Can you?

[SoKlueles]

Oops. Ive been in a one night stand for 9 months now

 

[Gymgurl]

That explains why you still have hot 2 minute sex

 

[SoKlueles]

Heck had 3 minute sex yesterday.and he even paused to watch a touchdown on the tv!!!!!

 

[Spartacus]

depends of if alcohol was involved...an economics professor explained that alcohol lowers the "time horizon"..in other words if you're intoxicated you will be more laible to do sooner what you would do eventually anyways...most women know relatively quickly whether they want to have intercourse with a guy..either they find him physically desirable and/or his personality and charisma attract her to him..add to this that alcohol physiologically makes women more horny(I'll find a link),where as for men alcohol is actually physiologically impairing..so yes I've had some good caliber relationships with women I've slept with on the first or second date..and many times too I've slept and only slept(i.e. no intercourse) with a women after the first "date"...but generally if a women will allow you to sleep with her in her bed than its a fairly safe assumption you'll be intimate eventually

 

[superqt4u2nv]

most women know relatively quickly whether they want to have intercourse with a guy..either they find him physically desirable and/or his personality and charisma attract her to him..

I agree with that 100% I know right away just a matter of when I will give it up normally!

I like the guy for more than just a fuck friend but after I did it thought oh shit that is all he is going to be now. Not really sure what I want but I like the option of more than just fuck friends. I pretty much never do that but it had been several months since I had sex and I was really into him it just happend.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Personally I could, but the relationship that just ended, did so in part because SHE couldn't handle the fact that we slept together 1 week after our first date (it wasn't a date, I was just over visiting when it happened), and she developed feelings for me faster than she thought was healthy, and it scared her.

Dayna, my advice is if he can handle it, don't dwell on it, and let it ruin a relationship that might lead to your happiness. Just accept it, and if you both think there is potential for soemthing long term, just go with it.

 

[corythosaurus]

I couldn't have a relationship with someone I slept with the first date/night.

If they can do that, then to me, they have no respect for themselves and would do it on a whim with anyone else.

Did that make sense?

So you don't have respect for yourself either if you're this "one night stands" partner. You'd "do it on a whim with anyone else" too then. Is that what you're saying?

What's good for the goose, right. Or is it just the gander that're the low self-esteem tramps?

It all comes down to the two people involved.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Cory I ran out of karma for the day but when I get reloaded your getting a shot.

 

[BileStew]

So you don't have respect for yourself either if you're this "one night stands" partner. You'd "do it on a whim with anyone else" too then. Is that what you're saying?

What's good for the goose, right. Or is it just the gander that're the low self-esteem tramps?

It all comes down to the two people involved.

Dude, I'm a guy and if a chick is working her mojo on my johnson, then of course I'm not going to say no.

And to answer your response, no, I guess I wouldn't have respect for myself. But I'll get over it.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

I guess I wouldn't have respect for myself. But I'll get over it.

You would get over it for yourself but not someone else