Are all women bisexual?

[justyxxxx]

Re: Re: Re: Are all women bisexual?

why not a dog or cat I think that being bi is a form of being insatiable and greedy. I have friends that are gay and they all know my views and I've tried to understand theirs, but everytime a gay person tells me theyre version on why theyre gay ....it just doesnt make sense, no rational sense anyway. I work at a sugar bar, I'm a bouncer, and I've heard it all. I've encountered hundreds of people from all over and hanz and justy I seriously doubt your reasons make any sense either to us saine folk. Some things you just dont try......remember that
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Some people will say that all people are bisexual. I don't necessarily agree or disagree with this.

I can marvel at a mans physique and aspire to be like him, but wanting to kiss and hold him .......thats off on a whole other planet and I'm no where in sight dog. YOU ALL KEEP TWISTING ADORATION AND ADMORATION WITH AFFECTION. Dont get it twisted [/QUOTE]

Well, it probably makes no sense to you because you're not gay. Some people choose not to understand things, and some people, like you, might actually want to try to understand something, but can't simply because you're not feeling the same thing as a gay person. I know that this isn't the best comparison, but it's like someone like me trying to understand why Jeffery Dahmer killed people. We can have ideas, but I still don't understand. I'm not him. I haven't been thru what he's been thru. I don't have the same genetic makeup as he does, etc. etc.

I don't think that I'm twisting anything around. Not once did I say that anyone that is straight would want to do all of the kissing, holding-type things that you mentioned to a person of the same sex. I said the following: "I think that most (if not all) of us COULD have a nice sexual experience with either sex, but that's not necessarily what we desire and so why bother."

 

[justyxxxx]

So what's the main stance here?

Is sexuality a choice? or is it just how you are?

Is there any crossover? (i.e. for some, it's a choice, for some it's just how they are)?

Hey,

I don't believe that you can choose who you love. Regarding sex, you can have sex with just about anyone, but it's what you think about most of the time that matters. For the most part, I'd have to say NO - you can't choose. We can pretend that we are one way, but sexual orientation is one of those things where, if it CAN be changed, it would take some really good brain-altering drugs to do it.

My body tells me what I want sexually and even if I tell it I want something else, it doesn't stick, it goes back to telling me what it wants . . .

My opinion.

 

[justyxxxx]

Re: No not at all...

I dont mean that if your straight you cant get along with gays just that ive met enough of them and had enough with their hitting on me so i dont really associate with them anymore!!! Don't get me wrong every once in a while u meet 1 or 2 at a party but you make sure they realize the consequences of trying to hit on you by this point so they dont make that mistake other than that i got nothing against them!!!

You know, in some ways I can understand where you're coming from. I've gotten tired of people hitting on me before, too. But, we're all different and sometimes it's difficult to put away what some have said or done to us and look differently at them. I encourage you to, however, try to do just that. I'm personally not one of those guys that's gonna touch you or intentionally make you feel uncomfortable. However, I will say this, some people have SAID that I'm hitting on them - but hitting on someone and being nice to someone are TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. I mean we're talking about some very UGLY ASS guys that have said this and I'm like - ughhhh, no, I DEFINITELY wasn't hitting on him. So please try to remove the "consequences of trying to hit on you" statement when you meet gay people. I don't mean this aimed directly at you, but it really makes someone look like a dumbass.

 

[justyxxxx]

oh yeah, needsize, not to be gay or anything, but that's a sexy pic . . .

Justin

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

Needsize...

Who ever said anything about fighting but just for your info if i ever saw you in the streets and you tried to hit on me just because its you id send you on a first class trip down the river!!! Can care less bout how many years you have in a field like social work...why dont you find a job that actually helps people instead fuckin young people's families up. You couldn't make it to grad school so stop contradicting yourself in your helpless rants about bullshit. I have the right to dislike fags if i want and you can't do shit about it. Goes to show whose more of a homo. If you have a wife i feel sorry for her she could use a real man like myself!!!!

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

NeedSize...

By the way Justy likes u man!!!

 

[justyxxxx]

Hey TheDarkSideNinja,

Not to be gay or anything, but that's a sexy outfit you have on. ha.

Justin

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Hey,

I don't believe that you can choose who you love. Regarding sex, you can have sex with just about anyone, but it's what you think about most of the time that matters. For the most part, I'd have to say NO - you can't choose. We can pretend that we are one way, but sexual orientation is one of those things where, if it CAN be changed, it would take some really good brain-altering drugs to do it.

My body tells me what I want sexually and even if I tell it I want something else, it doesn't stick, it goes back to telling me what it wants . . .

My opinion.

How about bisexuality? Choice or hardwired?

 

[justyxxxx]

How about bisexuality? Choice or hardwired?

I'm gonna tell you what I know, but hopefully someone that is bi will add to it. I've asked bi people, so which one do you prefer the most? And the ones that I've asked generally say something like, I don't know - I guess it's about 50/50.

This is something that I left open in my response to you by saying "For the most part", because bisexuality kind-of confuses me. Yes, even the great God that I am gets confused and I'd like to hear more from this portion to get their take.

Justin

 

[ANABOLICK1]

I believe most are born gay, but for some it's a learned behaviour. Some were influnced by experiences in childhood..