chesty said:No, I am too numb now to feel much of anything. I am basically going contracting to Texas and I told her that. I still want to give her the email so she knows I know. But yeah, I am done with her. I am sure in a few days it will hit me. I know this she said everything I expected. I am friends with him but no way I am going back to him, I wasn't even that emotionally involved with him when we were together. He pressured me so much and added guilt trips on top. God, I was almost gonna vomit at one point. Thene we started hugging and making out and after I got her off, she was like why did you do this to me. Then she gave me a blow job and afterwards was, like this was just physical, not emotional, I still need to figure things out. I was like yeah okay. All the while I had the email in my back pocket.
chesty said:Trust me this guy is a fat ass and the ugliest mother fucker I have ever seen.
I could argue it was your fault because you made a bad choice and ignored signs that were blatant to everyone on an internet message board which you chose to post it. Man up and accept you made a bad choice, learn from your mistakes and don't do it again.....many of us have done it.chesty said:I don't mean lonely physically, I see the pattern in her. she will be lonely for real love and affection. If you saw this guy you would be like wtf. She even said he was ugly, needy and more long before we got to this point. Picking them is not the problem. It is like everything else. You have to wade through the bullshit before you find the right one.
This is probably why so many marriages fail. Because one or the other or both are not really honest and instead of being adult about it and saying I don't want to be with you they get someone else before they do to protect themselves.
Trust me this guy is a fat ass and the ugliest mother fucker I have ever seen.
They both have some serious issues and it won't really last between them. Let her think she has won victory over me I don't care. I have peace of mind in that I was honest to her, never lied and didn't cheat on her and truly did love her, despite what any of you arm chair psychologists think of me. I really don't care.
The simple fact is I met someone last year, got to know her, felt I could trust her, started dating her, not pressuring her, allowing myself to get to know her slowly till I thought i could trust her with my heart and then 3 weeks ago, she changed and I didn't know why. At any rate, I stuck it out because i did believe in her till I found out what my gut was telling me. I was trying to say it was just because I was overly sensitive to my past and didn't want to believe it was happening again.
So, you know what? I really don't care what some of you say about me being a puss or needing balls or I do this to myself or whatever. I hadn't dated in almost two years because I was very picky about who I talked to and I wanted to be sure there was potential. I don't fuck just to fuck. I have to feel something for that person. I did with her. Even as I knew it was over today when I was at her house, I was still holding out hope, but I couldn't so I had to tell her what I knew and I knew it would end it for sure and let her go be with this guy to drown her sorrows (of which I am sure she has none)
My point is, I got fucked and it was not my fault
javaguru said:I could argue it was your fault because you made a bad choice and ignored signs that were blatant to everyone on an internet message board which you chose to post it. Man up and accept you made a bad choice, learn from your mistakes and don't do it again.....many of us have done it.![]()
True, you just fell for her bullshit. That's where you are accountable.chesty said:The signs were not there until 3 weeks ago after quite a few months of dating. That was when I started to wonder. And yes, it took 3 weeks, but I got out. So no it is not my fault she was cheating, I didn't make her do it. And I did nothing to make her want to do it.
chesty said:The signs were not there until 3 weeks ago after quite a few months of dating. That was when I started to wonder. And yes, it took 3 weeks, but I got out. So no it is not my fault she was cheating, I didn't make her do it. And I did nothing to make her want to do it.
chesty said:Only for the first couple of weeks and only because I didn't want to believe it was happening again. I am not stupid nor weak. I don't like to give up just because it gets rough sometimes. If we did, there would be no marriages. I just chose to believe that she was not like the others even during the last 3 weeks when I knew better because I did care for her and love her. But, thankfully I was able to learn the truth before it got to be where it would be painful for me to say good bye to her.
javaguru said:Here is an example from my life. Dr. Heather game all kinds of of "ready to move on" statements but I've been around the block a few times. I was the first guy she dated seriously after her ex, they had been separated for six months and she swore she was ready to move on. However, I know women better than they know themselves and I never got close to her because I knew I would get this two months later...You've been awfuly quiet this weekend and so have I.
"I have been doing a lot of thinking and as much as I
am falling for you and as wonderful as I think you are
and as great as you treat me I am feeling like I need
a little space. I am so overwhelmed with everything
in my life right now that I don't feel I can put
enough into a relationship like you deserve. Tears
fill my eyes as I type this because I do have such
strong feelings for you and I am so attracted to you.
You are generous and gorgoeus and have been so good to
me. Please don't hate me I am just under a lot of
stress and pressure right now and feel I am trying to
juggle too much. Also just coming out of 7 years of
marriage I somethimes feel like I shouldn't just jump
into a huge serious relationship. Maybe now is just
not the right time and we can reconnect when I have my
shit together. We can certainly remain friends for
now, I would actually love that if you are willing!
Brian, you are such a wonderful guy which is making
this decision so hard for me! I hope you understand!"
I know wiminz and I predicted it, I didn't care....we stopped e-mailing a couple weeks after this e-mail when she expressed how much she missed me and I responded by asking about her cat.![]()
Oh, there was ex-drama even after they had been separated for six months. She wanted sex more than me, I hit it on the second date and I was done when I realized she was self-absorbed.all the whey said:Yeah man. It's great to be the rebound guy. A lot of sex, and you know it isn't going to work out long.
The problem I had being the rebound guy. Is that I found out in most cases the girl had not told her ex they were broke up. Until, we were together.
So, I guess I was just banging cheating bitches.
How is her cat btw?
javaguru said:Oh, there was ex-drama even after they had been separated for six months. She wanted sex more than me, I hit it on the second date and I was done when I realized she was self-absorbed.![]()
at most it will merely be uncomfortable for her for the duration of the conversation but in the end he is still the one hurt and jilted so actually little is gained in that effort. In fact, Id wager to say that the conversation would be more uncomfortable for HIM than it would be for HER all things considered.nefertiti said:Count me as a female who supports revenge.
Sorry girls, but women who cheat, or anyone who cheats, deserves to have to face judgement face to face.
Don't tell her you love her or are in love with her...but call her on the email...in person. Make her sweat. Bullets.
reason being, if he presents this to her, then he presents as the victim to her shenanigans and she still is the one in control. however, if he simply walks away and tells her to fuck off with nothing else being said, then she is blind sided and has no choice but to feel like the victim here which is really what you want.Smurfy said:at most it will merely be uncomfortable for her for the duration of the conversation but in the end he is still the one hurt and jilted so actually little is gained in that effort. In fact, Id wager to say that the conversation would be more uncomfortable for HIM than it would be for HER all things considered.
Drama...her ex and her fought constantly. He found out she started dating and started another line of argument that ended up with him hitting her. Then there was the incident of him hitting her suv while exchanging custody. She was just as guilty for most of it and I gave her no sympathy for her willingly arguing and calling her ex names in front of the kids, a 3 and 5 year old.all the whey said:What was the drama?
How was she self-absorbed? Did she talk about her High School Accomplishments a lot?
nefertiti said:Count me as a female who supports revenge.
Sorry girls, but women who cheat, or anyone who cheats, deserves to have to face judgement face to face.
Don't tell her you love her or are in love with her...but call her on the email...in person. Make her sweat. Bullets.
Smurfy said:jesus fucking christ healother, you just dont know how to let it go. you're not going to one up her with this bullshit. fucking walk away and dont turn back
Jack Schitt said:Revenge in the traditional sense is silly. If you want true revenge, nothing will make you happier and them more miserable than simply living well.
Werd.borris said:that's right, greater success IS the best revenge
as smart as you are about the wimmenz, Im surprised you wouldnt know aheaad of time that if a woman is only 6 months out of a marriage with two small children, there is going to be ex issues. that's not rocket science my friend.javaguru said:Drama...her ex and her fought constantly. He found out she started dating and started another line of argument that ended up with him hitting her. Then there was the incident of him hitting her suv while exchanging custody. She was just as guilty for most of it and I gave her no sympathy for her willingly arguing and calling her ex names in front of the kids, a 3 and 5 year old.
Self-absorbed...she was always wanting sex and wanted it her way, always on top as well as meeting the kids on HER schedule; I prefer to be single...![]()
She did talk about some honor in college chemistry class but she clearly didn't deserve it because she admitted I'm smarter than her.![]()
javaguru said:Drama...her ex and her fought constantly. He found out she started dating and started another line of argument that ended up with him hitting her. Then there was the incident of him hitting her suv while exchanging custody. She was just as guilty for most of it and I gave her no sympathy for her willingly arguing and calling her ex names in front of the kids, a 3 and 5 year old.
Self-absorbed...she was always wanting sex and wanted it her way, always on top as well as meeting the kids on HER schedule; I prefer to be single...![]()
She did talk about some honor in college chemistry class but she clearly didn't deserve it because she admitted I'm smarter than her.![]()
I posted about it in my initial "would you hit it thread." I know and I was prepared....Smurfy said:as smart as you are about the wimmenz, Im surprised you wouldnt know aheaad of time that if a woman is only 6 months out of a marriage with two small children, there is going to be ex issues. that's not rocket science my friend.
Since you didn't read the first one....Smurfy said:^repost!
Smurfy said:as smart as you are about the wimmenz, Im surprised you wouldnt know aheaad of time that if a woman is only 6 months out of a marriage with two small children, there is going to be ex issues. that's not rocket science my friend.
true.all the whey said:I think I remember java even mentioning he expected it.
He is not complaining. He banged her for awhile. And, she left him. That is a hell of alot better than her not wanting to go.
Smurfy said:true.
sorry i didnt keep up on how his relationship unfolded. forgive me for being a day late and a wheel short.
Jack Schitt said:This thread is gonna be had to beat for SWV thread of the year 2008.
Are those still alive? I distinctly remember reading one of those & trying not to spill a bowl of soup because I was laughing so hard.ceo said:This is close...but not quite there, to the multiple SWV threads that Lestat used to post a couple years ago.
Jack Schitt said:Are those still alive? I distinctly remember reading one of those & trying not to spill a bowl of soup because I was laughing so hard.
).Sopping Wet VaginaWulfgar said:what is an SWV?
Sport Waterproof vehicle?
Single White VirginJack Schitt said:Sopping Wet Vagina
all the whey said:I am glad you are not letting this slide.
But, you are wasting your time trying to prove logically she was at fault.
No matter what. She will justify it however she can.
Burning_Inside said:I dont understand the women int his thread telling him move on blah blah and telling him he's insecure.
First off you morons, you guys should probably know more about chesty's ordeals with women than I do since you've been here a lot more than i have over the past 2 years, but even from reading the last big thread he made on this shit, I being the moron I am with a measly 120 IQ who cant even understand simple division of fractions, can understand that he has been royally fucked by women in a long streak of bad luck, therefore he has every right to grow defensive and be "insecure".
It's this insecurity that you tards are making out to be a bad thing that obviously just saved him from yet another cunt. This is like telling some fat nerd kid who gets his ass kicked in school daily that hes insecure and to just let it go instead of taking some form of self defense classes to defend himself. OH THE LOGIC!
Fucking morons.
Chesty, glad to see you cut your losses short, and I support your devious connivery 100%
Jack Schitt said:Revenge in the traditional sense is silly. If you want true revenge, nothing will make you happier and them more miserable than simply living well.
borris said:honestly bro, I wouldn't even waste time hearing an explanation for her ass, if it was me I would just leave the email on her dresser and bounce
obviously she's still in love with her ex (lying about going on trips)...... I wouldn't even bother sitting down talking with her just to hear her side and watch her make another excuse. seriously..
I can see it already.... she's going to blame you for being this and that and this and that in your relationship and still make it out to be your fault... women like that are too predictable
chesty said:On a happier note I will either be in CA or Texas making really big bucks in a month!
chesty said:Yes, I did get one and I did win. I wanted her to know that I knew what she was doing. Even if I had said nothing and just left, she had her other guy so it would not have bothered her. But by her knowing that I know she was lying that is all that matters to me. I don't care if she feels bad or good or whatever. In the end she will get what she deserves. Failed marriages if she ever marries. Failed relationships that are always going to be suspect and untrusting. She cheats and lies so she will be looking for it in the other guy and he will know this. She once said she didn't understand why all her boyfriends cheated on her and one physically abused her. Well, I know why.
She is a liar, cheater and more. Her father lives with her (not visit, but lives and supports her) she is almost 30. That is the red flag I should have paid attention to at the beginning and the other flag is when she told just how awful and ugly her ex was and how bad their relationship as and that she never really felt all that much for him blah blah. If they tell you just how bad their ex was it is only to impress you that they are "over" them especially if they tell you there is no way they will ever go back to them adamently. It is a trick. And that is the common thread I see in my past 3 o4 gf's. Each one of them have said exactly the same thing to me and each one has done exactly the same thing. So, there is what I need to watch for from now on.
On a happier note I will either be in CA or Texas making really big bucks in a month!
Wulfgar said:actually this is a lose lose situation...no one wins when these things happen
chesty said:My point is, I got fucked and it was not my fault
chesty said:OH hell no i am not letting it slide. I want her to understand that she is to blame for the break up my supposed insecurity and not trusting. I didn't lie to her, I didn't go behind her back, I have a spine. She is the one that is the liar, cheat, whore, cunt etc

chesty said:Yeah, new hottie in a few months after I settle down in my new place where ever that may be.
chesty said:I told her if you had explained I would have understood. I doubt it, but maybe she will figure it out that communication is a two way street. Oh wait, she was in love with this guy and hittin, so maybe she is right. I wouldn't have understood.
No way man. This is the successor of the famous SWV thread. There's a new sheriff in town.jnevin said:Delete this thread. Seriously.
he had his suspicions and whether he hacked or not is his issue. doesnt make him right or wrong.blueta2 said:1 -14 pages of assholes calling women cunts
2 - Smurf, BM and vel are making the most sense in here
3 - Chesty you need some therapy and I believe you hacked to get that email. If not, then she's either lost or wanted u to see it. Either way, you need to mature
4 - Burning: You're the biggest loser in this thread (and possibly on EF)
5 - JNev: agreed, this thread is painful and should be deleted
i thought he had proof of penetration?heavy_duty said:For the record I don't think his girl is a cunt, whore, slut, heffer, cocksucker-motherfucker, cuntlicker or even a bitch!
gotmilk said:A man is dining in a fancy restaurant and there is a gorgeous redhead sitting at the next table. He has been checking her out since he sat down, but lacks the nerve to talk with her.
Suddenly she sneezes, and her glass eye comes flying out of its socket towards him.
He reflexively reaches out, grabs it out of the air, and hands it back.
"Oh my, I am so sorry, " the woman says, as she pops her eye back in place. "Let me buy your dinner to make it up to you," she says.
They enjoy a wonderful dinner together, and afterwards they go to the theater followed by drinks. They talk, they laugh, she shares her deepest dreams and he shares his. She listens.
After paying for everything, she asks him if he would like to come to her place for a nightcap and stay for breakfast.
He agrees.
They had a wonderful, wild time having hot, passionate sex, talking, having hot, passionate sex, talking some more, and having hot, passionate sex.
The next morning, she cooks a gourmet breakfast with all the trimmings.
The guy is amazed! Everything had been sooo incredible!
"You know, " he said, "you are the perfect woman. Are you this nice to every guy you meet?"
"No, " she replies. ..... "You just happened to catch my eye."
heavy_duty said:For the record I don't think his girl is a cunt, whore, slut, heffer, cocksucker-motherfucker, cuntlicker or even a bitch!

SublimeZM said:but to be against him because he was being driven crazy by this bitch would put you under the category of "manhater".
so be careful![]()
Agreed.blueta2 said:I believe you hacked to get that email.
Smurfy said:Agreed.
I mean, she was having a email trail with this other guy. No way did she hit REPLY and it accidentally went to Chesty. He logged into her email to find evidence, which he found. So now he can be happy that he knows the truth. but lol @ lying and saying she accidentally sent it to him. lmAO chesty thinks we're all so foolish
Smurfy said:Agreed.
I mean, she was having a email trail with this other guy. No way did she hit REPLY and it accidentally went to Chesty. He logged into her email to find evidence, which he found. So now he can be happy that he knows the truth. but lol @ lying and saying she accidentally sent it to him. lmAO chesty thinks we're all so foolish
omg that's geniusblueta2 said:We should open up a detective agency called "Cake Crusaders"
Razorguns said:what an insult to the myth of the strong, powerful, no bullshit, tough american soldier.
Smurfy said:omg that's genius
Longhorn85 said:Just for the record, Chesty is a Marine, not a Soldier.
lol, I thought about that too. I remember hacking into a girlfriends e-mail..it was too easy because I set up the account for her, so I already knew the password (she wasn't too bright)...took me a couple of days to box up her stuff, but it was worth it.Smurfy said:Agreed.
I mean, she was having a email trail with this other guy. No way did she hit REPLY and it accidentally went to Chesty. He logged into her email to find evidence, which he found. So now he can be happy that he knows the truth. but lol @ lying and saying she accidentally sent it to him. lmAO chesty thinks we're all so foolish
Ive looked at my husband's email but not because I suspect he's cheating, but because Im just nosey.Jack Schitt said:lol, I thought about that too. I remember hacking into a girlfriends e-mail..it was too easy because I set up the account for her, so I already knew the password (she wasn't too bright)...took me a couple of days to box up her stuff, but it was worth it.
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