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Being a virgin: At what age does it become odd?
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I guess it depends on the person and your social circle.
Considering the times we live in, I wouldn't think a 20-something virgin is odd. I don't think he and I would be a good fit, but I wouldn't think it was odd.
I think if I met a 30-something virigin, I would think that was weird.
Considering the times we live in, I wouldn't think a 20-something virgin is odd. I don't think he and I would be a good fit, but I wouldn't think it was odd.
I think if I met a 30-something virigin, I would think that was weird.
silverbackn
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I would say about 16 is uncommon now. I am waiting for marriage now, which many will flame me for. Do what makes you happy, who gives a damn what everyone else thinks.
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alien amp pharm
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I am 29 and the next girl I get with will think I am a virgin because it's been so long since I last got sex.
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silverbackn
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Wait for love, even if it isn't until marriage. Don't lose it to someone who means nothing to you.eat big said:
KillahBee
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silverbackn said:
I disagree. I mean, it's all relative and eatbigcak seems like a dude that would want to wait, so by all means ignore me. But for me, losing your v-card isn't a huge deal and doesn't need to be linked up with love. IMO, the experiences I have had involving my penis and a woman's vagina outweigh the fairytale factor of waiting for "love".
just my personal opinion.
eat big said:
They likely would have cheated on you anyway. So whether you were good or not is irrelevant.
That said, darlin, no one becomes great overnight. It takes practice & confidence (when you are with that lady, know you are the best and sex her like you are the best).
B0ARDIN087
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im 18 and not a virgin........ i think i lost my virginity way later than most, i lost it to a one night stand..... but with some girl that was so hott that it didn't mattter. that was my standards i set, first relationship or first girl that is so hott it doesn't matter. turns out we had sex a few mroe times but not till like a monh later....... forget emotion losing your virginity doesnt mean shit unless ur married, even then........eat big said:
Bigroof
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hey bro take ur time saving it for marriage is cool wish i would have.........sex put a different spin on a relationship kinda like what am i here for the sex or do i really like this chic never know if u really like her if sex is in the equation.....i know it seems gay but its true b/c the sex gets old after a while and then u find out that u hate the bitch but now ur married w/ kids then it cost money to get rid of her
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Raina said:I think it depends on the person. My gf and her fiance will be 26 when they get married in June. Both are virgins. They were one another's first kisses too and they were both 25 at the time.
foxxie
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Everyone has their own perspective of what is odd and not. Some people choose to be a virgin for the rest of their life and some dont. Some choose to lost their virginity at a early age. Some wait till they get married to lost their virginity.
For my opinion when it comes to being still virgin nothing is odd no matter how old you are. However when it comes to talking about what age did you lose your virginity and someone say they lost their virginity at the age 15 and lesser then I found that weird than being still a virgin at age the of 50.
For my opinion when it comes to being still virgin nothing is odd no matter how old you are. However when it comes to talking about what age did you lose your virginity and someone say they lost their virginity at the age 15 and lesser then I found that weird than being still a virgin at age the of 50.
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hotzie said:
I got your back on this one.
I get fussed at by my female friends cuz I dig younger chicks.
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hotzie said:
yep!
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nycgirl said:
dude, she was 25 years old! That's not exactly young.
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alien amp pharm
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Hotzie, lmfao at your karma message!
fistfullofsteel
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you guys are sick. chasing high school chicks and shit. what's wrong with you?
btw, when is the next Miss Teen USA on?
btw, when is the next Miss Teen USA on?
seizer
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Do not put the pussy on the pedestal. It's just a vagina. One insertion and this 19 year wait is finished. Are you starting to wonder if it's that big of a deal? If you do lose it soon, great. If you dont, whatever. It's not like it's written in stone that you cant and you cant do it some other time. Dont make sex bigger than what it should be. Because while it's all spiritual and lovey-dovey-let's connect and bond (sure, ok) it's just a two animals going at it. Remember that.
If your friends base their respect of you on the notches on your belt and you feel you should be well on your way, you're with the wrong people. If not, then this is one less thing you need to worry about making it that much easier for you to understand that it's really a dead issue. People wont know either way what you are, so this wont affect your everyday life...unless you're clearly a square and uptight this and that minus a kit-kat. Fuck.
If your desperate, just go to a bar, flash your gun to some coug, make her laugh, fuck buying her drink (you buy drinks for those you respect, afterall. If it's your hard earned cash, dont throw it away to people you dont give a shit about). That sounds bad, but if it's the pussy you want, it's the pussy you'll get.
If your friends base their respect of you on the notches on your belt and you feel you should be well on your way, you're with the wrong people. If not, then this is one less thing you need to worry about making it that much easier for you to understand that it's really a dead issue. People wont know either way what you are, so this wont affect your everyday life...unless you're clearly a square and uptight this and that minus a kit-kat. Fuck.
If your desperate, just go to a bar, flash your gun to some coug, make her laugh, fuck buying her drink (you buy drinks for those you respect, afterall. If it's your hard earned cash, dont throw it away to people you dont give a shit about). That sounds bad, but if it's the pussy you want, it's the pussy you'll get.
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B0ARDIN087
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how do u figureWootoom said:
They made a movie about a 40 year old virgin.
coldblue1955
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so is it against the law not to have sex??
Well, what did you think? Are you happy you made the decision, or do you regret your actions?eat big said:
Obviously you have no respect for the woman you were with, which doesn't exactly bode well in the emotion/physicality department. Not judging, just stating a fact from the post you made ...
I have a slightly different take on this from what some of the others have said. I've had plain old "animal" sex, no emotions, just lust, and I've been very deeply in love with the person I was with.
There's a difference.
Animal lust is maturbating with help, like some Chinese food, you're left hungry and with a sense of dissatisfaction ...
Making love with the person that you are in love with, when those feelings are shared is a wholy different experience.
eat big said:
Bob Dylan once said, "For the times, they are a changin".
I don't know, I don't know you. Put it this way, check out a comment I made to Killahbee, seems to cover your situation:eat big said:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?p=5800285#post5800285
It has to do with the type of people you're attracted to, and seeing patterns the relationships.
BTW, I don't understand if you're commenting on the girls that you were dating that cheated on you, or the one that you said you lost your virginity to who was an implied dog, or are they all one and the same???
eat big said:
They wanted to be boned.
Here's what I take away from this: First time shouldn't be a big deal for guys, maybe for women since it somewhat sets the impression of what type of girl they'll be sexually in the future (since they're the ones "giving consent"), but hell there are first times for many things. If some were unsatisfying it doesn't mean that we didn't walk away with anything from the experience. At least we learned (hopefully) something. You have to first decide what's most important to you then what you want to do about it.
Destroyer1986*
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Mate keep waiting till you find a nice woman, last thing you want is to lose it to some hoe you meet because thats what everyone else is doing. Fuck everyone else thats what I say.
I was lucky I found a great girl, maybe its just me but I dont have sex with a woman unless I really know her and I cant stand slutty woman they repulse me like anythign even if they're a 10.
I was lucky I found a great girl, maybe its just me but I dont have sex with a woman unless I really know her and I cant stand slutty woman they repulse me like anythign even if they're a 10.
KillahBee
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Thisa doesn't really relate exactly to this thread, but kind of. And it got me thinking...
A while back I dated a younger chick (love them) who had only had like 2 or 3 sexual partners before. above an beyond that, she viewed sex differently than I, sort of as a separation of "love" or feelings. that isn't completely accurate, but you get the idea. (for the record, this chick was horny as all hell...) anywho, we woke up one morning and of course I started to get it going and she obliged. but she stopped me before we did anything and talked to me about how she didn't want this to be about sex only (love that fucking speech). but it wasn't that part that got me, it was a little talk she gave about she doesn't "have to" have sex with me in order to really get into "us". yeah, it as weird. especially to me. but a big part of me kind of wishes I gave it a shot, just to actually see how sex can affect a relationship. I never even considered something like that. never dated a girl that made me wait a long time, never even thought of not having sex every second of the day.
A while back I dated a younger chick (love them) who had only had like 2 or 3 sexual partners before. above an beyond that, she viewed sex differently than I, sort of as a separation of "love" or feelings. that isn't completely accurate, but you get the idea. (for the record, this chick was horny as all hell...) anywho, we woke up one morning and of course I started to get it going and she obliged. but she stopped me before we did anything and talked to me about how she didn't want this to be about sex only (love that fucking speech). but it wasn't that part that got me, it was a little talk she gave about she doesn't "have to" have sex with me in order to really get into "us". yeah, it as weird. especially to me. but a big part of me kind of wishes I gave it a shot, just to actually see how sex can affect a relationship. I never even considered something like that. never dated a girl that made me wait a long time, never even thought of not having sex every second of the day.
who gives a shit...unless ur a fucking loser like fxygel, dont sweat it.eat big said:
if u can talk to girls but are indifferent about it and thats why ur still a virgin, then eventually ull get some...if ur worrieda bout being bad at it, and if u are waiting for someone u care about, and they care about you too, then they will be patient enough to make it not suck, and theyl help u get better
reigninghard
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hey bro...if youre a virgin around all those elon chicks somethings wrong..you need to go out with me and my bros...youll get this thread deleted pronto!
strangebrew
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It doesn't matter.
It's only a problem if you give into the insecurity of thinking it's odd just because society deems it so.
Fuck 'em, do whatever you feel like.
It's only a problem if you give into the insecurity of thinking it's odd just because society deems it so.
Fuck 'em, do whatever you feel like.
GoldenDelicious
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bro, that is just wrong, i dont understand men who do thathotzie said:
...i mean...whats this 12th date shit?
reigninghard
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yes i have tapped chicks at your school since i was a senior in high schooleat big said:
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novamanms
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I was a virgin by choice until 21. I waited until I felt I was mature enough to deal with sex (and lost it to someone I cared about at the time).
It's different for different people. For example, in some countries, it would make sense to have sex in your teens because the life expectancy is so low, you're technically in your middle age.
It's different for different people. For example, in some countries, it would make sense to have sex in your teens because the life expectancy is so low, you're technically in your middle age.
rocky_road
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Before opening this thread I thought to myself "age 22"
Anyways....
I know that teenage girls care so much about who they lose their virginity to. Not so much when, though. Teenage girls can be in a fantasy where they feel the guy they loose it to, say, their boyfriend at the time, will end up being their husband in 20 years. At least I did. I couldn't have cared less how old I was (15). I was just damn glad it felt good and I waited 4 years of knowing this guy, 1 year of having strong feelings for him.
2 years later, i'm 17, haven't had sex for a year and a half going strong, got it all out of my system (lol) between the second half of freshman year and the first half of sophomore year. I lost my virginity freshman year Superbowl Sunday, 2 years ago hahahah isn't that neat? I'm friends with the guy I might have loved at the time, auctually, we're closer friends than we were then (when he took my virginity)....I was in a sort of obsessive infatuation with him. He has the most intriguing personality.
A woman's maturity and romantic experience, compard to a teenage girl's, IMO would make her care much less about who it goes to. I'd also think that they'd care, maybe more than teenage girls, about WHEN to do it, since they're all timeline-planning-oriented. You know, "i need to get married at this time ___ and get my career at this time ___"....I dunno
All I can say for sure is that having experimented with sex, I feel like I know soo much about the consequences and feelings associated with it. I'm so much more happy with my life than I was while having sex. The last guy I had sex with, the 3rd one...I thought for a week or to I might be pregnant, had to take a pregnancy test at my girlfriend's house and it was one of the most scary times of my life. Thank god I wasn't pregnant. Haven't had sex since that time......
and i'm really glad that happened (the scaryness), because the next time I have it will be with someone with whom I have an intensely close relationship with, am safe with birth control a huge plus, dating someone, and 98% likely having graduated high school.
Someone asked if its ok for a 25 year old to have sex with a girl my age, even if she consents,,,, ....God that's wrong. Teenagers are vulnerable and some are intriguied my older men, don't take advantage of that. Our part of the brain that teaches us to be careful and knowledgeable of consequences isn't fully developed yet, be the man and don't do that shit.
***Jessica***
PS you guys just learned a lot about me!
Anyways....
I know that teenage girls care so much about who they lose their virginity to. Not so much when, though. Teenage girls can be in a fantasy where they feel the guy they loose it to, say, their boyfriend at the time, will end up being their husband in 20 years. At least I did. I couldn't have cared less how old I was (15). I was just damn glad it felt good and I waited 4 years of knowing this guy, 1 year of having strong feelings for him.
2 years later, i'm 17, haven't had sex for a year and a half going strong, got it all out of my system (lol) between the second half of freshman year and the first half of sophomore year. I lost my virginity freshman year Superbowl Sunday, 2 years ago hahahah isn't that neat? I'm friends with the guy I might have loved at the time, auctually, we're closer friends than we were then (when he took my virginity)....I was in a sort of obsessive infatuation with him. He has the most intriguing personality.
A woman's maturity and romantic experience, compard to a teenage girl's, IMO would make her care much less about who it goes to. I'd also think that they'd care, maybe more than teenage girls, about WHEN to do it, since they're all timeline-planning-oriented. You know, "i need to get married at this time ___ and get my career at this time ___"....I dunno
All I can say for sure is that having experimented with sex, I feel like I know soo much about the consequences and feelings associated with it. I'm so much more happy with my life than I was while having sex. The last guy I had sex with, the 3rd one...I thought for a week or to I might be pregnant, had to take a pregnancy test at my girlfriend's house and it was one of the most scary times of my life. Thank god I wasn't pregnant. Haven't had sex since that time......
and i'm really glad that happened (the scaryness), because the next time I have it will be with someone with whom I have an intensely close relationship with, am safe with birth control a huge plus, dating someone, and 98% likely having graduated high school.
Someone asked if its ok for a 25 year old to have sex with a girl my age, even if she consents,,,, ....God that's wrong. Teenagers are vulnerable and some are intriguied my older men, don't take advantage of that. Our part of the brain that teaches us to be careful and knowledgeable of consequences isn't fully developed yet, be the man and don't do that shit.
***Jessica***
PS you guys just learned a lot about me!
rocky_road
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SublimeZM said:
You're welcome, now why don't you give me some of that karma?
haha.
***Jessica***
GoldenDelicious
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youre right, teenage girls should only have sex with clueless teenage guys, despite the fact that theyre generally worse at everything manly (sex, how to act, how to make a girl feel good etc) and will probably give the girl a lot more grief than an older guy because, wait for it...he's of a similar agerocky_road said:
yah. that makes sense
anyway, id be truly offended if i fit into your category, i mean, a 25 year old guy with a teenage girl? thats plain wrong.
...because im 26
rocky_road
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GoldenDelicious said:
rocky_road
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hotzie said:
I don't know.
I might be.
Get off my back.
lol jk
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