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obiwan9962
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up to the two people
i had one that did and one that didn't
i had one that did and one that didn't
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you probably didn't mean it as it sounds.....but for me,when a women behaves as if she's "giving" and/or "letting me have" sexual relations with her then I'm decidedly not turned on...coming at this from another angle,the longest I've dated a gal w/o "getting it" was ~2 months and that was the girl I married..a relationship marked by selfishness and virtually no generosity..lasted 2 years and i regard it as my "beta" marriagedayna4u2nv said:
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4everhung said:
beta lol
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looks like the depends are winning
4everhung said:
True that sounded pretty bad anyways what I really mean is in general I try to wait no matter the physical attraction to someone. I want to see if there is a possiblity of it actually developing into more. I really want to make sure that my head knows where things are at before I let my body get into the physical.
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dayna4u2nv said:
True that sounded pretty bad anyways what I really mean is in general I try to wait no matter the physical attraction to someone. I want to see if there is a possiblity of it actually developing into more. I really want to make sure that my head knows where things are at before I let my body get into the physical.
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I agree i prefer to build some suspense and anticipation..but you know sometimes you get to necking and kissing and the hands of each of you start to wander....I'll naturally move a palm down to the navel area and then its not too far to work a finger under a panty band(if they're wearing any,I've had a few first dates go commando)..if the gal is receptive to the recon finger its not to much further to the love button...and its wet and its quite frankly hard for either to stop....prior to the intimacy you should have enough time to pick up cues about your mate..i can generally tell inside of about 3 minutes if this is a girl I'd like to get it on with...3 dates with or without intercourse I can tell if they are worth a longer commitment..30 days to see if they are marriage material,and about 3-4 months to confirm..remember to that sexual intimacy is very good barometer of the chemistry the two of you may have,or have not..sometimes you find out if you have bedroom chemistry soon,sometimes it takes a more "traditional" longer period..really girls,wouldn't you like to find out if a guy is a lousy lay sooner rather than later?..there are so many ways and opportunities to express yourself sexually than say in dinner date after dinner date.....
I agree the only other time I have let someone hit it so soon, I found out almost right away we were not sexually compatible. The second time we did it I wispered talk dirty to me in his ear, he couldn't do it. I tried to talk about it later and he was making a joke of it. He couldn't understand how that is something I would like needles to say that was short lived.
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It takes 1 guy out of a few 1000s for me to get attracted to, let alone have an intercourse with. I wouldn't do it on a first date, but I'm not blaming men for trying.
The funny thing is no matter wheather I have sex with "him" right away or later, they still don't leave me alone for many years and I am not just saying it...
I know most women complain about guys not wanting to commit and it's opposite in my case, on the second date it's just another "marriage purposal". That's why my "relationships" only lasts 3 dates. On a second date he would call me his GF and his whole family already knows about me, by the 3rd date he would ask me to go with "him" look at some houses because "I will be living in it"... Believe me, that happens to me with every guy I meet!
I sometimes wonder why? I am definately not the type that makes you think I would make a good house wife.
I guess men are somewhat attracted to smart, strong, succesful, independant, bitchy types as opposed to "regulars", brings an excitment and challenge into relationship.
But aside from that I think intimacy plays a big role in the relationship. It was one of the reasons of my previous break-ups.
The funny thing is no matter wheather I have sex with "him" right away or later, they still don't leave me alone for many years and I am not just saying it...
I know most women complain about guys not wanting to commit and it's opposite in my case, on the second date it's just another "marriage purposal". That's why my "relationships" only lasts 3 dates. On a second date he would call me his GF and his whole family already knows about me, by the 3rd date he would ask me to go with "him" look at some houses because "I will be living in it"... Believe me, that happens to me with every guy I meet!
I sometimes wonder why? I am definately not the type that makes you think I would make a good house wife.
I guess men are somewhat attracted to smart, strong, succesful, independant, bitchy types as opposed to "regulars", brings an excitment and challenge into relationship.
But aside from that I think intimacy plays a big role in the relationship. It was one of the reasons of my previous break-ups.
