Today the biggest guy at my gym showed me a great way to do bench and I'll tell you this is the first time I've ever not felt strain on my shoulders. - On most bars you have a small rough grip in the middle and on each side of that smooth metal then rough grip from there to the end put your thumbs at the beging of that and extend your hands and point your pinkys as far as you can then slide your hand over so that your thumb is know were your pinky was. You get a great stretch and a huge pump.