Can you?

[obiwan9962]

It takes 1 guy out of a few 1000s for me to get attracted to, let alone have an intercourse with. I wouldn't do it on a first date, but I'm not blaming men for trying.
The funny thing is no matter wheather I have sex with "him" right away or later, they still don't leave me alone for many years and I am not just saying it...
I know most women complain about guys not wanting to commit and it's opposite in my case, on the second date it's just another "marriage purposal". That's why my "relationships" only lasts 3 dates. On a second date he would call me his GF and his whole family already knows about me, by the 3rd date he would ask me to go with "him" look at some houses because "I will be living in it"... Believe me, that happens to me with every guy I meet!
I sometimes wonder why? I am definately not the type that makes you think I would make a good house wife.
I guess men are somewhat attracted to smart, strong, succesful, independant, bitchy types as opposed to "regulars", brings an excitment and challenge into relationship.

But aside from that I think intimacy plays a big role in the relationship. It was one of the reasons of my previous break-ups.

you must either be very special or very hot or both

 

[Russian KGB]

you must either be very special or very hot or both

I vote for "both"!

 

[obiwan9962]

I vote for "both"!

okay
works for me
ty for k

 

[BileStew]

I guess men are somewhat attracted to smart, strong, succesful, independant, bitchy types

I like 'em bitchy. The bitchier, the better.

Keeps me on my toes and the sex sessions are outrageous.

 

[Russian KGB]

Always looking for new recruits...

 

[BileStew]

Always looking for new recruits...

I'm readily available for parties, bar mitzvahs, and "recruitment".

heh

 

[Gymgurl]

I know this might suprise you guys lol.....but I didn't have sex with the hubby for about 4 months into the relationship. So like some else on here said....that was the person I married. We dated for 5 years before we married.

 

[Russian KGB]

I know this might suprise you guys lol.....but I didn't have sex with the hubby for about 4 months into the relationship. So like some else on here said....that was the person I married. We dated for 5 years before we married.

Don't feel so bad, the last 2 years of my marriage we slept in 2 different rooms, we hardly ever saw each other, just communicated thru notes. He was into some weird things I didn't want to have a part of, but had a hard time breaking it off because of my beliefs and upbringing.
In my country they teach us to stick to your man no matter what and always be faithful. The difference is I didn't know him well before I married him, it was a long distance relationship and the time was pushing it, I just took my chance.
My friends would always try to set me up with other men to open my eyes, but would never go for it to all the respect to my marriage, no matter how much I hated it!
I think that's the only part of me that is not Americanized yet...

 

[obiwan9962]

Don't feel so bad, the last 2 years of my marriage we slept in 2 different rooms, we hardly ever saw each other, just communicated thru notes. He was into some weird things I didn't want to have a part of, but had a hard time breaking it off because of my beliefs and upbringing.
In my country they teach us to stick to your man no matter what and always be faithful. The difference is I didn't know him well before I married him, it was a long distance relationship and the time was pushing it, I just took my chance.
My friends would always try to set me up with other men to open my eyes, but would never go for it to all the respect to my marriage, no matter how much I hated it!
I think that's the only part of me that is not Americanized yet...

sounds like abused wife syndrome
too afraid to leave thinking you might find worse

but if life is as intolerable as you say

GET THE FUCK OUT

 

[hamstershaver]

if they dont sleep with me on the 1st date then i would not go out with them again