it's not that the women are bitch's in the gym! Maybe it's just that there not interested in who it is that's approaching them.
Some of the guys on here talk like if the women at there gym aren't interested in them then there's something wrong with them. Get off your high horse and join the rest of us here on planet earth, because your probably not all that you think you are!
Nuff Said...
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Maybe it's not that the women are bitch's in the gym! Maybe it's just that there not interested in who it is that's approaching them.
Some of the guys on here talk like if the women at there gym aren't interested in them then there's something wrong with them. Get off your high horse and join the rest of us here on planet earth, because your probably not all that you think you are!
Nuff Said...
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