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pinsnfriends
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I think that some of us just have a "nac" for being good in bed.
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The Shadow
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yes....
And there are those who swear by how a person eats
And there are those who swear by how a person eats
I think I agree with you......I think it takes a while to get comfortable....but there are some that just rock your world and you have known them for a hour (well maybe longer) that is the kind I think might come from experience...
But back to the first point....it takes awhile to find out what makes your partner purrrr.
But back to the first point....it takes awhile to find out what makes your partner purrrr.
PBR
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it takes a couple of times to gather info thru the senses as to what is taking place between the two...however, an experienced partner knows how to handle a given situation and will lead the other...
but as time goes on between the two, sex becomes more intimate and intense because of learning to "trust" each other....hence, the experience is much more powerful, pleasurable, and the depths intimacy can begin to unfold....
but as time goes on between the two, sex becomes more intimate and intense because of learning to "trust" each other....hence, the experience is much more powerful, pleasurable, and the depths intimacy can begin to unfold....
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Swole_2112
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I think both aspects come into play. I think the better and more experienced a person is the better the sex will be the first time out. However, there's no doubt in my mind that no matter how good they are the sex will get better as time goes on. So, therefore, they both come into play.
TruBalla4Real
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I'm not sure experience plays as big of a part. I mean if someone is not experienced they will not be good - but I think some people are good at it (sensual, etc.) while others, because of their personality, are not.
PBR
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I was introduced to a very hot woman last weekend....my friend is dating an actress who had a friend who wanted to go out for sushi...so i got a call from my buddy who told me to get my ass down there and meet this girl...he said we would hit it off....he is the only person i would trust to set me up on a blind date...to no surprise she was incredible...very nice and immediately started a conversation and focused her attention on me....she was quite beautiful to say the least...she was playful and we talked about alot of different things...she asked how she made me feel etc, etc...i left the table to use the restroom, and so that my buddy could get the "scoop"....we had a great evening it couldnt have gone any better....she asked me- for my number and when we could get together and so on....(perfect)...so upon my leaving the table, my buddy told me that she was intimidated by my looks and appearence....she told her actress friend, "may I be blunt??, [yes, sure] I never date good looking guys because they intimidate me, and I cant fully release!, but he is a really nice guy"....Gymgurl said:
she told my buddy and her friend that she only goes out with Fat Older men and thats all she is used to.....
so there you have it...I have my work cut out for me with this one for sure....she returned my phone call after i told her how nice it was to meet her and thanked her for a great evening...she must have felt very comfortable with me as she told me alot of personal info about her and her family...i was flattered...so i called her again to check in with her...still waiting for a call back....
hamstershaver
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no even ones that have sex a lot suck
ThatGirl
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It COULD be lack of experience, or maybe just the awkwardness of having sex with someone for the first time, or even first few times. I know some guys I have been with the first time was awkward on both parts, and some they totally rocked my world, and vice versa. Just depends on the person/mood/situation I suppose.
mrplunkey
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Experience lets you figure-out the person's hotbuttons faster. Usually for the first time, you either have to play around a little (fingers, tongue) to figure-out how she "works" or be more blunt -- just ask 
Unless this is first-contact sex, chances are you've played around a little physically and verbally (with sexually-related talk). She's probably given you clues along the way.
Figuring-out the combination to the safe can be as fun as cracking it open though... think of it as a puzzle!
I wouldn't consider a rough first-run with someone the result of "lack of experience" though. Even experienced people sometimes guess wrong or read a cue incorrectly. Now... if we're talking the 4 or 5th run, you got a problem there!
Unless this is first-contact sex, chances are you've played around a little physically and verbally (with sexually-related talk). She's probably given you clues along the way.Figuring-out the combination to the safe can be as fun as cracking it open though... think of it as a puzzle!
I wouldn't consider a rough first-run with someone the result of "lack of experience" though. Even experienced people sometimes guess wrong or read a cue incorrectly. Now... if we're talking the 4 or 5th run, you got a problem there!
^^^^^ and those are proabably the same women who bitch about how shitty there sex life is. I may not b the biggest but i never stop trying to be the best>just talking makes my job so much easier and so much more enjoyable,cause i know im on the right track ......no complaints yet...lol
Gymgurl said:
Yes.
An amateur chick will do what she thinks I want her to do....instead of exploring and learning what I like......until I have to position her and move her body the way I want it......kind of have to guide her....
If a girl doesn't know how to give head, that generally tells me that she doesn't know how to fuck either.....
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