john937
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My boyfriend for the past 3 years (he's bottom) has been happily married to his wife for 15 years and has 3 kids.
He gets aroused equally by beautiful women as hunky guys.
The thing you have to understand about a true bi-sexual,
is NOT that they CAN have sex with EITHER sex (although true),
but that they actively WANT sex from BOTH sexes.
Sort of a balancing act.
Like when you eat something salty, it makes you then want to eat something sweet.
You can't eat salty food all the time, you want a balance.
The hard thing for anyone bi-sexual, is in order to achieve this balance, they are automatically thrown into a situation every one else labels adultry or cheating.
As a result, most bi-sexual men wind up either very frustrated, or hiding their bi side from their wife.
If I were going to council anyone in relationship with a bi-sexual I would tell them
"Set them free to do what they want, and they will come back to you"
"Force them to make a choice between the two sides of their natures, and they probably won't choose you."
He gets aroused equally by beautiful women as hunky guys.
The thing you have to understand about a true bi-sexual,
is NOT that they CAN have sex with EITHER sex (although true),
but that they actively WANT sex from BOTH sexes.
Sort of a balancing act.
Like when you eat something salty, it makes you then want to eat something sweet.
You can't eat salty food all the time, you want a balance.
The hard thing for anyone bi-sexual, is in order to achieve this balance, they are automatically thrown into a situation every one else labels adultry or cheating.
As a result, most bi-sexual men wind up either very frustrated, or hiding their bi side from their wife.
If I were going to council anyone in relationship with a bi-sexual I would tell them
"Set them free to do what they want, and they will come back to you"
"Force them to make a choice between the two sides of their natures, and they probably won't choose you."
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