I hate the term as well. Sure be clean and neat, but that is not really a big deal. Some things like shaving or waxing and tanning come with the bodybuilding life, but there is a reason for that.
If you go Michael Jackson on us, you deserve to get the crap beat out of you. Though its hard to call him a metrosexual, maybe pedophile would be more fitting.
A metrosexual is a man who takes care of himself (ie using lotion, taking care of his nails, hair, etc.). A man can do this and still be manly. Being a jacked bodybuilder is manly in itself, combine that with him taking care of himself and you got both things.
Yes and No. I do take good care of myself and make shure that my appearance is good. Yes I do Use hand lotion here and there, but come on, name one woman who wants a rough as hell hand all over her body, let alone down her pants.