LuluDeren said:I think Chesty's drunk. He hasn't responded in pages.
Razorguns said:say u have 5 failed relationships in a row.
what do they all have in common?
you.
so figure out what the weakest link is there.
btw chesty: what interesting have you done in your life this week - or just dwell on your drama from morning to night?
r
One thing I have learned. If you keep thinking some thing is going to happen..If you expect it to happen. You take steps to make sure it happens. If you do not trust a girl The they will act like you do not trust them. If they do not have your trust. They have no reason to work to keep it.chesty said:She sent me an email by accident that she met for her ex bf in which she is expressing her love for him and crap. And like las night she didn't want to see me but in the email they had conversation. She is suppossed to be going to training out of town tomorrow and emailed me that her dad was going with her to golf and she would be back sunday. then in the email she says she will see her ex tomorrow l love you
So without letting her know i got the email, I call her out by asking if she has gone back with her ex boyfriend.
She gets all defensive saying i don't trust her no matter what I say, I'm insecure, and she has not cheated on me. What a fucking bitch.
So I am seeing her at 3:30 to talk to her about "working things out so we don't have to break up cause she said she is sorry we are breaking up (I told her I didn't want to break up either) cant' be with some one who is constantly jumping to conclusions and doesn't trust her.
She agreed to meet. So first, I am going to tell her that i have fallen in love with her and then let her read something I wrote for her a while ago, then see what happens, then ask her to explain this email I was sent and see what happens.
The whole point of this exercise is because I am not insecure, nor needy nor untrusting and that she is the one that has lied, cheated, etc. So it is squarely on her shoulders and not mine.
hahahahahahahhahahah u crack me up broJack Schitt said:Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, and hate leads to the Dark Side.
chesty said:No, I am too numb now to feel much of anything. I am basically going contracting to Texas and I told her that. I still want to give her the email so she knows I know. But yeah, I am done with her. I am sure in a few days it will hit me. I know this she said everything I expected. I am friends with him but no way I am going back to him, I wasn't even that emotionally involved with him when we were together. He pressured me so much and added guilt trips on top. God, I was almost gonna vomit at one point. Thene we started hugging and making out and after I got her off, she was like why did you do this to me. Then she gave me a blow job and afterwards was, like this was just physical, not emotional, I still need to figure things out. I was like yeah okay. All the while I had the email in my back pocket.
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!jnevin said:You should have came on the email and stuck it to her forehead as you walked away.
chesty said:No, I am too numb now to feel much of anything. I am basically going contracting to Texas and I told her that. I still want to give her the email so she knows I know. But yeah, I am done with her. I am sure in a few days it will hit me. I know this she said everything I expected. I am friends with him but no way I am going back to him, I wasn't even that emotionally involved with him when we were together. He pressured me so much and added guilt trips on top. God, I was almost gonna vomit at one point. Thene we started hugging and making out and after I got her off, she was like why did you do this to me. Then she gave me a blow job and afterwards was, like this was just physical, not emotional, I still need to figure things out. I was like yeah okay. All the while I had the email in my back pocket.
lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllborris said:WOW, how'd her ex's dick taste?

chesty said:She sent me an email by accident that she met for her ex bf in which she is expressing her love for him and crap. And like las night she didn't want to see me but in the email they had conversation. She is suppossed to be going to training out of town tomorrow and emailed me that her dad was going with her to golf and she would be back sunday. then in the email she says she will see her ex tomorrow l love you
So without letting her know i got the email, I call her out by asking if she has gone back with her ex boyfriend.
She gets all defensive saying i don't trust her no matter what I say, I'm insecure, and she has not cheated on me. What a fucking bitch.
So I am seeing her at 3:30 to talk to her about "working things out so we don't have to break up cause she said she is sorry we are breaking up (I told her I didn't want to break up either) cant' be with some one who is constantly jumping to conclusions and doesn't trust her.
She agreed to meet. So first, I am going to tell her that i have fallen in love with her and then let her read something I wrote for her a while ago, then see what happens, then ask her to explain this email I was sent and see what happens.
The whole point of this exercise is because I am not insecure, nor needy nor untrusting and that she is the one that has lied, cheated, etc. So it is squarely on her shoulders and not mine.
BIKINIMOM said:Yet you continue to engage her.
"The whole point of this exercise is" that you simply can not let go when shit is fubard. You enjoy the conflict and the drama and just don't know how to have a relationship with a drama free woman.... *cough* WOMAN.
Women don't behave this way.
Women do not enjoy drama.
Women would kick your suspicious ass to the curb THE SECOND you start acting retarded.... as this one did. ....much like the others did.
I love you like a brother. This ain't haterade.... but merely tough love.
Oh and by the way - MRS Texas guns sends her love too.![]()
That will be 90$. Please leave your co-pay with the receptionist.![]()
Cheating is 100 percent one persons fault. Once a cheater always a cheater.chesty said:OH hell no i am not letting it slide. I want her to understand that she is to blame for the break up my supposed insecurity and not trusting. I didn't lie to her, I didn't go behind her back, I have a spine. She is the one that is the liar, cheat, whore, cunt etc
borris said:hahahahaahah o k e y d o k e y grandma
that's some straight up creeeeeeeeeeeeeeepy shit.Turd Ferguson said:Cheating is 100 percent one persons fault. Once a cheater always a cheater.
BIKINIMOM said:Your mother still lets you use her computer?
And please tell me that you were totally joking when you started that thread... there is NO WAY that was REALLY your car.
Yup - I AM a grandmother 5 times over and yet you still can only DREAM about me....
EEEEEEeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwthat's some straight up creeeeeeeeeeeeeeepy shit.
borris said:which part, your fake breasts or your manly face????
hahahahaahahah o k e y d o k e y grammmmmmmy
and for my "fake breasts"... how does the fact that I had a mastopexy after nursing 4 children diminish me in the least? 
BIKINIMOM said:Yet you continue to engage her.
"The whole point of this exercise is" that you simply can not let go when shit is fubard. You enjoy the conflict and the drama and just don't know how to have a relationship with a drama free woman.... *cough* WOMAN.
Women don't behave this way.
Women do not enjoy drama.
Women would kick your suspicious ass to the curb THE SECOND you start acting retarded.... as this one did. ....much like the others did.
I love you like a brother. This ain't haterade.... but merely tough love.
Oh and by the way - MRS Texas guns sends her love too.![]()
That will be 90$. Please leave your co-pay with the receptionist.![]()
Razorguns said:You know Chesty. It's time to take of the pantys and grow the chest hair when BIKINIMOM AND RAZORGUNS ARE BOTH AGREEING IN THE SAME THREAD!!
r

borris said:*watches a grandma pull up to a bar on a harley bike with her 4th husband
*watches as she comes in wearing a biker boots, hells angels bandana and has her hair frizzed up like she's a Aerosmith groupie
*notices everyone at the bar is drinking PBR
*walks outside realizes he's at a truck stop
*leaves bar laughing


I posted she was cheating on him in the first thread...I deserve karma.samoth said:EVERYBODY DANCE NOW!
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javaguru said:I posted she was cheating on him in the first thread...I deserve karma.![]()
javaguru said:I posted she was cheating on him in the first thread...I deserve karma.![]()

Big Rick Rock said:-Wait until after the weekend and tell her you met somebody and are in love and want to move on.
What ever you do. WHATEVER YOU DO. Do NOT waste your time trying to talk to and make her feel bad about cheating and lying. She wont. She does not give a fuck about you, your words will have no long-term impact in on her. You can try to let her know how much she hurt you and all that fuzzy shit, but she wont really care at all. She'll just sit there acting like she cares but just waiting for you to STFU so she can call her other guy and finally be with him.
If you want her to be sorry and hurt as you have...
She will only be sorry if she gets caught in the act with the new guy there OR if she gets tossed in the trash suddenly and without warning. Like this whole time she thinks she is being slick cheating, then you go and say "I'm in love with another woman. She completes me, I can't do this to you anymore." < That will blow her fucking mind.
Because I learned from my past mistakes and tried to pass on some of my own experience; Anyone trying to blame someone else for their own issues is immediately suspect; It isn't rocket science.BIKINIMOM said:meh
karma/shmarma...
EVERY WOMAN that he has ever dated was a lying cheating WHORE.... so why should you get k for "figuring out" the obvious?
chesty said:OH hell no i am not letting it slide. I want her to understand that she is to blame for the break up my supposed insecurity and not trusting. I didn't lie to her, I didn't go behind her back, I have a spine. She is the one that is the liar, cheat, whore, cunt etc
javaguru said:Because I learned from my past mistakes and tried to pass on some of my own experience; Anyone trying to blame someone else for their own issues is immediately suspect; It isn't rocket science.![]()

PuddleMonkey said:I hate being right all the time.
Oh wait, no I don't.
BIKINIMOM said:If one CONTINUES to engage the cheater then they enjoy the torture. Sorta like women who keep going back to a dude who beats them up.
trizo said:Chesty, sooooo many chicks out there do not err waste anymore time or grief over this lame pigwhore (as KB says). Do what you need for closure, then RUN and don't look back. GL Mayn.
borris said:If I dated a girl for awhile and put time n effort into our relationship then found out with 100% proof that she is still fucking her ex-boyfriend the last thing I would want to go do is go have sex with her.
TITCR, She will always rationalize you as the bad guy no matter the evidence or the facts and her next will hear about you as her "controlling ex." Men realize they need to take these claims with a grain of salt and the "facts" come from two stories. Unless she has a court restraining order then you should doubt her and if she claimed to date said psycho for an extended period of time then it makes her psycho status suspect; Just sayin'all the whey said:I am glad you are not letting this slide.
But, you are wasting your time trying to prove logically she was at fault.
No matter what. She will justify it however she can.
You will always be the insecure stalker ex. (eventhough it is not true)
I have tried to do this many times. I have never even heard of it working.
BTW. THE NEXT TIME YOU NOOBS HEAR A STORY FROM SOMEONE THAT SHE HAS A STALKER EX....NOW YOU KNOW THE TRUE STORY!!!!!!!![/SIZE]
all the whey said:It is pretty easy to be right all the time.
Just tell every guy that his gf is cheating and lying to him...Right everytime!~!~


Wulfgar said:dude those girls were not gf's

Megalomaniac said:LOL at all the dudes who haven't caught their girls cheating. It isn't because they weren't you know.
PuddleMonkey said:The most hurtful thing you can do to a woman is act like she doesn't mean anything to you. Don't call her, don't text her, just pretend she doesn't exist. They can't seem to handle that.
jesus fucking christ healother, you just dont know how to let it go. you're not going to one up her with this bullshit. fucking walk away and dont turn backchesty said:I got a blow job out of it does that count? I will paste the email tonight. I have to go back to work and get it. I am pretty sure I will just email it to her or leave a copy on her door tonight. Saying, I had hoped you would have been more honest with me but i guess not.
blueta2 said:Yeah and?
He is very insecure and does need to look at himself and why he meets women like this.
Dr. Heather stopped e-mailing me after she sent me an email with a, "I really miss you." message and I responded by asking about Jasmine, her cat.all the whey said:Exactly right!!!
If you act like you care you are a pussy stalker.
If you get pissed you are a psycho ex.
They get off on being called cunts.
Just say "OK" Or "that's cool" or nothing at all.
Don't ever mention her name again....That kills the cunts.
OUfan said:Same thing happened to me except for it wasn't an ex it was a coworker. She denied it until she was blue in the face until I showed her the printed off e-mail. Broke up after 8 years (she had already cheated on me). Bitch..
blueta kitteh will psychoanalyze your last 100 posts for the low low price of one carton of Benson & Hedges!all the whey said:lololooooololllopl;olo,loklliololololoolo
all the whey said:Exactly right!!!
If you act like you care you are a pussy stalker.
If you get pissed you are a psycho ex.
They get off on being called cunts.
Just say "OK" Or "that's cool" or nothing at all.
Don't ever mention her name again....That kills the cunts.
I guess for some people,odd as this may sound to you, it takes more than just looking good and having a vagina to get someone hard. The only thing getting hard in this situation would be my fistMegalomaniac said:? Why because your emotions will limit you from having sex? Because she is fucking someone else?
I say it is time to get over her so that means to throw the emotions out the window, first problem solved. She has fucked others before you, during your relationship, why not hit it again. Second issue solved.
needtogetaas said:One thing I have learned. If you keep thinking some thing is going to happen..If you expect it to happen. You take steps to make sure it happens. If you do not trust a girl The they will act like you do not trust them. If they do not have your trust. They have no reason to work to keep it.
I'm sorry to hear about your plight but the signs were probably all there well before you posted on EF and you should pay attention to them next time.chesty said:I did walk away, but you know what. my boys were in her mouth right before she went to this guys house. Whatever, I did walk away, I showed her the letter and in true fashion of a cunt she blamed me and acused me. Whatever, it is over and I don't feel bad at all.
chesty said:I did walk away, but you know what. my boys were in her mouth right before she went to this guys house. Whatever, I did walk away, I showed her the letter and in true fashion of a cunt she blamed me and acused me. Whatever, it is over and I don't feel bad at all.
not exactly. difference being that he actually CHOOSES to enter into relationships with these people time and time again. there is something to be said for that.Burning_Inside said:I dont understand the women int his thread telling him move on blah blah and telling him he's insecure.
First off you morons, you guys should probably know more about chesty's ordeals with women than I do since you've been here a lot more than i have over the past 2 years, but even from reading the last big thread he made on this shit, I being the moron I am with a measly 120 IQ who cant even understand simple division of fractions, can understand that he has been royally fucked by women in a long streak of bad luck, therefore he has every right to grow defensive and be "insecure".
It's this insecurity that you tards are making out to be a bad thing that obviously just saved him from yet another cunt. This is like telling some fat nerd kid who gets his ass kicked in school daily that hes insecure and to just let it go instead of taking some form of self defense classes to defend himself. OH THE LOGIC!
Fucking morons.
Chesty, glad to see you cut your losses short, and I support your devious connivery 100%
borris said:like we didn't see this coming
*looks @ post #9
excellent.chesty said:It wasn't that she wins or loses, she now knows that she was caught as a liar, whore, cheat, cunt whatever you want to call it. If she has or ever had any morals, christian or other wise as she professes, this will screw her up. Plus I have the satisfaction of knowing that any relationship she is in will sour on her because of her. She is incapable of being honest or faithful. Good ridance.
Smurfy said:not exactly. difference being that he actually CHOOSES to enter into relationships with these people time and time again. there is something to be said for that.
exactly, shes like those serial killers that put out hints because they want to be caught. scary eh?Smurfy said:excellent.
andBTW, she doesnt really care that she was caught. I mean, she doesnt feel badly about it. She feels relieved that she was caught and now she can move on. the end
totally scary and psycho.Burning_Inside said:exactly, shes like those serial killers that put out hints because they want to be caught. scary eh?
um ok .Burning_Inside said:and how do you figure he chooses this, do you think he can see the future, or yout hink they tell him "hey dude im going to fuck you over in a couple months k?"?
I mean seriously how the fuck do you know who youre getting involved with if you dont know of anyone whose been involved with them prior to get some dirt on them? All you have to go on is a hunch. It just seems like youre doing some damage control for the general female population to make you as a whole not look so collectively insane due to the fact he's had wayyyy too many bouts of bullshit, so you're trying to make it seem like he's doing this to himself.
Unless chesty can tell me himself that he for some odd reason knows he is willingly getting involved with a jackass, then I have to say dear smurfo the spin youre attempting here isn't flying.

chesty said:I did walk away, but you know what. my boys were in her mouth right before she went to this guys house. Whatever, I did walk away, I showed her the letter and in true fashion of a cunt she blamed me and acused me. Whatever, it is over and I don't feel bad at all.
Smurfy said:not exactly. difference being that he actually CHOOSES to enter into relationships with these people time and time again. there is something to be said for that.
all the whey said:lol at her saying she was going to her gf's house and hang with her and her daughter.
She sucking the other guys dick right NOW!Q!!@
I guarooonfuckin teee it!!!! And, I am not delusional like a woman!~~~!~~!
Burning_Inside said:doesnt this call for a lolcat?
We men have been programmed that women are looking for a life long relationship with a "good guy." Any relationship is a social contract and men enter into it with this delusional conception as opposed to actually listening to the subtle signs women give off. I blame society and people not actually paying attention to what is going on in their relationships.Smurfy said:not exactly. difference being that he actually CHOOSES to enter into relationships with these people time and time again. there is something to be said for that.
chesty said:she didn't win jack, and yeah, i screen them so I know which ones will fuck me over in say 2-3 months just cause I like it so much. Bullshit.
javaguru said:We men have been programmed that women are looking for a life long relationship with a "good guy." Any relationship is a social contract and men enter into it with this delusional conception as opposed to actually listening to the subtle signs women give off. I blame society and people not actually paying attention to what is going on in their relationships.![]()
chesty said:where did the email thread go?
chesty said:It wasn't that she wins or loses, she now knows that she was caught as a liar, whore, cheat, cunt whatever you want to call it. If she has or ever had any morals, christian or other wise as she professes, this will screw her up. Plus I have the satisfaction of knowing that any relationship she is in will sour on her because of her. She is incapable of being honest or faithful. Good ridance.
lmao digger speaketh the truth/ go to post 158 and you'll see the OP of the email thread theredigger said:It's merged with this one. Like I said -- YOU'RE POSTING IN IT.
javaguru said:We men have been programmed that women are looking for a life long relationship with a "good guy." Any relationship is a social contract and men enter into it with this delusional conception as opposed to actually listening to the subtle signs women give off. I blame society and people not actually paying attention to what is going on in their relationships.![]()
Dr. Philhanselthecaretaker said:This is so true. Society has become too conditioned and politically correct for its own good. At least for clarity's sake. We are still bound by human nature/instincts, as long as we reproduce the old fashioned way.
Ever notice how there's a direct correlation between the number of relationship "experts" in the world and the number of relationships that are fucked?

chesty said:Anyway, after that I got to get blown and then walked away. I know she don't give a shit and feels relieved, but in the end she is going to be a very lonely indvidual. And for that I feel sorry for her. Don't take that as I still care for her, I don't.
heavy_duty said:She aint going to be lonely she has at least 2 guys in love with her and many more to come.
YOU are gonna be lonely because you don't know how to pick a mate.

perhaps you should give this a try. it's less dramachesty said:I don't mean lonely physically, I see the pattern in her. she will be lonely for real love and affection. If you saw this guy you would be like wtf. She even said he was ugly, needy and more long before we got to this point. Picking them is not the problem. It is like everything else. You have to wade through the bullshit before you find the right one.
This is probably why so many marriages fail. Because one or the other or both are not really honest and instead of being adult about it and saying I don't want to be with you they get someone else before they do to protect themselves.
Trust me this guy is a fat ass and the ugliest mother fucker I have ever seen.
They both have some serious issues and it won't really last between them. Let her think she has won victory over me I don't care. I have peace of mind in that I was honest to her, never lied and didn't cheat on her and truly did love her, despite what any of you arm chair psychologists think of me. I really don't care.
The simple fact is I met someone last year, got to know her, felt I could trust her, started dating her, not pressuring her, allowing myself to get to know her slowly till I thought i could trust her with my heart and then 3 weeks ago, she changed and I didn't know why. At any rate, I stuck it out because i did believe in her till I found out what my gut was telling me. I was trying to say it was just because I was overly sensitive to my past and didn't want to believe it was happening again.
So, you know what? I really don't care what some of you say about me being a puss or needing balls or I do this to myself or whatever. I hadn't dated in almost two years because I was very picky about who I talked to and I wanted to be sure there was potential. I don't fuck just to fuck. I have to feel something for that person. I did with her. Even as I knew it was over today when I was at her house, I was still holding out hope, but I couldn't so I had to tell her what I knew and I knew it would end it for sure and let her go be with this guy to drown her sorrows (of which I am sure she has none)
My point is, I got fucked and it was not my fault
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