Bdsm???

[nefertiti]

Okay, thanks. No, I'm not really turned on by giving up control. Actually, it scares me. I guess that is maybe why I can't get it.

Actually the memory stick is at home...later on.

 

[cindylou]

You've never been turned on by the idea of complete submission of control in the bedroom? Forget bdsm for a second...and look at it like this. There is something completely liberating and....empowering to choose to give up all control, but yes - it requires a LOT of trust. That's the dynamic you're not getting, though both spy and I said it...it's the submissive who always maintains control. The dominant partner is merely giving the submissive what he or she desires. I don't really get into the BDSM thing (don't ask why I know so much about it), but I'm not going to lie...there are aspects of submission that I definitely understand the appeal of. Hmmmm....I'm going to send you a (fictional) story I wrote a while back...might illuminate things a little...PM coming.

i want the pm too. lol

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

In for when I get to a real computer. Subs are not often in control like many have made it sound. Sorta defeats the purpose of sub space , its also called topping from the bottom etc etc

 

[Bikini Mod]

All the control lies in the hands of the submissive or else it is not truly a dominant/submissive relationship.

 

[heatherrae]

Actually the memory stick is at home...later on.

lol...coool. I'm waiting with baited breath.

 

[stosstruppe]

there's girls posting nude pics


gunna have to step your game up if you want attention

ololo

 

[redsamurai]

I dated a local domme some years back........fun times. You have to be a slut to enjoy BDSM.........guilty as charged I guess........


Doing stuff with complete strangers is whack though.......but with a SO that shit can get hot as hell. The woman I dated was a switch in personal relationships..........topping her was the hottest shit I've ever done. And god damn do those women know what they're doing when it's your turn to be tied up.............god damn!.....

 

[redsamurai]

That's not bdsm...that's nuts. There's a motto that lifestylers use....safe, SANE, and consentual. (and no, I'm not a lifestyler)

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^^^liar^^^^

 

[redsamurai]

I really guess I'm BORING. I just don't get into that sort of thing. I've dressed up for men before, but I feel absolutely retarded pretending to be a little catholic school girl or a naughty nurse. I never know what to say, and then I get sort of tickled because it just all seems so absurd and unnecessary to me. It feels so good to just be able to concentrate on the flesh on flesh feelings without all the added psychological stuff.

I agree that role playing can be awful silly and giggle fit inducing. However, being with someone who knows how to bring out the primal instincts in you is unbeleivable. With the right person, it's an awesome experience.

 

[redsamurai]

I sort of like being smacked in the face (lightly) but I'm not sure why. That is the extent of my kinkiness though.

uh oh, does KB know this??