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LuluDeren

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Okay, I need to apologize if the following request breaches forum protocol...
I have belonged to another fitness forum since 05, needless to say, I have a great nemesis...the man is a flaming misogynist. Anywhooo, I've always countered his posts, recently the forum mods have taken to deleting all my posts, even though they (my posts) have been respectful and articulate responses....apparently they are fearful I will start a fight....I even requested they ban me if they won't let me express my opinion, they refused??? I cannot debate if I am being censored. I realize this is no one's problem but my own. But......

How would you guys have addressed this post, keeping in mind, this is a pretty tempered response from this guy (he actually had an economic model based on the marketability of 16-32 women, so his widening parameter, for this post, seems , ahem....*charitable*).


http://www.extremefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?p=636772#post636772

>>>>>>>>>Today, 07:29 AM #15
biscuitman357
EF Big Dog


Well sorry to hear about that man. That sucks that it is happening to you.

Best advice I can give is this -

1) Life is short. Time spent suffering over someone who doesn't love you anymore is time not spent on living a good life for yourself.

2) If you were rich and single, I think you'll find no one will break up with you ever. The best tip I can give anyone is focus on having a career you like and gain your financial independence from the everyday rat race as soon as you can. When you have that, they line up for you and keep lining up for you. Kid yourself not. Relationships are all about money in the end.

3) When she is 35, no one will want her anymore. Odds are even if you stayed with her, you wouldn't either at that point. So don't stress out about it. There is a beautiful woman for every second of the day for every day of the week out there. You have to remember women are a dime a dozen out there. Ok, one didn't work out, that's ok, there are still lots of fish in the sea. As a guy, as long as you got your health and cash, you can keep dating and scoring at will. This girl will only have until about 35 then she stops being marketable to most men. At 40, it will be pretty much over for her.

So it's easy to think your candle is burning half as bright, but remember it can burn twice as long.

No worries, good luck man Reps are always welcome and appreciated. Thanks. <<<<<<<<<<<<<



LOL! What a schmoooo.
 
I guess I only have 6 more weeks left before I am no longer marketable. But since I am not a prostitute, I will survive.

The guy is a jerk. I ignore posts from boys like him. It is not worth argueing over the internet. You will never change his opinion and he will enjoy the attention. I would be upset if my posts were modified or deleted and would no longer go to the website.
 
claire said:
....The guy is a jerk. I ignore posts from boys like him. It is not worth argueing over the internet. You will never change his opinion and he will enjoy the attention. I would be upset if my posts were modified or deleted and would no longer go to the website.

You're absolutely right, Claire. I shouldn't invest so much energy into an anonymous post. The sad thing about it is, the post was inciteful and disrespectful of their whole female membership (and I said so in my post). But their administration decided to, essentially, condone, hell, even support this guys opinion by leaving his post and deleting mine. Ah well, you're very right. My lesson learned that's for sure....I'll throw that forum out like yesterday's garbage :D

Thanks for listening to my rant, Ladies:)
 
claire said:
It is not worth argueing over the internet. You will never change his opinion and he will enjoy the attention.
male & female alike...

dont worry lulu, you have a good heart about it (it's in the right place) :heart:
 
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Pretty much same comment. It depends on what you expect of yourself and of whoever you give your attention to. If you treat someone who is valuable as something that is exchangeble after a certain age, then they will feel like shit about themselves or hold you in just as high regard. And also if you dont expect much from a person, you won't get much either.

And equivalently, if a person truly feels that they aren't worth shit at age 35 or 40, then they wont' be. If that person feels vibrant and age is just a number, he / she will be young forever. I have yet to have someone accuse me of looking my age. My parents are active as shit and they are over 65 - they dont' look over 50.

Broad generalizations are dumb discussions anyway. Certainly not worth spendign time arguing.
 
Well according to him, I should just kill myself now... :lmao:

But I agree with the other ladies - not worth arguing about......oh and if posts like that bother you, don't go into C&C either.... :dodgy:
 
A big reason why some men like that guy don't care for women over 35 is because by then most have finally figured out that their self worth does not come from the company or affection of a man or any other person. In addition, some men specifically choose younger women 17-26 to become involved with because they will look up to them because their greater life experience is attractive to them, they will put up with their BS longer, are too inexperienced in seeing through the games they play or too willing to put up with it.

So anytime I hear a guy carrying on about women in regards to age I know their issues stem from themselves, their insecurity or grandiose ego, shortcomings and life experience to date.
 
velvett said:
A big reason why some men like that guy don't care for women over 35 is because by then most have finally figured out that their self worth does not come from the company or affection of a man or any other person. In addition, some men specifically choose younger women 17-26 to become involved with because they will look up to them because their greater life experience is attractive to them, they will put up with their BS longer, are too inexperienced in seeing through the games they play or too willing to put up with it.

So anytime I hear a guy carrying on about women in regards to age I know their issues stem from themselves, their insecurity or grandiose ego, shortcomings and life experience to date.


I agree - its a way for a guy to never really have to grow up and deal w/ women who are more mature than just the drunk blonde at the frat party.
 
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