C&C Sex discussion (not for bts)

[Sub-Zero]

lol @ people who say "I don't need to prove anything to anyone" newsflash, people don't share the birth of their child to PROVE it to anyone, just like I don't share a story about a particularly fun sexual adventure to PROVE that it happened.

look at my son, im so fu cking happy that i have a son, look, omg, give me presents im so happy best time of my life... oh shit u dont have a kid? sucks bro, someday

 

[KillahBee]

lol @ people who say "I don't need to prove anything to anyone" newsflash, people don't share the birth of their child to PROVE it to anyone, just like I don't share a story about a particularly fun sexual adventure to PROVE that it happened.

great point -

note for EVERYONE. when someone tries to make a point by using EXTREMES as an example (i.e. baby birth vs. fucking some club slut), it is a sure fire sign that they have no real, logical arguement.

 

[Lestat]

great point -

note for EVERYONE. when someone tries to make a point by using EXTREMES as an example (i.e. baby birth vs. fucking some club slut), it is a sure fire sign that they have no real, logical arguement.

its called using a salient example, something people can easy conceptualize or relate to, in order to make a point.

Since we've already established that EF has quite a few dudes with zero game, that get no action, and are even in some case virgins, I have to step outside of the realm of sexual activity to get my point across sometimes.

I guess I realized that takling about your sex life is sort of taboo for the same reason that talking about your income in. You run the risk of making a lot of people feel inadequate.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

its called using a salient example, something people can easy conceptualize or relate to, in order to make a point.

Since we've already established that EF has quite a few dudes with zero game, that get no action, and are even in some case virgins, I have to step outside of the realm of sexual activity to get my point across sometimes.

Both ends of the extreme were in the realm of sexual activity though (baby making/sexual adventure)

I guess I realized that takling about your sex life is sort of taboo for the same reason that talking about your income in. You run the risk of making a lot of people feel inadequate.

In some cases this may be, but that was also an ego statement in itself on your part.

 

[KillahBee]

I guess I realized that takling about your sex life is sort of taboo for the same reason that talking about your income in. You run the risk of making a lot of people feel inadequate.

sorry, but where I am from that is just classless and full of approval-seeking.

Different folks, different strokes.

 

[bran987]

I guess I realized that takling about your sex life is sort of taboo for the same reason that talking about your income in. You run the risk of making a lot of people feel inadequate.

lestat you seem like you were raised by some nice folks, they didn't teach you why you don't do this?

 

[KillahBee]

Oh, and one MAJOR difference between any of the examples lestat gave and telling peeps bout sex - those examples have ALL parties involved in the 'sharing" the experience. Not so with sex, guy.

 

[velvett]

I could be wrong but I think immature or insecure people tend to talk about their sex life more than others.......

Ana then there are those that just talk about politics.

 

[Lestat]

lestat you seem like you were raised by some nice folks, they didn't teach you why you don't do this?

sure and they also taught me that some lady had a baby, but never had sex, and that baby died for our sins so we could sing his father's praises for all eternity.

You think i believed much of what they said after THAT cocked up story?

 

[seizer]

I would say it's a pride game for a lot men. Funny thing is, once you really do get "out there" and are one amongst the competition or the "herd", you realize very well that when dudes start using sex or talk of girls to sound bigger, they're actually weaker. ANYONE who has to use sex to power themselves is weak. Why? Because sex is something that we can all get and do. It's not hard. SO, not only are you taking credibility for something that can be attained by so many, but you are also saying that something else within you is lacking forcing you to bring this up. Insecurities, as killah stated.

Should you speak of sex with others....depends. You pretty much have to think if it's absolutely necessary that someone else has to know you hit that shit. Otherwise, to me, it's like taking a shit or eating food. It's something that humans do, we know it goes on behind closed doors...we can assume you do or dont. But we dont HAVE to know. Infact, your better off to keep your mouth shut. Modesty will get you even further AND when you keep some of your cards hidden, you keep people guessing about you. Mystery is appeal aswell.