Are BiSexual People the Most Demented?

[curling]

I'm dating a bisexual. Trust me, it's not that simple.

I was wondering why the interest in this thread. Man, I feel for you. That is going to be like ultimately hard to deal with. I mean you not only have to worry about other dudes you have to worry about chicks too.

 

[Y_lifter]

It's french for "Whipping Boy".
Actually, it means "Under Chef" Usually the second in charge of a given shift. I had a day souschef and a night souschef.

Thanks.. I may need that the next time I'm on Jeopardy..

Oh and curling.. Please RE READ your title particularly the words
"MOST DEMENTED"

Implying they are not only demented, but way demented..
Then you can delete this thread

 

[curling]

Thanks.. I may need that the next time I'm on Jeopardy..

Oh and curling.. Please RE READ your title particularly the words
"MOST DEMENTED"

Implying they are not only demented, but way demented..
Then you can delete this thread

No I was making a point about all sexuality. I mean I guess gay people think we are a little strange since we are not like them. I was saying bisexual are not either one of us. I guess what I was trying to say was that homosexuals say they can't help being attractive to men just like we can't help being attracted to women. But the bisexual has a real choice do they not? If it came wrong, I apologize but I still think it is an interesting topic. If the mods don't agree, I will gladly close it.

 

[Y_lifter]

No I was making a point about all sexuality. I mean I guess gay people think we are a little strange since we are not like them. I was saying bisexual are not either one of us. I guess what I was trying to say was that homosexuals say they can't help being attractive to men just like we can't help being attracted to women. But the bisexual has a real choice do they not? If it came wrong, I apologize but I still think it is an interesting topic. If the mods don't agree, I will gladly close it.

Dude... Your shovel is getting dull...

 

[FreeballinDC]

No I was making a point about all sexuality. I mean I guess gay people think we are a little strange since we are not like them. I was saying bisexual are not either one of us. I guess what I was trying to say was that homosexuals say they can't help being attractive to men just like we can't help being attracted to women. But the bisexual has a real choice do they not? If it came wrong, I apologize but I still think it is an interesting topic. If the mods don't agree, I will gladly close it.

Now I get it.

I personally don't think straight people are strange for wanting to have sex with the opposite sex. Nor do I think it's strange for homo's to have sex with people of the same sex. Bi sexuals, in my opinion, have the best of both worlds. They can have sex with whoever they want.

I am seeing a guy who researching the phenomenon known as the Down Low.

These are guys who are so closeted and afraid of being labeled as gay, that they'll marry a woman, but still have sex with men on the side. He left me a book to read on the subject. Very interesting personal insights from the author on what it's like to want a woman and want a man at the same time.

 

[curling]

Ok I am lost on that proverb. Are you saying that I was digging my own grave fast earlier but now I am slowing down and not digging my grave as fast now because the shovel is duller or what? I slept 2 hours laat night.

 

[john937]

Damn, I promised myself I wasn't going to get into it, but...
The way my boyfriend explains it:
"You can choose to eat only salty food.
You can choose to eat only sweet food.
But you don't. You eat a balance of BOTH sweet and salty.
If you eat too much of one it makes you crave the other even more."
He is perfectly happy with his woman, but it makes him want to even
things out with a guy.
It's about balance.

 

[curling]

Damn, I promised myself I wasn't going to get into it, but...
The way my boyfriend explains it:
"You can choose to eat only salty food.
You can choose to eat only sweet food.
But you don't. You eat a balance of BOTH sweet and salty.
If you eat too much of one it makes you crave the other even more."
He is perfectly happy with his woman, but it makes him want to even
things out with a guy.
It's about balance.

Ok how is that going to work for you? I mean are you going to let him go out with other chicks? Do they not count as cheating? Becuase this is a weird hetro thing here. I don't think i would be as mad at my wife if I caught her with a chick is I would a dude? Do you feel the same way?

 

[coverguy]

Oh.. And I don't buy the whole Bi sexual thing..

I think they just like being pleasured, and don't really care by who..

Agreed. That is a great point.

 

[john937]

Monogomy is highly overrated.
I really don't get the "cheating" thing.
Agonizing over who's been "cheated on" strikes me as a very insecure point of view.
I reaks of "I'm so inferior, if I loose this lover, I'll never get another!" yech!
If he wants to be with me and I want to be with him,
what difference does it make who else he wants to see tomorrow?
(assuming disease protection all around).
Plus if he has the freedom to "cheat" on me,
then I have the freedom to "cheat" on him.

Generally, I've found in relationships with men,
the more freedom I give them,
the more the enjoy being with me.