Bdsm???

[velvett]

call me crazy but I enjoy a nice butt/ thigh paddling
and with enough benadryl in my body I enjoy a snug latex dress now and again

oddly enough I don't much care for dirty talk

 

[nefertiti]

I think when it lasts outside sex and into the relationship the Dom might keep the sub on a leash or in a cage.

i coudl be wrong though too

someone can correct me if i am.

Ack...I've never heard of someone actually using a cage...but there is something called "collaring"...but that can be very subtle...a necklace or ring or bracelet. But even that's taking it past dom/sub to dom/slave...very very few take it that far.

Heather...there's always a chance that one would run into a guy who was a dick and genuinely enjoyed hurting and humiliating women...but that's not the way it's supposed to be....a dom should cherish and adore his/her partner, and would ideally make said partner feel as if he/she did.

 

[calveless wonder]

Ack...I've never heard of someone actually using a cage...but there is something called "collaring"...but that can be very subtle...a necklace or ring or bracelet. But even that's taking it past dom/sub to dom/slave...very very few take it that far.

Heather...there's always a chance that one would run into a guy who was a dick and genuinely enjoyed hurting and humiliating women...but that's not the way it's supposed to be....a dom should cherish and adore his/her partner, and would ideally make said partner feel as if he/she did.

you know way too much about this shit ms. freakaleek

 

[nefertiti]

you know way too much about this shit ms. freakaleek

lol...I'm not going there....but most of what I know is not from experience.

 

[heatherrae]

Smacked with what?

your hand

 

[bw1]

your hand

I'll keep that in mind

 

[jnevin]

It's good to see that none of the men know shit about sex around here. Only cindylou could begin to answer the question....lol.

lolz

Says the person that started the thread.

 

[heatherrae]

Ack...I've never heard of someone actually using a cage...but there is something called "collaring"...but that can be very subtle...a necklace or ring or bracelet. But even that's taking it past dom/sub to dom/slave...very very few take it that far.

Heather...there's always a chance that one would run into a guy who was a dick and genuinely enjoyed hurting and humiliating women...but that's not the way it's supposed to be....a dom should cherish and adore his/her partner, and would ideally make said partner feel as if he/she did.

hmmmm...I dont understand how if you love and adore someone you would want to make them wear a collar, like a possession.

???

I'm trying to get my head around the psychology of that.

 

[rnch]

sick sick sick

there ain't gonna be no pain or domination in MY bed......only happiness and pleasure for all there!

 

[jnevin]