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Caught her ass red handed!

chesty said:
No, I am too numb now to feel much of anything. I am basically going contracting to Texas and I told her that. I still want to give her the email so she knows I know. But yeah, I am done with her. I am sure in a few days it will hit me. I know this she said everything I expected. I am friends with him but no way I am going back to him, I wasn't even that emotionally involved with him when we were together. He pressured me so much and added guilt trips on top. God, I was almost gonna vomit at one point. Thene we started hugging and making out and after I got her off, she was like why did you do this to me. Then she gave me a blow job and afterwards was, like this was just physical, not emotional, I still need to figure things out. I was like yeah okay. All the while I had the email in my back pocket.


I feel you brother
 
chesty said:
Trust me this guy is a fat ass and the ugliest mother fucker I have ever seen.

So? Who cares. Maybe he's happy being a fat-ass. Maybe he doesn't care what u think.

So you're ready to destroy the enemies of the united states, kick ass in a bar fight, fight to the death...

... but women make you into a whipped bitch? Allowing them free real estate in your head.

If iraqi insurgents were chicks - we'd be getting our asses kicked.

I thought marines were tougher than this. Not emotional pansies.

I should be an relationship drill instructor on you right now!

After this relationship - please for the love of god, don't start another one.

r
 
chesty said:
I don't mean lonely physically, I see the pattern in her. she will be lonely for real love and affection. If you saw this guy you would be like wtf. She even said he was ugly, needy and more long before we got to this point. Picking them is not the problem. It is like everything else. You have to wade through the bullshit before you find the right one.

This is probably why so many marriages fail. Because one or the other or both are not really honest and instead of being adult about it and saying I don't want to be with you they get someone else before they do to protect themselves.

Trust me this guy is a fat ass and the ugliest mother fucker I have ever seen.

They both have some serious issues and it won't really last between them. Let her think she has won victory over me I don't care. I have peace of mind in that I was honest to her, never lied and didn't cheat on her and truly did love her, despite what any of you arm chair psychologists think of me. I really don't care.

The simple fact is I met someone last year, got to know her, felt I could trust her, started dating her, not pressuring her, allowing myself to get to know her slowly till I thought i could trust her with my heart and then 3 weeks ago, she changed and I didn't know why. At any rate, I stuck it out because i did believe in her till I found out what my gut was telling me. I was trying to say it was just because I was overly sensitive to my past and didn't want to believe it was happening again.

So, you know what? I really don't care what some of you say about me being a puss or needing balls or I do this to myself or whatever. I hadn't dated in almost two years because I was very picky about who I talked to and I wanted to be sure there was potential. I don't fuck just to fuck. I have to feel something for that person. I did with her. Even as I knew it was over today when I was at her house, I was still holding out hope, but I couldn't so I had to tell her what I knew and I knew it would end it for sure and let her go be with this guy to drown her sorrows (of which I am sure she has none)

My point is, I got fucked and it was not my fault
I could argue it was your fault because you made a bad choice and ignored signs that were blatant to everyone on an internet message board which you chose to post it. Man up and accept you made a bad choice, learn from your mistakes and don't do it again.....many of us have done it. :)
 
it would be difficult too. I wouldn't trust anyone right now. Dude, it fucks with everyone who gives a shit about someone. lf you don't care about the person in the first place then it won't be a problem to tell them to piss off. But if you actually care about them and it goes south, it is much harder.
 
javaguru said:
I could argue it was your fault because you made a bad choice and ignored signs that were blatant to everyone on an internet message board which you chose to post it. Man up and accept you made a bad choice, learn from your mistakes and don't do it again.....many of us have done it. :)


Yes, but.

I give chesty props for actually going through with it. Some guys continue believing the girls lies because they are so much in Looooooooooovve.
 
The signs were not there until 3 weeks ago after quite a few months of dating. That was when I started to wonder. And yes, it took 3 weeks, but I got out. So no it is not my fault she was cheating, I didn't make her do it. And I did nothing to make her want to do it.
 
that is exactly why I did it. I was not going to continue to be believe what i knew was a lie. That was far more devastating than just getting it out and over with.
 
chesty said:
The signs were not there until 3 weeks ago after quite a few months of dating. That was when I started to wonder. And yes, it took 3 weeks, but I got out. So no it is not my fault she was cheating, I didn't make her do it. And I did nothing to make her want to do it.
True, you just fell for her bullshit. That's where you are accountable. :)
 
chesty said:
The signs were not there until 3 weeks ago after quite a few months of dating. That was when I started to wonder. And yes, it took 3 weeks, but I got out. So no it is not my fault she was cheating, I didn't make her do it. And I did nothing to make her want to do it.


So.

When do we gets teh noods?
 
Only for the first couple of weeks and only because I didn't want to believe it was happening again. I am not stupid nor weak. I don't like to give up just because it gets rough sometimes. If we did, there would be no marriages. I just chose to believe that she was not like the others even during the last 3 weeks when I knew better because I did care for her and love her. But, thankfully I was able to learn the truth before it got to be where it would be painful for me to say good bye to her.
 
chesty said:
Only for the first couple of weeks and only because I didn't want to believe it was happening again. I am not stupid nor weak. I don't like to give up just because it gets rough sometimes. If we did, there would be no marriages. I just chose to believe that she was not like the others even during the last 3 weeks when I knew better because I did care for her and love her. But, thankfully I was able to learn the truth before it got to be where it would be painful for me to say good bye to her.


Good job bro.


Noods please.
 
Here is an example from my life. Dr. Heather game all kinds of of "ready to move on" statements but I've been around the block a few times. I was the first guy she dated seriously after her ex, they had been separated for six months and she swore she was ready to move on. However, I know women better than they know themselves and I never got close to her because I knew I would get this two months later...:)You've been awfuly quiet this weekend and so have I.

"I have been doing a lot of thinking and as much as I
am falling for you and as wonderful as I think you are
and as great as you treat me I am feeling like I need
a little space. I am so overwhelmed with everything
in my life right now that I don't feel I can put
enough into a relationship like you deserve. Tears
fill my eyes as I type this because I do have such
strong feelings for you and I am so attracted to you.
You are generous and gorgoeus and have been so good to
me. Please don't hate me I am just under a lot of
stress and pressure right now and feel I am trying to
juggle too much. Also just coming out of 7 years of
marriage I somethimes feel like I shouldn't just jump
into a huge serious relationship. Maybe now is just
not the right time and we can reconnect when I have my
shit together. We can certainly remain friends for
now, I would actually love that if you are willing!
Brian, you are such a wonderful guy which is making
this decision so hard for me! I hope you understand!"

I know wiminz and I predicted it, I didn't care....we stopped e-mailing a couple weeks after this e-mail when she expressed how much she missed me and I responded by asking about her cat. :)
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
22posts ATW and no lolcats? wtf x 10,000

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Go figure. And for the record, while I am over her, I didn't say it would be smooth sailing all the way. I am sure there will be moments when it wells up for a bit. I truly did love her and it did hurt when I found out. Here is the final reason I did tell her about the email.

The whole time I was talking to her today she couldn't look me in the face when I was talking or she was talking. We did make out good and she almost had me going with her why did you do this to me? (get her horny and give her an orasm and make out with her) It is making it hard for me to know what to do or something like that. Basically she was saying to me that she really likes me and wants to be with me which is what she said but also was concerned that she didn't have the time to put into it with her school and job and she needed to figure it out. But the whole thing about not being able to tell someone how she feels, like I love you etc was bullshit. She just couldn't look me in the eye, which told me she knew she was deceiving me.
 
javaguru said:
Here is an example from my life. Dr. Heather game all kinds of of "ready to move on" statements but I've been around the block a few times. I was the first guy she dated seriously after her ex, they had been separated for six months and she swore she was ready to move on. However, I know women better than they know themselves and I never got close to her because I knew I would get this two months later...:)You've been awfuly quiet this weekend and so have I.

"I have been doing a lot of thinking and as much as I
am falling for you and as wonderful as I think you are
and as great as you treat me I am feeling like I need
a little space. I am so overwhelmed with everything
in my life right now that I don't feel I can put
enough into a relationship like you deserve. Tears
fill my eyes as I type this because I do have such
strong feelings for you and I am so attracted to you.
You are generous and gorgoeus and have been so good to
me. Please don't hate me I am just under a lot of
stress and pressure right now and feel I am trying to
juggle too much. Also just coming out of 7 years of
marriage I somethimes feel like I shouldn't just jump
into a huge serious relationship. Maybe now is just
not the right time and we can reconnect when I have my
shit together. We can certainly remain friends for
now, I would actually love that if you are willing!
Brian, you are such a wonderful guy which is making
this decision so hard for me! I hope you understand!"

I know wiminz and I predicted it, I didn't care....we stopped e-mailing a couple weeks after this e-mail when she expressed how much she missed me and I responded by asking about her cat. :)


Yeah man. It's great to be the rebound guy. A lot of sex, and you know it isn't going to work out long.


The problem I had being the rebound guy. Is that I found out in most cases the girl had not told her ex they were broke up. Until, we were together.

So, I guess I was just banging cheating bitches.

How is her cat btw?
 
all the whey said:
Yeah man. It's great to be the rebound guy. A lot of sex, and you know it isn't going to work out long.


The problem I had being the rebound guy. Is that I found out in most cases the girl had not told her ex they were broke up. Until, we were together.

So, I guess I was just banging cheating bitches.

How is her cat btw?
Oh, there was ex-drama even after they had been separated for six months. She wanted sex more than me, I hit it on the second date and I was done when I realized she was self-absorbed. :)
 
the cat is a prick, and her dog was overly excited every time I came over. I guess the dog liked me more than she did in the end. That email sounds just like the one she was sending to her ex or whatever the fuck he was. She probably never broke it off with him or just told him she needed space and kept him on the side by telling him whatever he needed to her. The best one was when she told me she never had sex with him while they were together for 8 months! Yeah, whatever!
 
Count me as a female who supports revenge.

Sorry girls, but women who cheat, or anyone who cheats, deserves to have to face judgement face to face.

Don't tell her you love her or are in love with her...but call her on the email...in person. Make her sweat. Bullets.
 
javaguru said:
Oh, there was ex-drama even after they had been separated for six months. She wanted sex more than me, I hit it on the second date and I was done when I realized she was self-absorbed. :)

What was the drama?

How was she self-absorbed? Did she talk about her High School Accomplishments a lot?
 
nefertiti said:
Count me as a female who supports revenge.

Sorry girls, but women who cheat, or anyone who cheats, deserves to have to face judgement face to face.

Don't tell her you love her or are in love with her...but call her on the email...in person. Make her sweat. Bullets.
at most it will merely be uncomfortable for her for the duration of the conversation but in the end he is still the one hurt and jilted so actually little is gained in that effort. In fact, Id wager to say that the conversation would be more uncomfortable for HIM than it would be for HER all things considered.
 
Smurfy said:
at most it will merely be uncomfortable for her for the duration of the conversation but in the end he is still the one hurt and jilted so actually little is gained in that effort. In fact, Id wager to say that the conversation would be more uncomfortable for HIM than it would be for HER all things considered.
reason being, if he presents this to her, then he presents as the victim to her shenanigans and she still is the one in control. however, if he simply walks away and tells her to fuck off with nothing else being said, then she is blind sided and has no choice but to feel like the victim here which is really what you want.
never let them see you sweat i think is the proper concept here
 
all the whey said:
What was the drama?

How was she self-absorbed? Did she talk about her High School Accomplishments a lot?
Drama...her ex and her fought constantly. He found out she started dating and started another line of argument that ended up with him hitting her. Then there was the incident of him hitting her suv while exchanging custody. She was just as guilty for most of it and I gave her no sympathy for her willingly arguing and calling her ex names in front of the kids, a 3 and 5 year old.

Self-absorbed...she was always wanting sex and wanted it her way, always on top as well as meeting the kids on HER schedule; I prefer to be single... :)

She did talk about some honor in college chemistry class but she clearly didn't deserve it because she admitted I'm smarter than her. :)
 
nefertiti said:
Count me as a female who supports revenge.

Sorry girls, but women who cheat, or anyone who cheats, deserves to have to face judgement face to face.

Don't tell her you love her or are in love with her...but call her on the email...in person. Make her sweat. Bullets.

yeah. and fun things can result, like: domestic violence, fight with another guy, bar fight, things broken, arrests, murder, suicide. yeah!!!

if a girl cheats on u - you obviuosly aren't fulfilling her every need. so she went to a guy who can. Not rocket science. Oh, and if a girl cheats on you - chances are, in your next relationship, the next girl will cheat on you too. Cuz once again, you didn't fill a void.

But who cares. Just go to her work and punch her in the face. Then fight off whoever comes to her rescue. :)

r
 
Revenge in the traditional sense is silly. If you want true revenge, nothing will make you happier and them more miserable than simply living well.
 
Jack Schitt said:
Revenge in the traditional sense is silly. If you want true revenge, nothing will make you happier and them more miserable than simply living well.


that's right, greater success IS the best revenge
 
javaguru said:
Drama...her ex and her fought constantly. He found out she started dating and started another line of argument that ended up with him hitting her. Then there was the incident of him hitting her suv while exchanging custody. She was just as guilty for most of it and I gave her no sympathy for her willingly arguing and calling her ex names in front of the kids, a 3 and 5 year old.

Self-absorbed...she was always wanting sex and wanted it her way, always on top as well as meeting the kids on HER schedule; I prefer to be single... :)

She did talk about some honor in college chemistry class but she clearly didn't deserve it because she admitted I'm smarter than her. :)
as smart as you are about the wimmenz, Im surprised you wouldnt know aheaad of time that if a woman is only 6 months out of a marriage with two small children, there is going to be ex issues. that's not rocket science my friend.
 
javaguru said:
Drama...her ex and her fought constantly. He found out she started dating and started another line of argument that ended up with him hitting her. Then there was the incident of him hitting her suv while exchanging custody. She was just as guilty for most of it and I gave her no sympathy for her willingly arguing and calling her ex names in front of the kids, a 3 and 5 year old.

Self-absorbed...she was always wanting sex and wanted it her way, always on top as well as meeting the kids on HER schedule; I prefer to be single... :)

She did talk about some honor in college chemistry class but she clearly didn't deserve it because she admitted I'm smarter than her. :)



LOL been there.

People make such a big deal about Brittney Spears and her kids. I'd say 50% of the bitches are just as selfish and crazy about thier kids. They just don't have cameras following them.

You know how many times I heard a bitch say she wouldn't give the kids to the ex because he was 5minutes late, or he came straight from work and couldn't pic up the car seat. lol
 
Smurfy said:
as smart as you are about the wimmenz, Im surprised you wouldnt know aheaad of time that if a woman is only 6 months out of a marriage with two small children, there is going to be ex issues. that's not rocket science my friend.
I posted about it in my initial "would you hit it thread." I know and I was prepared.... :)
Here is her break up e-mail which I fully anticipated and was word for word what I predicted.


"You've been awfuly quiet this weekend and so have I.
I have been doing a lot of thinking and as much as I
am falling for you and as wonderful as I think you are
and as great as you treat me I am feeling like I need
a little space. I am so overwhelmed with everything
in my life right now that I don't feel I can put
enough into a relationship like you deserve. Tears
fill my eyes as I type this because I do have such
strong feelings for you and I am so attracted to you.
You are generous and gorgoeus and have been so good to
me. Please don't hate me I am just under a lot of
stress and pressure right now and feel I am trying to
juggle too much. Also just coming out of 7 years of
marriage I somethimes feel like I shouldn't just jump
into a huge serious relationship. Maybe now is just
not the right time and we can reconnect when I have my
shit together. We can certainly remain friends for
now, I would actually love that if you are willing!
Brian, you are such a wonderful guy which is making
this decision so hard for me! I hope you understand!
"
 
Smurfy said:
as smart as you are about the wimmenz, Im surprised you wouldnt know aheaad of time that if a woman is only 6 months out of a marriage with two small children, there is going to be ex issues. that's not rocket science my friend.


I think I remember java even mentioning he expected it.


He is not complaining. He banged her for awhile. And, she left him. That is a hell of alot better than her not wanting to go.
 
all the whey said:
I think I remember java even mentioning he expected it.


He is not complaining. He banged her for awhile. And, she left him. That is a hell of alot better than her not wanting to go.
true.
sorry i didnt keep up on how his relationship unfolded. forgive me for being a day late and a wheel short.
 
Smurfy said:
true.
sorry i didnt keep up on how his relationship unfolded. forgive me for being a day late and a wheel short.


You should pay more attention to Java's personal life.

Like I do.
 
Jack Schitt said:
This thread is gonna be had to beat for SWV thread of the year 2008.

This is close...but not quite there, to the multiple SWV threads that Lestat used to post a couple years ago.
 
ceo said:
This is close...but not quite there, to the multiple SWV threads that Lestat used to post a couple years ago.
Are those still alive? I distinctly remember reading one of those & trying not to spill a bowl of soup because I was laughing so hard.
 
Jack Schitt said:
Are those still alive? I distinctly remember reading one of those & trying not to spill a bowl of soup because I was laughing so hard.

I ran into one recently doing a search for something. I don't remember now, but they shouldn't be too hard to find (and bump :evil: :evil: ).
 
all the whey said:
I am glad you are not letting this slide.

But, you are wasting your time trying to prove logically she was at fault.


No matter what. She will justify it however she can.

Funny cause here's a story from just today about my dealing with a chick that proves your theory in this case at least.

Going to try and condense as best I can...

KNown a girl for over a year, she was cool in a friend sense but obvious lust was there, but she was seeing some guy for the whole time and would not cheat as tempting as i was, cause i always bugged her about it and she always wanted me to tell her about all the sick shit id do to her.

Anyways, she is finally single as of 3 week ago, and went to see her at work, had out first kiss finally and had brought up he subject of hanging out a bunch of times since then.

few days ago she messages me asking where i've been, and i was going to "miss the window of opportunity of her single status", like ive left the planet or somehting and she has now ay to find me. She knows most of the time im home and has 4 different ways to get ahold of me. I texted her (got no response) saying that im basically done doing the chasing, she knows by now i am waiting on her to get this shit started. next day i asked if she got the message, she said yeah and that I was wierd. She still never set up a date to hang out. Yesterday she didn't message me period, claiming work was too busy (that place is never that busy). Today she messages me, tells me she has a blind date tonight. Im like ok look it's done, over i no longer with to talk with you, sick of your insincere all talk no action bullshit.

(key point is coming up) She had the nerve to tell me that I was acting wierd since she told me she was single, to which I then explained to her what I explained above, how we had our first kiss and i had visited her and asked her plenty of times since then to hang out, so how that is acting "wierd" is beyond me. She *agreed* and said she was sorry for being a jerk. I then adamantly got around to saying that i was serious and I am done talking to her, and she called me a chicken; basically going back to how she thought i was "acting wierd" since I knew she was single. I was just like wow, you are fucking retarded, you are bringing up an arguement I just proved to be false 2 minutes ago to which you just agreed with. That was about the end of the chat.

This cick is also in her early 30's too. i swear the madness never fucking stops.

So eyah its funny, like you said, you can prove they were at fault, they will even agree with you, but apprently they will never ever truly believe it.
 
Burning_Inside said:
I dont understand the women int his thread telling him move on blah blah and telling him he's insecure.

First off you morons, you guys should probably know more about chesty's ordeals with women than I do since you've been here a lot more than i have over the past 2 years, but even from reading the last big thread he made on this shit, I being the moron I am with a measly 120 IQ who cant even understand simple division of fractions, can understand that he has been royally fucked by women in a long streak of bad luck, therefore he has every right to grow defensive and be "insecure".

It's this insecurity that you tards are making out to be a bad thing that obviously just saved him from yet another cunt. This is like telling some fat nerd kid who gets his ass kicked in school daily that hes insecure and to just let it go instead of taking some form of self defense classes to defend himself. OH THE LOGIC!

Fucking morons.

Chesty, glad to see you cut your losses short, and I support your devious connivery 100%

If ANYONE above the age of say 25 is so clueless as to the signs/behaviors of someone's morals/ethic/character/philosophies then MAYBE they should wait a loooooooooooooong ass time before they JUMP into any sort of relationship. No? Shit, I got so good at being able to pick up on jealous/controlling/negative/abusive ASSHOLES that they wouldn't make it too far past a telephone conversation, nevermind a date. Yes, people are on their best behavior in the beginning. So then let's all be grown-ups and keep our sex organs in our pants before we know our partners better.... or just don't complain too fukkin loudly when we end up "developing feelings" for someone that we REALLY didn't know. It is at THAT POINT that we take a big dose of reality and MOVE THE FUCK ON instead of playing games and continuing to engage someone that isn't healthy for us afterall. And WTF is all this "I'll show that lying cheating whore who she REALLY is bullshit"? Newsflash - if she was cheating she didn't give a FUCK about you to begin with. What makes you think that YOUR "catching her" or whathaveyou was going to shame her into ANYTHING. She didn't care .... get it?

I have e-known Chesty off and on for OVER SEVEN YEARS.

Every single woman he has ever posted about has been a "cheating whore". Funny thing... THE ONLY THING those women had in common was HIM. I am not defending any cheaters. What I am saying is that he is a man fully grown and needs to stop pointing the finger outward and point it where it belongs if he will EVER find happiness.

Every single one of the situations he posts about are IDENTICAL, only the "cheating whores" change names.

As I said once before... ANYONE who keeps getting involved with "cheaters" "liars" "abusers" "addicts" "players" has something wrong with their ability to decide who is positive and negative force in their life and they need to become introspective FIRST before they can put all of their own problems on every single other person that they are with.

Get rid of negative forces and only allow positive people into your life and amazingly enough.... the bullshit diminishes greatly. <==== THAT ain't rocket science.
 
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Jack Schitt said:
Revenge in the traditional sense is silly. If you want true revenge, nothing will make you happier and them more miserable than simply living well.


Absolutely.

And sorry Chesty, but you didn't win, :( and I doubt you got a bj either. She now knows she's had you under her thumb for the duration.
 
Yes, I did get one and I did win. I wanted her to know that I knew what she was doing. Even if I had said nothing and just left, she had her other guy so it would not have bothered her. But by her knowing that I know she was lying that is all that matters to me. I don't care if she feels bad or good or whatever. In the end she will get what she deserves. Failed marriages if she ever marries. Failed relationships that are always going to be suspect and untrusting. She cheats and lies so she will be looking for it in the other guy and he will know this. She once said she didn't understand why all her boyfriends cheated on her and one physically abused her. Well, I know why.

She is a liar, cheater and more. Her father lives with her (not visit, but lives and supports her) she is almost 30. That is the red flag I should have paid attention to at the beginning and the other flag is when she told just how awful and ugly her ex was and how bad their relationship as and that she never really felt all that much for him blah blah. If they tell you just how bad their ex was it is only to impress you that they are "over" them especially if they tell you there is no way they will ever go back to them adamently. It is a trick. And that is the common thread I see in my past 3 o4 gf's. Each one of them have said exactly the same thing to me and each one has done exactly the same thing. So, there is what I need to watch for from now on.

On a happier note I will either be in CA or Texas making really big bucks in a month!
 
borris said:
honestly bro, I wouldn't even waste time hearing an explanation for her ass, if it was me I would just leave the email on her dresser and bounce

obviously she's still in love with her ex (lying about going on trips)...... I wouldn't even bother sitting down talking with her just to hear her side and watch her make another excuse. seriously..

I can see it already.... she's going to blame you for being this and that and this and that in your relationship and still make it out to be your fault... women like that are too predictable

K post here, find you a good woman Bro, move on....
 
chesty said:
On a happier note I will either be in CA or Texas making really big bucks in a month!

you get to TX bro, you hit me up.... let me know...
 
I would just take the email and forward it back to her tell her that she's not only a liar but a not very bright one at that and not to contact you again.

It's quick, it's easy and makes the point quite clearly.

You just need to find the courage not to see or respond to her after you hit send.
 
chesty said:
Yes, I did get one and I did win. I wanted her to know that I knew what she was doing. Even if I had said nothing and just left, she had her other guy so it would not have bothered her. But by her knowing that I know she was lying that is all that matters to me. I don't care if she feels bad or good or whatever. In the end she will get what she deserves. Failed marriages if she ever marries. Failed relationships that are always going to be suspect and untrusting. She cheats and lies so she will be looking for it in the other guy and he will know this. She once said she didn't understand why all her boyfriends cheated on her and one physically abused her. Well, I know why.

She is a liar, cheater and more. Her father lives with her (not visit, but lives and supports her) she is almost 30. That is the red flag I should have paid attention to at the beginning and the other flag is when she told just how awful and ugly her ex was and how bad their relationship as and that she never really felt all that much for him blah blah. If they tell you just how bad their ex was it is only to impress you that they are "over" them especially if they tell you there is no way they will ever go back to them adamently. It is a trick. And that is the common thread I see in my past 3 o4 gf's. Each one of them have said exactly the same thing to me and each one has done exactly the same thing. So, there is what I need to watch for from now on.

On a happier note I will either be in CA or Texas making really big bucks in a month!

These statements show progress... NOW you are "getting it".

It all begins with YOU.

We don't get to choose who we stumble across in life or who it is that stumbles upon is. But we DO, however, GET THE CHOICE as to who it is that STAYS in our lives and to what extent we allow ourselves to open up.

Now all you gotta do is learn how not to engage people further when there are red flags. It isn't YOUR JOB to "show them" anything about themselves. They won't "get it" anyway. Best to cut bait and move ahead than to remain stagnant with people that you have already determined are not healthy for you to begin with. :)
 
Yeah, that is true. The hardest things in life to do are the ones that hurt us the most but have to be done.

I may not care for her anymore, and I know she will get what she deserves, but I do wish her the best and hope she can learn and find peace/happiness.
 
Wulfgar said:
actually this is a lose lose situation...no one wins when these things happen

yep, just tell her you found the damn thing and that your outa there, period. end of story. Then come back and post up some new pics of the hottie you just met...
 
So, she sends me an email this morning and says I wouldn't understand what was going on between her and taylor if she explained, but since I have his email she is not going to say anything in email. She accused me of hacking her account, because the subject was not poopface. Please, I am not that stupid. Anyway,

I told her if you had explained I would have understood. I doubt it, but maybe she will figure it out that communication is a two way street. Oh wait, she was in love with this guy and hittin, so maybe she is right. I wouldn't have understood.
 
Yeah, new hottie in a few months after I settle down in my new place where ever that may be.
 
Here is what is funny. She was supposed to be in training at a place like 2 hours from here. So, how did she know that I returned her xmas presents to me and how is she emailing me? Ooops
 
chesty said:
OH hell no i am not letting it slide. I want her to understand that she is to blame for the break up my supposed insecurity and not trusting. I didn't lie to her, I didn't go behind her back, I have a spine. She is the one that is the liar, cheat, whore, cunt etc

I always love that one. you have beyond a reasonable doubt evidence of cheating and call her on it and so you're insecure lol
 
Isn't that funny as hell? And then they tell you that you wouldn't understand what was going on between them gee, ya think? So, I told her to call me someday and explain it to me.
 
how old is she?
chciks get more funky as they pass 36 and start worrying about the long term meal ticket
hence they keep as many options as possible open
plus free food on each date
and gifts and shit
 
Actually I could tell from her BF e-mail that he is in love with her but she is not in love with him. She is just trying to let him down real slow because she cares/cared for him...plus he is obsessed with her.

She may love him but she's not in love with him.
she may have had lunch with him but I dont think she was fucking him.

well since you fucked it up, she'll prolly fuck him on her next horny day. :worried:




chesty said:
I told her if you had explained I would have understood. I doubt it, but maybe she will figure it out that communication is a two way street. Oh wait, she was in love with this guy and hittin, so maybe she is right. I wouldn't have understood.
 
doesn't matter to me. The fact that she did not trust me to tell me says enough. I also have my cell phone records that shows she when she was calling me in the mornings on her way to work that she was calling from his place not hers. Doesn't matter. I wanted it to end anyway, she was not being honest with me.
 
she has been letting him down for what 5 months now? If she would have been up front with me in the beginning I would have understood and it would not have come to this.
 
A man is dining in a fancy restaurant and there is a gorgeous redhead sitting at the next table. He has been checking her out since he sat down, but lacks the nerve to talk with her.

Suddenly she sneezes, and her glass eye comes flying out of its socket towards him.

He reflexively reaches out, grabs it out of the air, and hands it back.

"Oh my, I am so sorry, " the woman says, as she pops her eye back in place. "Let me buy your dinner to make it up to you," she says.

They enjoy a wonderful dinner together, and afterwards they go to the theater followed by drinks. They talk, they laugh, she shares her deepest dreams and he shares his. She listens.

After paying for everything, she asks him if he would like to come to her place for a nightcap and stay for breakfast.

He agrees.

They had a wonderful, wild time having hot, passionate sex, talking, having hot, passionate sex, talking some more, and having hot, passionate sex.

The next morning, she cooks a gourmet breakfast with all the trimmings.

The guy is amazed! Everything had been sooo incredible!

"You know, " he said, "you are the perfect woman. Are you this nice to every guy you meet?"

"No, " she replies. ..... "You just happened to catch my eye."
 
1 -14 pages of assholes calling women cunts
2 - Smurf, BM and vel are making the most sense in here
3 - Chesty you need some therapy and I believe you hacked to get that email. If not, then she's either lost or wanted u to see it. Either way, you need to mature
4 - Burning: You're the biggest loser in this thread (and possibly on EF)
5 - JNev: agreed, this thread is painful and should be deleted
 
blueta2 said:
1 -14 pages of assholes calling women cunts
2 - Smurf, BM and vel are making the most sense in here
3 - Chesty you need some therapy and I believe you hacked to get that email. If not, then she's either lost or wanted u to see it. Either way, you need to mature
4 - Burning: You're the biggest loser in this thread (and possibly on EF)
5 - JNev: agreed, this thread is painful and should be deleted
he had his suspicions and whether he hacked or not is his issue. doesnt make him right or wrong.

but what it did do is PROVE that SHE was wrong.

and was a cunt.

and a whore.

etc.
etc.

are all women? no...

but to be against him because he was being driven crazy by this bitch would put you under the category of "manhater".

so be careful ;)
 
heavy_duty said:
For the record I don't think his girl is a cunt, whore, slut, heffer, cocksucker-motherfucker, cuntlicker or even a bitch!
i thought he had proof of penetration?

...if she had nothing to hide, then she shouldnt have hid it.

either way once he started feeling uncomfortable in the relationship he shoulda bailed.

but for some of us who suck with the opposite sex its easier said than done
 
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gotmilk said:
A man is dining in a fancy restaurant and there is a gorgeous redhead sitting at the next table. He has been checking her out since he sat down, but lacks the nerve to talk with her.

Suddenly she sneezes, and her glass eye comes flying out of its socket towards him.

He reflexively reaches out, grabs it out of the air, and hands it back.

"Oh my, I am so sorry, " the woman says, as she pops her eye back in place. "Let me buy your dinner to make it up to you," she says.

They enjoy a wonderful dinner together, and afterwards they go to the theater followed by drinks. They talk, they laugh, she shares her deepest dreams and he shares his. She listens.

After paying for everything, she asks him if he would like to come to her place for a nightcap and stay for breakfast.

He agrees.

They had a wonderful, wild time having hot, passionate sex, talking, having hot, passionate sex, talking some more, and having hot, passionate sex.

The next morning, she cooks a gourmet breakfast with all the trimmings.

The guy is amazed! Everything had been sooo incredible!

"You know, " he said, "you are the perfect woman. Are you this nice to every guy you meet?"

"No, " she replies. ..... "You just happened to catch my eye."

ZING!
 
Does Chesty want this locked?
 
SublimeZM said:
but to be against him because he was being driven crazy by this bitch would put you under the category of "manhater".

so be careful ;)

I believe that's already been established, sir. :p
 
My TV video is out, only audio. I have read every single post of this thread while listening to the Packers game.

Chesty, good luck with the next woman you meet, you are overdue.
That is all.
 
blueta2 said:
I believe you hacked to get that email.
Agreed.

I mean, she was having a email trail with this other guy. No way did she hit REPLY and it accidentally went to Chesty. He logged into her email to find evidence, which he found. So now he can be happy that he knows the truth. but lol @ lying and saying she accidentally sent it to him. lmAO chesty thinks we're all so foolish
 
Smurfy said:
Agreed.

I mean, she was having a email trail with this other guy. No way did she hit REPLY and it accidentally went to Chesty. He logged into her email to find evidence, which he found. So now he can be happy that he knows the truth. but lol @ lying and saying she accidentally sent it to him. lmAO chesty thinks we're all so foolish

We should open up a detective agency called "Cake Crusaders"
 
Smurfy said:
Agreed.

I mean, she was having a email trail with this other guy. No way did she hit REPLY and it accidentally went to Chesty. He logged into her email to find evidence, which he found. So now he can be happy that he knows the truth. but lol @ lying and saying she accidentally sent it to him. lmAO chesty thinks we're all so foolish

only a guy wearing pantys and completely afraid of women (ie: not sexy) would stoop to such lengths. how sad. what an insult to the myth of the strong, powerful, no bullshit, tough american soldier.

john wayne wouldn't hack into women's email accounts!

i'm gonna become a d.i. so i whip boys into men. not wussies.

r
 
Smurfy said:
Agreed.

I mean, she was having a email trail with this other guy. No way did she hit REPLY and it accidentally went to Chesty. He logged into her email to find evidence, which he found. So now he can be happy that he knows the truth. but lol @ lying and saying she accidentally sent it to him. lmAO chesty thinks we're all so foolish
lol, I thought about that too. I remember hacking into a girlfriends e-mail..it was too easy because I set up the account for her, so I already knew the password (she wasn't too bright)...took me a couple of days to box up her stuff, but it was worth it.
 
lmao, dude just take it as a loss. Why still wanna "talk" to her. Screw that, call her ass out, let her know you know, then tell her C-ya!
 
Jack Schitt said:
lol, I thought about that too. I remember hacking into a girlfriends e-mail..it was too easy because I set up the account for her, so I already knew the password (she wasn't too bright)...took me a couple of days to box up her stuff, but it was worth it.
Ive looked at my husband's email but not because I suspect he's cheating, but because Im just nosey.
 
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